you guys should know this thing.

sunnykhatri736

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I met a 35 year old woman and i approached her and took her number as i didnt knew she is married at that time. I thought she is also 21 just like me.
i started talking to her and getting to know stuff about her
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whole story .
sunday : exchanged numbers with her
got to know her
sunday night we become a couple and she becomes my girlfriend.
monday : started talking sexual and romantic things and plans a date on next day as she asked me for coffee and she was coming near my place as her parents live there
but i asked her to go to some private place so that we can have some private moments instead of public place and she agreed.
tuesday : she flaked saying her daughter is ill .
i didnt talked to her whole day
in evening she replied saying sorry
i said not to cancel a date next time otherwise she wont get to talk to me again.
and i said lets meet sunday otherwise i will delete ur number and wont talk to u anymore then she agreed.
wednesday : she tells that she slept and her husband read all our chats and he is mad at her and she cant risk her family so we shouldnt talk anymore but somehow i managed her to keep the talking going.
thursday : i didnt texted her so she texted me and i didnt replied back again then she texted again so i replied and talked to her again sexually and asked her fav positions and all.
friday : she becomes cold
she stops saying loveyou and stops giving kisses and stops talking sexually and all she could talk was her husband being mad at her for cheating on him.
saturday: she said its not easy for her to talk to me n all.
sunday : get a call from her and she asks to meet at 3pm at a coffee shop near her place
i get a call from her at 2:50pm saying that she has reached there .
i havent been to that coffee shop before so it took me 40 minutes to find that and i reached there at 3:40 and i got 15 calls from her saying she is getting late and have to go but still she waited for me for me for 1 hr and then i went on date place and she stood up from her chair and she wanted to shake hand but i went for hug and kissed her cheeks. And she was laughing on whole date and smiling and we had fun but on date only she mentioned that its not easy for her to remain my girlfriend and its really tensed for her to manage things and we should stay just friends . I did kino. I said that " u colored ur hair they look beautiful " and then i put her hair behind her ear. Then i touched her ear complimenting her earings n all. Then i wanted to put my hand on hers but she kept her hands in air only. Then she got many phone calls from clients so she had to leave. I wanted to go for kiss but it was a public place so couldnt. Then i got a text from her 1 hour later.
her : sorry sunny but u made me feel uncomfortable today and it was so embarrasing when u hugged me and touched my hair .
Lets end it here.
we are just friends now.
move on and let me go .
me : i just hugged my girlfriend . Its perfect and i was comfortable in everything i did.
her : i never mentioned im ur girlfriend. Im a girl who is ur friend.
and lets end it here because i cant cheat on my family anymore.
i would have dated u i had been single because u are most amazing guy i ever met and im married so u understand and move on .
how to deal with her and where did i went wrong with her ? I feel i did everything perfect.
 

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How to deal with her? Stop dealing with her and move on.
Where did you go wrong? With every single step.

This made me cringe.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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You have to understand the culture in your own country and how women think, then apply it to your game.

I know that this doesn't help much, but in some countries what you did would get you in a lot of trouble, especially with male relatives.
 

NSX-R

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She's the wife of someone else, what made you think of her as your gf. The woman has a man and kids, she shows signs that she has regreted it and you keep on after her. You are trying to destroy a family for your own pleasure.
Do what she said, be glad that she's trying to get rid of you because you are heading to a fall from a cliff
 

devilkingx2

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how did you think she was your gf after one day?
why is it so unbelievable that a married woman doesn't want a side guy? is loyalty a foreign concept to you?
 

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From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
I read this long ass wall of text to see that you were dealing with a married attention wh0re? Oh, hell no!

Dammit, she's not interested and you care too much.

Lost. F**kin'. Cause.

You got friendzoned. She's flakes on you when things are about to heat up. And you can do better than this. Move on. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 
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