I met this girl on a salsa dance floor about six weeks ago and we've been dancing almost weekly, we matched nicely but I didn't think much of it. Last week there was a large dance festival and she asked me to come too. So I saw her there and a few dances later got her phone number and we arranged to meet at the beach with some friends. Eventually, we went swimming and I realized it was just us, she has shown a surprising amount of interest, looking back I probably could have kissed here right there.. in the evening we met again in town, and went to this small place that has a dancing floor, and everything again exuded high interest, we mostly danced the sensual dances and it was amazing. Then the place closed up for the night and her annoying best friend insisted going to sleep (and my crush was her ride and roomie), and I suggested she'd give her a lift then come back to meet me (no friends) but that didn't happen. So I said good night and kissed her, intended for just a kiss on the lips and she tilted her head and kissed me back.
Next day, she was a different person, friendly and all, but I could sense she pulled a handbrake, acted like she's avoiding me, then when it was time to go home, I tried kissing her goodbye and she turned her face and she said things are moving too fast for her and we should go for a drink to really get to know eachother once we get back to our home town.
So on tuesday we set up a date for friday and five hours before the date she cancelled because "she's got some unexpeced work to be done and we would meet some other day" . I made the mistake of replying with - We will, if you tell me when. She then suggested tuesday at 9 at a dancing place where we go pretty much every tuesday at that time, unless it's raining and it's off and btw. it seems like it will be raining this tuesday. I thought this text was a) insulting and b) very clear on what she wants or rather, doesn't.. so I didn't bother to reply.
Now, I'm at a loss of words to explain to myself what the hell just happened. In retrospect, I cant find any mistakes from my part during that weekend, I've basically acted like a man should, shown no weaknesses, I was direct, haven't been clingy or anything like that. Why would she suddenly have a change of heart overnight??? I'm pretty convinced there's no way out of this one. So what do I do, how do I act around her when I see her (which eventually I will), say hi, ask her for a dance, ignore her, don't mention the cancelled date, don't suggest a new one, or...?? I really liked her and I'm pretty pissed of about the whole situation.
Next day, she was a different person, friendly and all, but I could sense she pulled a handbrake, acted like she's avoiding me, then when it was time to go home, I tried kissing her goodbye and she turned her face and she said things are moving too fast for her and we should go for a drink to really get to know eachother once we get back to our home town.
So on tuesday we set up a date for friday and five hours before the date she cancelled because "she's got some unexpeced work to be done and we would meet some other day" . I made the mistake of replying with - We will, if you tell me when. She then suggested tuesday at 9 at a dancing place where we go pretty much every tuesday at that time, unless it's raining and it's off and btw. it seems like it will be raining this tuesday. I thought this text was a) insulting and b) very clear on what she wants or rather, doesn't.. so I didn't bother to reply.
Now, I'm at a loss of words to explain to myself what the hell just happened. In retrospect, I cant find any mistakes from my part during that weekend, I've basically acted like a man should, shown no weaknesses, I was direct, haven't been clingy or anything like that. Why would she suddenly have a change of heart overnight??? I'm pretty convinced there's no way out of this one. So what do I do, how do I act around her when I see her (which eventually I will), say hi, ask her for a dance, ignore her, don't mention the cancelled date, don't suggest a new one, or...?? I really liked her and I'm pretty pissed of about the whole situation.