Agreed. Took me too long to realize this. I think a lot of people want the top tier women because they can't have them. When I was a geeky, poorly dressed, insecure, shy lardass, I wanted the hotties so bad. They were unreachable, indifferent, confident, ****y, uninterested... They seemed like a great prize. Just this aura of greatness around them. Once I worked on myself, and got up to their level - I realized they were all garbage. Shallow, snobby, stuck up, high maintenance, demanding, rude, etc. The chase was much better than the catch. These people are horrible.
Nowadays I go for cute and nice, and there's flocks of them now that I moved to the south. Hot chicks mean nothing anymore. But, you have to experience it to realize this. Much like how people think being bad is so much fun, easy, and comes with all these perks. Hell to the no it doesn't.
Experience is needed. Most guys haven't experienced it yet, or don't realize that things are never going to get better. A skank will always be a skank. You have nothing to do with who they are. All of this **** you're complaining about in regards to what they're doing, how they act, what they talk about, what they want, and everything else that pisses you off (drama, immaturity, unintelligence, etc)? That's them. It doesn't matter if you're God - they're still going to be this way. If not with you - it will be someone else. Same ****, different partner.