yes, another looks thread i apologize...

[jlr12584]

I am 5'11 and 22 and have had a few girlfriends and girls that i've dated. i've slept with 7-8 girls total but i just recently broke up with a girl before school and now that im in school every class im in no girls come sit by me. i've thought i was an okay looking guy but i havent gotten any looks or anything within the past couple weeks. i'd like an honest, to the point response on my looks/image and things i could do to improve. thank you

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...e&friendID=105884800&albumID=0&imageID=643646
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=105884800&albumID=0&imageID=3089060
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...friendID=105884800&albumID=0&imageID=10677075

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Are you just trying to get some hits on your MySpace page?

 

[KontrollerX]

Got any pics of you uploaded to photobucket?

I hate Myspace and refuse to make an account there so I can see them.

 

[jlr12584]

i do believe looks matter, the question is do i have them or not...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v627/jlr12584/jasontrevor022.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v627/jlr12584/jasontrevor2060.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v627/jlr12584/Picture6.jpg

 

[Docs]

You have looks
You also have a self-image problem....

 

[KontrollerX]

Well in the non gayest way possible I'll say you're a great looking guy and shouldn't have a problem getting chicks lol.

Seems you're just going through a dry spell now.

That or your looks are intimidating the chicks or making them think you are just a player that will hurt them to get involved with.

Thats not to say you have no chance it just means you will have to make some moves and go sit by the girls and see what happens instead of waiting for them to come to you and try to keep a friendly open inviting vibe about yourself by smiling at times and not trying to look angry.

 

[blueguy]

You're a decent looking guy. You have to understand that even the best looking guys aren't going to have girls worship him. Girls are smart (at least to... some degree ) too, you know. Displaying value in areas other than looks and taking initiative counts for a lot. If this weren't the case, women would wait in line to hump life size cut-out posters of Justin Timberlake at the nearest Best Buy.

 

[ChrizZ]

I'm good looking, too. If u are good looking u can get ugly or average chicks, but u need to have confidence if u wanna get the hottest chicks.

 

[ChapStick]

Dude... You have a self image problem. I guess I can kinda see why you're on this forum. From what I can see, you're insecure about your appearance at times, when you don't have reason to be. I'm sure most of the guys on this forum wish they were as physically blessed as you.

So what if girls don't give you looks right now or try to sit next to you. There are many good looking dudes out in the world. Looks can only get you so far. Give yourself that extra edge and just approach! Stop waiting for girls to approach, and just do it yourself!

Most girls with looks and class know they're beautiful and won't chase a guy! So stop thinking they're gonna keep handing themselves on a silver platter to you. Just take it man! Stop waiting...

 

[The Sperminator]

The girls aren't going to go after you, you have to go after them.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Looks are pretty much useless without action. You have to act or you'll be SOL. When girls give you the body language like "aren't you gonna approach me??" you have to step up.

 

[Obsidian]

you look good to me

but your personality obviously sucks

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Can you give me a few examples of that type of body language, please?

It's all about the eye contact.

 

[Wiesman44]

kinda ugly to me. Post your pics in hotornot.com You'll get slaughtered

 

[chaddycakes21]

LOL ^^^ Gayest quote i have read in awhile.

 

[jlr12584]

why does my personality suck? i am a nice and easy going guy. and i have a good sense of humor.

 

[Docs]

I smell something...

 

[Obsidian]

why does my personality suck?

because you sound like a woman, worrying about your looks like this.

Grow up and quit being so f*cking needy. You just broke up with someone and now all the girls won't look at you? Maybe it's because you're a wuss and not a man.

 

[The Juan and only]

I have seen these pictures before. A long time ago.
I agree docs, something smells fishy, and it's not my girlfriend's vagina this time.

I don't know what you're playin at foo', either you've come back a year later to get another opinion because you're so incredibly insecure, or this thread has been bumped and I'm an idiot (too lazy to check post dates I'm afraid). OR, this is some sick, perhaps homosexual, game you like to play.

gimme a number, 1, 2 or 3.

 

[jlr12584]

maybe i am dealing with an insecurity issue i don't know. of course lots of people think highly of themselves and that they are good looking, but it may not be as how other people perceive them. and thats why i ask... im not perfect or super confident because i see flaws in myself all the time. i always think am i tall enough, am i muscular enough, am i the girls type, etc. i only wanted honest opions from people not harsh criticism and insults.