Yay oh yeah c0ckblocked from her fat friend..

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Just came back for the club, opening the thread as a reminder for tomorrow when Ill got up, promise Ill write u all the details.

Plenty of red flags and mistakes for us to talk about, losing frame,changing venue, fattitude, ex boyfriends and much more.

Off to bed now, alchoolic collapse incoming.
 

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Much better now, I was really pissed off yesterday(today) night.

Beginning as usual, approach this girl which was giving sing of being in heat, escalation has been faster than WWI, in 5 minutes we were french kissing and in 10 my hand was no resistance on her ass and boobs.

She was with her friends which after finding out they had no c0ck blocking potential I realized they were not a serious c0ckblocking threat.

Drinking,dancing, talking dirty, for some reason her friends like me too so again I didnt proceed to isolation, anyway a red flag which I ignored was that once in a while she was going to talk with other people wheter boys or girls, at that point I was speaking with one of her friends just to avoid to seem eager and jealous.

At some point the group split and only my girl and her cute friend are dancing toghter, a guy grab her friend and they start dancing which I actually encourage especially when my girls tries to c0ckblock the other guys....I mean isolation plus helping an other poor guy working his ass off.

Isolation doesnt work, my girls doesnt want to come to the sofas without her friend....an other red flag, but I was too drunk and horny to think.
I was actually french kissing her, rubbing my croch on her ass and my hand on her pvssy while she was caressing my d1ck from the clothes.

Finally I tell her to come to my place, she instead suggest to go all togheter to one of her friend house, a very rich girl who leaves nearby and has a really big home where she lives alone.

She was a steady green light so I saw ni problem in that, then it comes the big red flag, she says that we somehow have to find a solution in which any of her friends have a guy.....no big deal I would say except for the fat one...which has a good degree of fattitude as well as some big ego.

Anyway we leave the club aiming to this girl house but she is not in the city so we let it go, at some point the girls are calling a taxi which makes me really happy except that only the two good looking one go home while the fat one keeps her position as the roman army near carthage...hell yeah Im screwed...I already had a spider sense of the sh1t.

The fat girl decided that she wants a guy, no matter how a girl can be stupid Im sure she got that I didnt want her around and she should have get the fvck out but yet...apparently for them making other ppl life miserable as theirs is fine.

So we go in this other club where ofc fatty doesnt flirt with any guy nor even open her self to be approached,she just stays in an angle waiting for prince charming to go...I even tried to hook her up with some guy but they all told me that she was beyond any temptation, couldnt blame them.

Anyway its getting late and the place is closing so we decide to go to an other one, I was almost going to quit at that point especially because of the red flags and complications but since I invested so much I decided that one last attempt would have at least taught me something.

So we move toward this other popular club and while we are walking close to the parking lot she meets her ex boyfriend drinking with a friend near his car, she goes and hig him and at that point I had my confirmation, she didnt even acknowledge my presence anymore nor marshmallow man does, I say that Im kinda tired and leave, one last stare at the marshamallow man to thank her for such wonderful night she provided me.

I wish in such cases of fattitude and cvntish behaviour diabetes would strike as a thunder, I mean get the fkn taxi and get the fvck out.

MISTAKES:

1)Losing the frame and let the girls taking the decisions (main one)

2)Wait too much before closing the deal (major one)

3)Keep staying around despite it was taking too much and not being assertive enough ( medium one)

4)Making it obvious that I wanted to nail her (it could turn on a girl but at the same time take the challenge away)

5)Not punish her for her going around by doing the same

If you see some more please let me know and lets talk about it
 

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That's to much work going to 3 different clubs for this fat sl0re. Ugh why do fat girls have huge egos anyway there FAT. But back to the point ... to much work for pusssy. Either way good start, had me laughing at work and the words fatitude LOLOLOL
 
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you coulda' tripped the fatitude down a flight of steps..... and put it on youtube:crackup:
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Glad to see you guys are having fun bashing the land whale but lets be more proactive and discuss about what we should do instead, I mean Im getting kinda frustrated to put on banging a simple doable girl the same work a CIA agent has to do to take down an hostile government.
 

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should have just picked the girl up over your shoulder and ran man. fattie could have kept up with you.

also plus one on fatitude.
 

