gonnamakeit2
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I don't even click on these threads, based on the titles, most of them just look like a bunch of whining to me. I literally after writing that sentence clicked on two threads just to confirm before posting, and yup, this stuff has nothing to do with actually putting in work.
As I've mentioned I was on this website years ago, in the past there was a lot more action oriented stuff.
Heres the deal, the world doesn't owe you anything, nobody owes you anything. It's up to you to try and get what you want. DO NOT TRY AND GET SUCCESS BASED ON ONE LUCKY EVENT. A lot of these posts are asking about how to capitalize on some girl who you think might be interested or some girl who looked at you or said hi or some girl a friend introduced you to.
Do not rely on luck, it never ever works. Consistency is key. You need to change yourself, this is what I am learning more and more. Luck is real and bad luck happens no matter what and it sucks, but good luck doesn't happen if you suck. If you are not consistently meeting women and consistently improving yourself it doesn't matter what opportunity falls in your lap, you will not have the ability to capitalize. Somewhere along the line it will fall through.
Basics of women.
(generally)
She won't tell you no directly
If you keep pursuing her she'll just blow you off
She's not playing games
She just wasn't interested
She probably wasn't connected to you
And you probably aren't selective enough and are too needy.
She's not crazy
It's not too much work to get laid
You just don't know what you are doing, and that is perfectly fine. You learn what you are doing through experience then you **** it all up, then you'll learn something new again.
And here is the huge key. YOU MUST BE HAPPY WITH OR WITHOUT GIRLS IN YOUR LIFE. Have tons and tons of fun, you should be going out and doing something fun every single day.
Being non needy and not being mad if a girl cancels is not a technique to make women like you.
It is the way your life should actually be lived.
It is not a girl or anyone else's responsibility to make you happy. You need to be happy and enjoying yourself, and then you are offering something. If you want a girl to make you happy or you'll feel better if she likes you, you are asking for something, why would she have interest? And you will feel bad if you are "denied". If you are already happy and you just want to go share your happiness with other people including attractive women, you will have a ton of fun and be having fun with her and other people you are offering something and will be happy regardless of how others react.
As I've mentioned I was on this website years ago, in the past there was a lot more action oriented stuff.
Heres the deal, the world doesn't owe you anything, nobody owes you anything. It's up to you to try and get what you want. DO NOT TRY AND GET SUCCESS BASED ON ONE LUCKY EVENT. A lot of these posts are asking about how to capitalize on some girl who you think might be interested or some girl who looked at you or said hi or some girl a friend introduced you to.
Do not rely on luck, it never ever works. Consistency is key. You need to change yourself, this is what I am learning more and more. Luck is real and bad luck happens no matter what and it sucks, but good luck doesn't happen if you suck. If you are not consistently meeting women and consistently improving yourself it doesn't matter what opportunity falls in your lap, you will not have the ability to capitalize. Somewhere along the line it will fall through.
Basics of women.
(generally)
She won't tell you no directly
If you keep pursuing her she'll just blow you off
She's not playing games
She just wasn't interested
She probably wasn't connected to you
And you probably aren't selective enough and are too needy.
She's not crazy
It's not too much work to get laid
You just don't know what you are doing, and that is perfectly fine. You learn what you are doing through experience then you **** it all up, then you'll learn something new again.
And here is the huge key. YOU MUST BE HAPPY WITH OR WITHOUT GIRLS IN YOUR LIFE. Have tons and tons of fun, you should be going out and doing something fun every single day.
Being non needy and not being mad if a girl cancels is not a technique to make women like you.
It is the way your life should actually be lived.
It is not a girl or anyone else's responsibility to make you happy. You need to be happy and enjoying yourself, and then you are offering something. If you want a girl to make you happy or you'll feel better if she likes you, you are asking for something, why would she have interest? And you will feel bad if you are "denied". If you are already happy and you just want to go share your happiness with other people including attractive women, you will have a ton of fun and be having fun with her and other people you are offering something and will be happy regardless of how others react.
