You ever "try" to find a girl attractive?

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Recently I've had like ZERO attraction to women in general. When a good looking women does pass by me, I may look I may not I dont care either way. The last time I ever felt the need to approach was at work(I work retail) was like a month ago and this hourglass figure Russian chick had given me some serious bonerage. I did walk over to her and ask her where she was from blah blah..nothing serious.

The point is that since I dont see attractive women on a daily basis I think Im trying to trick my mind to see the chicks that I do see in hallways,etc. Attractive. Which is ok, cause some of them are they just dont get me all excited/jittery like I used to get. The problem for me is that I may approach anyways and the Natural-ness of things just wont be there.

Hot dang, anyone know what im sayin?

 

[Ace of Flames]

no, i dont know what your sayin. i see fine chicks in the hallways everyday. i guess im just lucky, we have lots of good lookin girls at my school.

sux2bu

 

[LiveStrong]

yeah bro i know what you're saying...its kinda like when you're at a party and you cant leave and the only chicks there are mildly good looking...on a normal day/any other situation you'd never approach them..however since they are they only girls there you settle for whats best...and settling for best isn't always whats best..
Another Example:
Back in my AFC days i dated a girl who was a nice HB5...i only dated her because she showed me interest and wanted to date me...in other words i settled..
Nowadays a HB5 is nothing id even think about hooking up with...
I really cant give you any advice on improving this aaspect of yours...cept maybe going to clubs that host very beautiful woman..or HB8.5+ hangout spots...i dunno
GL
-Respect

 

[vorbis]

know the feeling, try working in IT!
Theres a few really good looking women but most are distinctly average. In a club situation you'd call them UGs but at work you try to find them attractive.

 

[reyalp]

i've never had that problem.

my problem is average looking chicks who are really interesting.

i mean the other day i met a 18yo B5 who:
-plays guitar (she has a guitar just like mine actually, same color/year everything)
-plays Unreal Tournament (a computer game i used to play a lot in the evenings)
-likes classic rock, and her favorite guitarist is Stevie Ray Vaughan (same as me)
-she's 5'2, 105lbs, and has long jet black hair. she's probably somewhere right on the edge of an A/B cup. i think she has a 26" waist or something. she had a smallish butt, but her body looked decent. her face was just very plain though.
-she drives a Ford F150 pickup
-she likes to cook
-she is going to school to get an MBA.
-her favorite drinks are Coors Light and Tequila
-she likes dark beers as well, and she knew what Spaten Optimator was



i mean, this chick, even though she's not that pretty or anything, she complements my personality, i could have a hell of a time with this chick. but i'm just not attracted to her, and i don't think i ever could be.


i need a girl like the above, just an HB8.5/9 instead

 

[Desdinova]

my problem is average looking chicks who are really interesting.

I've had this happen. I met one girl who had the same music interests as me, was really energetic, and lots of fun. However, her body was plain, her face was ugly, and I found it difficult to look into her beady eyes through her coke-bottle glasses.

 

[reyalp]

Yeah, I've considered just reeling in the B5 and giving her some plastic surgery to bump her up to at least a 7. I think I could be content with that for a while. She really needs some face work done though.


Oh, and there's no glasses on this one, but she might wear contacts.

I think it's just the face, man if you stuck another head on this chick she would look soooo much better.

 

[foomee]

well what happens with me... usually i'm not attracted to a girl right away. rather i get to know them, and it sounds corny, but i like girls for who they are inside. maybe that's your problem? no clue..

 

[NHY]

My last case of oneitis ( or however its spelt ) from 2002 - 2005 ( when I finished Secondary School ) fitted only ranked as a HB4 - 5, so what made me fall for her? She was too gosh damned nice to me for own good! She was brainy ( In fact, within a week of starting my 1st year of secondary school in 2000, it was already estabhlised that she was the ' class swot ' , so to speak and no , she wasn't fat, either ) and such and unlike others, actually took some time to try and understand me

Then I got obsessed... we fell out.... it wasn't pretty but as a result, it helped turn my life around and get myself out of a hole I got myself in and led me to here. I actually managed to get back into said girls good books last Janurary ( 2005 ) at which point the worst of the oneitis was gone, it was still there but nowhere near as bad, it was lust now.

One of my regrets is that I never really told her how I felt under the proper condictions, ah well, I'm moving on now, knowing that I will ( hopefully ) NEVER have a case of oneitis agian!