backbreaker
Master Don Juan
has anyone in here ever seen flannel pajamas?
wow.
that should be like legally mandatory to watch before anyone gets married.
my fiancée and i have a game. we watch something every night, always have for as long as we have been together. we generally rotate per night. last night i wanted to watch the The silence of the lambs (actually never saw it, somehow). She has figured out, I will watch certain movies, if they have actresses that I think are pretty in them, and over the years she has figured out i just think Juliane Nicholson is just the cutest little thing on earth, hince my love of law and order, at least one of the reasons. So,s he goes tot he movie store and gets this movie, i'm open minded and it got some pretty decent reviews.
I would not even call this a chick flick, this is like a reality flick. We actually ended up looking at each other during the movies.
for those of you who have never seen this movie, here is a spoiler.
guy, lives in NYC, guy has his **** in ORDER.. about 25-26 years old, has about 100k in the bank from saving money since he was 16, he writes jingles for a living and is damn good at it, good looking, no baggage, no debt, nothing. he's a catch.
The only problem is the guy is like a NYC sized AFC, it doesn't take 10 minutes for the movie to start to show it
mets Juliane (for thee est of this i will call her J) through a friend at a diner. They hit it off. ovbiously she's cute, and he's funny, he has the has the whole bit going. So within like 2 hours she is telling him how her parents are drunks and how her brothers are drunks and all this ****.. that should have been a red flag.... no.. he literally says, "i'm going to be your knight in shining honor"
You can tell off the bat she has killer low self esteem. she doesn't like her body yet she knows she's not ugly, but yet doesnt' like to be seen naked, she keeps getting fired from jobs, and she's 15k in debt
So, he finally tags it, he spends the night over her house while he's there he offers to pay off her 15k in debt for school loans. of course she takes the money and right now she's giving up the nookie left and right. like every other scene. she's so happy. he's happy. he's getting laid, got a pretty gal on his arm. It's like she looks up to him almost. they are in "love" he says it first.
Then, he tells her that she is moving in with him.
The go to montana (where she is from") to meet the family, family is bad**** crazy, I still think her sister wanted to **** him
She soon gets fired, and so now she's jobless and homeless and he's supporting both of them. guy is not broke, so it's not that big a deal to him. he's just happy he's got his gal, and she could not be happy. it is actaully sweet for a mintue how much in "love they are". he then proposes, and she starts crying, she's happy, he's happy, everyone is happpy. This is a big point to.. she wants kids. he wants kids. he wants 1. she wants 3. he says let's split the difference, she says okay we will split the differnce at 3. he says okay but we have to wait 2 years before we try. she says okay.
now.. they get married.. literarly..no exaggeration the second they get on the hoonymoon it just starts going downhill. she has been giving up the nookie like it was a free condom dispenser for half the movie, he goes in and tires to kiss her on her back and she says "dont' tuch me". no more sex the rest of the movie. none. they go from passionate kissing to him kissing her forehead for the rest of the movie.
Now he's jewish, she's cathloic. the mom tells him that she never wanted them to get married in the first place and the wife does not defend him.
she's a cook (J is the cook) and she asks him can he help her go into business. like the good supportive husband he is, sure babe, go ahead, i got ya. she goes into business and runs his ass dry with bills. she then throws a hissy fit becuase he wont' have kids with her, but he brings up the 2 years and she says 'why do we have to agree to that stupid time line, if you can't have kids with me i don't think i can be with you". ti's not 2 years yet.
then he has a buncvh of people offering to stake him in his own business, the dude is very good at what he does, and he asks his wife, and tells her hey times are gonna get tough, she says sure, i want you to be happy.
needless to say, at the movie, she leaves him after she has ran through his money because he's broke, he's stuck with all her bills, all her cooking ****, he gets no recourse for the 15k he paid off her loans.
The guy has his issues. he doesn't' like her family, doesn't pretend to like her family (they are bat**** crazy but it is her family). he is a BETA if there ever was one.
The guys main problem is that she kept hinting at leaving for the last half of the movie. the first time she did, he should have packed his **** and left. regardless of how much he loved her, the guy was a catch and at some times you do need to just move on.
it was just apprant that 10 minutes after they got married, it wasn't gonna work. it was just pure downhill. she had issues. cute as heck, but issues.
that was very depressing, espically being honest i can draw some distant similarities between the guy and me. I think I do a pretty good job of controlling the frame of our relationship we have, but the fact is, my fiancee does live with me and has for a while. The kids aren't an issue, we don't want anymore,e ither of us, and I make enough money that there isn't much she could do that could really hurt me financially, but still.. just the change. she could see the look on my face when the movie went off, and she said "babe i'm not that crazy, that won't be me when we get married" i mean, just no sex, no nothing.
