To get a girl, you need to TRICK her into feeling attraction for you. That involves lying, stealing, cheating, being someone else, faking confidence, whatever it takes. Everyone embellishes their resume, stretches the truth or flat out lies. This is the only way. You must of course follow the rules of ATTRACTION to get her attracted to you. After she is ATTRACTED to you and you KNOW that she is.... YOU need to..... RAPE. I'll say it again. RAPE the girl both physically and mentally. Yeah I said it! Since the male is supposed to be the lead, then by definition we ARE rapist. You have to FORCE her to move the relationship to the next level. You have to DRAG her along kicking and screaming UNTIL SHE EITHER BAILS or gives in to her attraction. Thats it, in a nutshell. This represents the work needed to get the first FVCK. After that, you may need to continue the masquerade and mix it up to keep things interesting.