You guy's get bored AFTER the chase?

[Demonicale]

I'm in a weird position that whenever i "get the girl" or have sex with her, after that i lose ALL intrest and it's a struggle to carry on with that girl.

It's the same with every girl ...

Anyone else feel the same?.

 

[MurdocNiccals]

Yeah, that's normal, keep doing it.

Hirarious anecdote:

(Okay it's not hilarious it's just a regular story...)

This girl I met was smoking hot, we kinda jointly initiated contact with each other, kind of weird but yeah... Anyway she was hot, then she started being VERY VERY clingy and crazy about me once I said I'd go out with her, next day I met up she was like I don't ****ing know. She was telling people to get off their seats so me and my friends could sit down and stuff like that... Then she made some little kids get off the zipline because me and my mates wanted to go on it (we were younger then as you can tell ) and it reallllly turned me off even though she was literally smoking hot, then she got pissed off and left, then I REALLY fancied her again, so I said I do like her really it was just my friends were there so I couldn't do anything with her, so she met me the next day the same and I went off her again because she was clingy... So she told me if I didn't kiss her she'd kick me in the balls Then she got annoyed and left... Now I kick myself constantly for not going along with it...

Fuuuu-

 

[joe henny]

Yeah me too. I also find it a struggle to go on dates with them. The reason why is because we're only interested in the ***** and nneed to find girls that we actually like.

 

[Demonicale]

Yeah, that's normal, keep doing it.

Hirarious anecdote:

(Okay it's not hilarious it's just a regular story...)

This girl I met was smoking hot, we kinda jointly initiated contact with each other, kind of weird but yeah... Anyway she was hot, then she started being VERY VERY clingy and crazy about me once I said I'd go out with her, next day I met up she was like I don't ****ing know. She was telling people to get off their seats so me and my friends could sit down and stuff like that... Then she made some little kids get off the zipline because me and my mates wanted to go on it (we were younger then as you can tell ) and it reallllly turned me off even though she was literally smoking hot, then she got pissed off and left, then I REALLY fancied her again, so I said I do like her really it was just my friends were there so I couldn't do anything with her, so she met me the next day the same and I went off her again because she was clingy... So she told me if I didn't kiss her she'd kick me in the balls Then she got annoyed and left... Now I kick myself constantly for not going along with it...

Fuuuu-

Same thing with me kind of, dated this girl IN HER HOUSE lol ... had sex, then went off her, few days later met again, went to see a movie and went back had sex ...

After that i said it was cause she had a daughter that we could'nt be together.Forward 2 weeks then i say i only said it cause i was afraid to get close.

It's soooo messed up!, is it not lol

 

[MurdocNiccals]

It's soooo messed up!, is it not lol

Not at all, keep doing it.

Sometimes I feel like I might have intimacy issues though, or something weird like that

 

[Demonicale]

Not at all, keep doing it.

Sometimes I feel like I might have intimacy issues though, or something weird like that

I feel the same way, specially after and when she is trying to be all cute and kissing me and that ... i'm totally not intrested

 

[Pierce]

I get that when I mess with any girl beside my gf. Whenever I pull and get what I want then I lose all appeal for them.

 

[Prodigy746]

Yup i understand this. Happens to me all the time, when a girl is throwing herself at me i am like shes not hot enough or i dont want her. Fast forward 1 month later she got a bf and i start looking at her and all of a sudden i want that ass or i think she is hot.

I hate this about my self.

 

[pipe007]

welcome to the human experience club.

this is normal for men and women.

 

[jafyk]

Hmmm, I think maybe because those women are probably not interesting. I haven't met lot of interesting women and a lot of them do come as dumb to me. The appeal they tend to have is their physical look. So, in my case after the deed has been done it becomes this "ok...what else is there?" Some of the girls can't even maintain a convo and when you ask them for their opinion on something it's "I don't care whatever you want" That line almost wants to make me scream. Although, I'm single right now and have been in a bad spell recently I think back to this scenario and not feel so bad. The meet (or dates as a prelude to fvck) to fvck gets old. It's so ironic. You see ppl in relationships yet even though you might envy them yet when you talk to them they are not that happy or satisfied themselves. What an irony.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

This has been happening with me as well. Im sure when the right Hottie comes along you won't get bored as quick.

