I'm gonna jump right into this.
I'm only 15, and yet I'm more of a DJ than pretty much everyone i know. But recently I met this girl who wasn't like other girls. I found myself falling in love with her, but she was totally resistant to my charms. Then I found out why.
She kinda had a boyfriend. Like one of the nicest guys on earth. So yer, I moved on. But I had trouble getting over her. That was until I found out that she smoked. Heavily. There is practically nothing i hate mor than smoking. And yet there is more.
There is nothing her boyfriend hates more than smoking either. But it turns out she's been keeping this from him the whole 10 months odd they've been going out. If he found out he would probably dump her. That's where my dilema begins.
I could:
a) Tell the boyfriend. He's like my best friend too and I dont wanna see him get hurt (which is why I tried to get over her so urgently). But if he dumps her, then I would have a shot, and I could try and help her quit so I can get in there myself. Not really my style but hey, it could work.
b) Just totally forget about her and leave the boyfriend to clean up the mess.
Need a solution n any help would be much appreciated.
PS. Site rocks.
I'm only 15, and yet I'm more of a DJ than pretty much everyone i know. But recently I met this girl who wasn't like other girls. I found myself falling in love with her, but she was totally resistant to my charms. Then I found out why.
She kinda had a boyfriend. Like one of the nicest guys on earth. So yer, I moved on. But I had trouble getting over her. That was until I found out that she smoked. Heavily. There is practically nothing i hate mor than smoking. And yet there is more.
There is nothing her boyfriend hates more than smoking either. But it turns out she's been keeping this from him the whole 10 months odd they've been going out. If he found out he would probably dump her. That's where my dilema begins.
I could:
a) Tell the boyfriend. He's like my best friend too and I dont wanna see him get hurt (which is why I tried to get over her so urgently). But if he dumps her, then I would have a shot, and I could try and help her quit so I can get in there myself. Not really my style but hey, it could work.
b) Just totally forget about her and leave the boyfriend to clean up the mess.
Need a solution n any help would be much appreciated.
PS. Site rocks.