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But seriously what is it with land whales and their feeling of entitlement for a good looking guy? I know a fattie that is extremaly picky, I mean when I heard what she is looking for I knew there isn't everything right in her head. She wants a hot guy and does nothing to get him.
 

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On a serious note you shouldve found the geekeist guy you could find and hook up the fat girl with him. Even if only for a second she was distracted you couldve been long gone in the club or outside telling your girl " let's go!". May be a good method to try.
 

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JohnChops said:
On a serious note you shouldve found the geekeist guy you could find and hook up the fat girl with him. Even if only for a second she was distracted you couldve been long gone in the club or outside telling your girl " let's go!". May be a good method to try.
yup

"hi buddy - you look lonely, whats your name?"
"jim"
"hey landwhale! haaaave ya met jim?!"

distraction done, grab the fittie and run

"She's fine, she's chatting to my buddy jim there, lets go."
 

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Just a random thought...

Do you think maybe you're getting too physical with the target such that it is triggering cawkblocking?

When her friends are around, I usually keep the kissing and petting to a minimum.

I used to play this sort of "Secret Makeout" game that chicks loved. We wouldn't really kiss when her friends were watching us. But as soon as they turned their backs, went to the bathroom/toilet, or simply got distracted for several seconds, etc., I'd jam my tongue down the targets throat and go at it hard. Then stop to avoid getting caught. Chicks love how naughty and fun that is. Each time you can escalate it futher. It once got to a point when I was fingering my girl under a table for th few seconds that her friend was distracted because she was giving her drink order to the waitress. The waitress saw was I was doing and gave me a naughty wink. I pulled my hand away before the friend turned around.

So you end up being a gentleman to the friends but a naughty horny lover to the target. Plus escalating foreplay.
 

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I wonder if she has fattitude because her friends feel sorry for her and go out of their way to accommodate her. So she gets a sense of entitlement that even rivals a 9 or 10.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Just a random thought...

Do you think maybe you're getting too physical with the target such that it is triggering cawkblocking?

When her friends are around, I usually keep the kissing and petting to a minimum.

I used to play this sort of "Secret Makeout" game that chicks loved. We wouldn't really kiss when her friends were watching us. But as soon as they turned their backs, went to the bathroom/toilet, or simply got distracted for several seconds, etc., I'd jam my tongue down the targets throat and go at it hard. Then stop to avoid getting caught. Chicks love how naughty and fun that is. Each time you can escalate it futher. It once got to a point when I was fingering my girl under a table for th few seconds that her friend was distracted because she was giving her drink order to the waitress. The waitress saw was I was doing and gave me a naughty wink. I pulled my hand away before the friend turned around.

So you end up being a gentleman to the friends but a naughty horny lover to the target. Plus escalating foreplay.
Spot on, I've been too sexually aggressive and somehow passed the limit, the girl was fine with that but probably got some negative feedback from the c0ckblocker which somehow redefined the frame of the interaction.




TillTheEndOfTime said:
I wonder if she has fattitude because her friends feel sorry for her and go out of their way to accommodate her. So she gets a sense of entitlement that even rivals a 9 or 10.
Thats true, her friends were telling her all the time how hot she looked and that her ass was perfect (yeah for a barbecue), so she was nevrotic due to the lack of syncrony between the attention she was not getting from guys compared to the huge boost she was getting from the other girls.
 

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It's too bad you're not getting much good advice in this thread. One thing I will say --- you are getting very aggressive/proactive and that can make it difficult to judge female interest (since maybe the girls simply welcome the attention).

You can keep your foot on the gas until a girl gets horny and gives in, personally I think it's a frustrating way to interact and makes me feel like a thug. If you can keep the kissing/kino etc a bit more restrained, and give the girl an opportunity to bail earlier (or even bail on her and see if she seeks you out) -- it might help you read interest better. You will lose the girls who simply want to be pursued aggressively -- but that means, they're into the pursuit, not you, and you are ditch-able at the end of the night. I quit that because it was too frustrating.

Club dynamics and drunk people are chaotic and illogical though, it just goes with the territory. Careful of "investing" too... it doesn't work that way. More effort = lower value. If you are too goal-oriented (ie. scoring) it can come off as needy. If you relax a little and pull women into your world, rather than trying to hunt them down, you will probably clean up.

I'm rusty though, so take it all with a grain of salt.
 
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