No one said that you have to be necessarily ****y + funny in order to get a date, there are other many characteristics that women like on men you know. Most of the guys you see going out on dates, are they ****y and funny? Not really. My dad is one of the biggest Don Juan's you will ever meet, he is successful and has a LOT of confidence, has a sense of humor, and is ALWAYS in control. He is 50 right now, but he looks more like 30...but he has some tummy, yet women are still attracted to him. There is some proof that looks aren't everything.
****y and funny is basically talk that some people use to have funny conversations. If a man AND a woman use ****y and funny talk, then in my opinion that's even better. Basically ****y and funny is just playful conversation. "****y and funny' is just the way DeAngelo calls it. I know a lot of people who use playful conversation...a lot of them are under than 30...over 3o people use less playful conversation, they just focus more on 'to the point' talk.
But what does ****y and funny actually do? Well, it makes for an interesting conversation, not a boring one. It has humor and people laugh with it (depending on how the conversation goes); it is fun, and it is a CHALLENGE. Women love it when men challenge them I noticed. I even use ****y and funny with my buddies, not just women. I think we should use some playful conversations if we want to appear as interesting and as a fun person, not juet to "pick up women." :roll:
So yes, I dont think ****y and funny is necessary to get a date, but it helps. It's nice to have the ability to be ****y and funny at the same time. But you need a lot of practice and situations to practice on for it to come out of your moth spontaneously.