Wow, I am starting to understand how women work...

Moofahsa

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Long post sorry.


Girl I was way too into. I chased her hard at first...turned out she wasn't anything special just someone that liked to be "chased"...she just had killer green eyes I couldn't resist at the time. She generally likes me, likes to talk to me and what not but she is just a flake that expects things.

Anyhow, I lost interest in her after I figured out her "ways" (we didn't date, just casual sex...though she always talks about us to everyone like we are a couple) I dunno complicated.

I found another girl that I like spending my evenings with and is different in the sack. Not better, just different...I dunno I just got tired of the same ol' same ol' with the other girl.

Well she was blowing my phone up (needy as hell, fishes for compliments) so I "pretended" to send her a text that was meant for the other girl. Something to the effect of: "I'll pick you up tomorrow after I get done at the bank, don't go overboard on getting ready I don't have time to wait on your for an hour this time" She knew it wouldn't apply to her because she was going to be out of town.

It was an actual text I sent to the other girl, at least lol.

Anyway...my phone goes silent for about 30 minutes and my phone rings. So where you going tomorrow?....I answer....I gotta do some errands in the city....WHO ARE YOU PICKING UP? WHO IS SHE?....she was literally trying to bite my head off over the phone, I said "what are you talking about!?!!" Blah blah the text thing. Well I start laughing because at this point I don't care if she never talks to me again. I hang up on her after about the third "How long have you been playing me?"

I really didn't think she would be upset, I thought she would just ignore me and I could go on with life.

Well I hop in the shower the next morning and come back to my phone, 11 new messages. Holy ****. We need to talk! ...blah blah...I love you....are you ignore me?....fine i'll give you youre space!

I call her and tell her to take a chill pill, I told her basically that she was a fvck buddy and that was it. We both know we had feelings for each other but she didn't respect me and constantly flaked out ON EVERYTHING imaginable.

Well now that this girl realizes she has some competition she is clingy and treating me like I'm a real prize. I know it won't last, I know that she wants me to next the other girl and it will be back to business as usual, but I don't care...I'm just experimenting now to see how far I can take this. I put my foot down and put rules in place, and she is all for it LOL...I get whatever I want in bed now, anything I can think of. I am an ******* to her now, reversed roles...and she is taking it like a champ lol. She is ultra insecure, always calling me "what are you doing?" "whats up?" leaving me all these cute voicemails. Funny stuff.

Funny ****, all I needed to shape this fvck buddy into shape was some competition.

Sorry for the long rant, I just can't believe how simple women are.
 

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it may sound fun now... but hear my words, don't fall into her trap
the longer you keep her around, the more attach you are to her and the harder it is for you to let go

listen to my warning now.

these type of girls are hopeless
 

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She will chase you when you do decide to leave, trust me on this one.
But it's for your own and her own good. At one point, when she finds you are attached, she will then make her move. If you think you can keep her there and play the game with another chick, she will do the exact same. she's not stupid.

It's not cool to be doing that to a girl anyway man. Don't leave her hanging if you're not interested. Just do the right thing and move on.
 

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Interesting...I just recently figured a guy like you out and got tired of playing that game and put an end to it. Reading your post, you could almost be him.

Seriously, the longer you string her along..the worst it is going to get. Her knowing you have another girl...she is going to turn into a constant nag and it will drive you ape-shVt. That's how I got, as bad as I tried not to be..and in the end, things ended way worse than any "real" relationship I ever had.

Unless you live for drama, avoid at all costs.
 

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dannyegg4575 said:
She will chase you when you do decide to leave, trust me on this one.
But it's for your own and her own good. At one point, when she finds you are attached, she will then make her move. If you think you can keep her there and play the game with another chick, she will do the exact same. she's not stupid.

It's not cool to be doing that to a girl anyway man. Don't leave her hanging if you're not interested. Just do the right thing and move on.
Competiton, and women's natural jealousy, is the key, to landing pu$$y.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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True, but this will last for a little while until you get attached and then game over. Leaving you empty and painful.

The whole jealousy and "game" will last as long as options are not available. But when she senses that you are attached, she'll know and then it'll be game over. And guys, we get attached so easily because it's our natural tendency to have sentimental values in women.

That's what I preach you, if you don't have any feelings for her, let her go. If you do have feelings for her and you play the teasing game, it's ok. Just don't lead her on and leave her hanging.

Life is short for each of us. Don't waste her time. Do the right thing.
 

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dannyegg4575 said:
True, but this will last for a little while until you get attached and then game over. Leaving you empty and painful.

The whole jealousy and "game" will last as long as options are not available. But when she senses that you are attached, she'll know and then it'll be game over. And guys, we get attached so easily because it's our natural tendency to have sentimental values in women.

That's what I preach you, if you don't have any feelings for her, let her go. If you do have feelings for her and you play the teasing game, it's ok. Just don't lead her on and leave her hanging.

Life is short for each of us. Don't waste her time. Do the right thing.
Speak for yourself not for me. Jealousy works wonders. Do some homework. Read the DJ Bible. Thanks.
 

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I will never understand women and i doubt anyone will ever do either.
 
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