Are all ****ign women like this?
wow.
that should be like legally mandatory to watch before anyone gets married.
my fiancée and i have a game. we watch something every night, always have for as long as we have been together. we generally rotate per night. last night i wanted to watch the The silence of the lambs (actually never saw it, somehow). She has figured out, I will watch certain movies, if they have actresses that I think are pretty in them, and over the years she has figured out i just think Juliane Nicholson is just the cutest little thing on earth, hince my love of law and order, at least one of the reasons. So,s he goes tot he movie store and gets this movie, i'm open minded and it got some pretty decent reviews.
I would not even call this a chick flick, this is like a reality flick. We actually ended up looking at each other during the movies.
for those of you who have never seen this movie, here is a spoiler.
guy, lives in NYC, guy has his **** in ORDER.. about 25-26 years old, has about 100k in the bank from saving money since he was 16, he writes jingles for a living and is damn good at it, good looking, no baggage, no debt, nothing. he's a catch.
The only problem is the guy is like a NYC sized AFC, it doesn't take 10 minutes for the movie to start to show it
mets Juliane (for thee est of this i will call her J) through a friend at a diner. They hit it off. ovbiously she's cute, and he's funny, he has the has the whole bit going. So within like 2 hours she is telling him how her parents are drunks and how her brothers are drunks and all this ****.. that should have been a red flag.... no.. he literally says, "i'm going to be your knight in shining honor"
You can tell off the bat she has killer low self esteem. she doesn't like her body yet she knows she's not ugly, but yet doesnt' like to be seen naked, she keeps getting fired from jobs, and she's 15k in debt
So, he finally tags it, he spends the night over her house while he's there he offers to pay off her 15k in debt for school loans. of course she takes the money and right now she's giving up the nookie left and right. like every other scene. she's so happy. he's happy. he's getting laid, got a pretty gal on his arm. It's like she looks up to him almost. they are in "love" he says it first.
Then, he tells her that she is moving in with him.
The go to montana (where she is from") to meet the family, family is bad**** crazy, I still think her sister wanted to **** him
She soon gets fired, and so now she's jobless and homeless and he's supporting both of them. guy is not broke, so it's not that big a deal to him. he's just happy he's got his gal, and she could not be happy. it is actaully sweet for a mintue how much in "love they are". he then proposes, and she starts crying, she's happy, he's happy, everyone is happpy. This is a big point to.. she wants kids. he wants kids. he wants 1. she wants 3. he says let's split the difference, she says okay we will split the differnce at 3. he says okay but we have to wait 2 years before we try. she says okay.
now.. they get married.. literarly..no exaggeration the second they get on the hoonymoon it just starts going downhill. she has been giving up the nookie like it was a free condom dispenser for half the movie, he goes in and tires to kiss her on her back and she says "dont' tuch me". no more sex the rest of the movie. none. they go from passionate kissing to him kissing her forehead for the rest of the movie.
Now he's jewish, she's cathloic. the mom tells him that she never wanted them to get married in the first place and the wife does not defend him.
she's a cook (J is the cook) and she asks him can he help her go into business. like the good supportive husband he is, sure babe, go ahead, i got ya. she goes into business and runs his ass dry with bills. she then throws a hissy fit becuase he wont' have kids with her, but he brings up the 2 years and she says 'why do we have to agree to that stupid time line, if you can't have kids with me i don't think i can be with you". ti's not 2 years yet.
then he has a buncvh of people offering to stake him in his own business, the dude is very good at what he does, and he asks his wife, and tells her hey times are gonna get tough, she says sure, i want you to be happy.
needless to say, at the movie, she leaves him after she has ran through his money because he's broke, he's stuck with all her bills, all her cooking ****, he gets no recourse for the 15k he paid off her loans.
The guy has his issues. he doesn't' like her family, doesn't pretend to like her family (they are bat**** crazy but it is her family). he is a BETA if there ever was one.
The guys main problem is that she kept hinting at leaving for the last half of the movie. the first time she did, he should have packed his **** and left. regardless of how much he loved her, the guy was a catch and at some times you do need to just move on.
it was just apprant that 10 minutes after they got married, it wasn't gonna work. it was just pure downhill. she had issues. cute as heck, but issues.
that was very depressing, espically being honest i can draw some distant similarities between the guy and me. I think I do a pretty good job of controlling the frame of our relationship we have, but the fact is, my fiancee does live with me and has for a while. The kids aren't an issue, we don't want anymore,e ither of us, and I make enough money that there isn't much she could do that could really hurt me financially, but still.. just the change. she could see the look on my face when the movie went off, and she said "babe i'm not that crazy, that won't be me when we get married" i mean, just no sex, no nothing.
Are all ****ign women like this?
). It really only makes sense if you want to raise a family, or have religious convictions. In either scenario you'd be wise to sign a pre-nup!