 

[Zarky]

When the girl is smoking hot and the sex is great and you don't see her every damn day, then no it doesn't happen, at least not for a couple of years.

The ones I get "bored" with are the ones who are good looking enough to "pursue" but who turn out to be sh*t or just average in bed. Those get screwn a couple of times and then I tell 'em we have "no sexual chemistry" (which is true).

I'm about to do this with a chick I've screwn twice. Each time it's been a test of wills getting her in the sack. She was raised catholic and is totally neurotic about sex. She looks good and has a smokin' body but the BS I have to put up with before and after sex is just ridiculous. So she's a pump and dump. She's mid 30s and her longest rel'p was like 8 months and I'm not surprised.

 

[MurdocNiccals]

1 month later she got a bf and i start looking at her and all of a sudden i want that ass or i think she is hot.

I hate this about my self.

HAHAHA SO THIS! If a guy is into a girl, say one of my friends says "oh yeah she's hottt" I feel really into her lmao out of the blue when I didn't at all before xD

If she has a boyfriend I feel slightly jealous even if I was only very very slightly attracted to her then I start heavily flirting with her so she can be my friend with benefits

 

[Hannah]

I get into a relationship after the chase and I feel like I'm all in love but a month or 2 go by and I just get bored of a guy like seriously than when they get another partner than it just makes me jealous and I hate being like this I've never fallen in love before and **** I see everyone doing it and I just wanna steal all their boyfriends

 

[Hannah]

I'm in a weird position that whenever i "get the girl" or have sex with her, after that i lose ALL intrest and it's a struggle to carry on with that girl.

It's the same with every girl ...

Anyone else feel the same?.

I feel ya

 

[bigneil]

Losing interest after sex means you don't like her that much. Trust me, if you sleep with your dream girl you will want to see her again.

Remember: a man rejecting a woman AFTER sex is the same dynamic as a woman rejecting a man BEFORE sex.

That is our natural tendency. Before sex, the woman considers all your flaws. After sex, she thinks of your good points. Meanwhile, before sex a man thinks of all a woman's good points and after sex considers all her flaws.

This is the way the Universe tests the mettle of a relationship (among other ways). Unless both the man and woman can survive a period of TRYING not to like the other person (when we try we usually succeed at not liking them), the relationship dissolves.

 

[wifehunter]

The gingerbread man never tires if the chase.

Catch me if you can!

 

[Roober]

Losing interest after sex means you don't like her that much. Trust me, if you sleep with your dream girl you will want to see her again.

Remember: a man rejecting a woman AFTER sex is the same dynamic as a woman rejecting a man BEFORE sex.

That is our natural tendency. Before sex, the woman considers all your flaws. After sex, she thinks of your good points. Meanwhile, before sex a man thinks of all a woman's good points and after sex considers all her flaws.

This is the way the Universe tests the mettle of a relationship (among other ways). Unless both the man and woman can survive a period of TRYING not to like the other person (when we try we usually succeed at not liking them), the relationship dissolves.

Good stuff! I have recently had one like this... think I will let that plate fall... It's not that we are using them for secks. Secks is essentially just our qualifying act to determine our attraction for that woman.

 

[Von]

All the time and I can't wait for them to leave.
I got intimacy issues anyway

With time and freedom it gets better.
Someday a unicorn might come around the corner

 

[dustmuffin]

Yes I get bored. I just keep them around to have easy access to p ussy. In fact I get bored with all of them unless they like it really rough. That keeps my attention for awhile. They leave I move on . No big deal.