WOW, Girls are such backstabbers. This is so weird.

[Capodeciña]

I should really post this in my FR, but I want more emphasis on this. I'll try and keep it short, because it was a LOOOOOONG approach. I went clubbing at around 1140PM In Britain and it is now 0621AM in the morning.

05/09/10
3-set.

Approach 3-set, 2 of whom where not my type and 1 was just plain ugly. I had my eye on the Brunette. They had just gotten back from some party, and the HB Brunette had her heels off, so I made some random joke in full view of everyone else (public) really loud and said, "Whats That Smell!?"

Then she looked kinda surprised with a smirk on her face in an OMG way. I said it again, "Whats That Smell!? ....I smell feet", she then blushed and I started busting her balls even more, I looked around at the guy behind me and said, "Well it's not him, and its not me...." He started laughing, Then she bursted out laughing, I WAS IN. Or so I thought.

So then I started the flufftalk with her so-called 'friends' to get the group approval stuff out of the way. I said "Do you mind if I talk to her you guys?...." and then the leader of the pack said Yeah its okay, I won't cvckblock. I thought to myself, "YES! GREAT!"

So, I talked to her for like 2 minutes, but this HB Brunette seemed abit airheaded. She seemed really shy, I couldn't make out what she said and then I just started hitting on the friends, I actually said that shes boring. So, after about 5 minutes. These girls were just standing int he middle of the street, wondering where to go next. THEY HAD NO WHERE TO GO AND WHERE LOOKING FOR SOME MYSTERY.

I leave them, and eneter a shop. I thought the set was going no where, so I ejected. They were obviously all tired and tipsy from the previous outing, so I didn't wanna hit on some boring tired grannies.

THEY FOLLOW ME INTO THE SHOP. I then, leave and walk to my local bus stop. They follow me there too, when they could've easily had gone to the bus stop closer to them. So, then I thought, well I might be able to get this HB Brunette home. This girl was walking around in socks, with her heels in her hand. INSTANT-SLVT NOTIFICATION. I think!

So, we get onthe bus, they start asking me about me and where I'm going. I told them, to "Heaven". They keep busting my ballss bla bla. We make smalltalk and humour. I sat down next to the HB Brunette. We get aother 10-20 minute convo going. I can here her friends laughing and talking about her, WHEN SHES RIGHT THERE!!!!!

Anyway, to cut this long ass story short. We get to the destination, well MY destination. They follow me. So I suggest to them that we should all hit up this club, THEY AGREE. We wait, we wait, but the bus doesn't show up. So, HB Brunette mumbles something into the ugs ear, she then bursts out in anger, the other girl gets involved and slaps HB Brunette across the face. HB Brunette walks off and says "BYE!"

CAPODECINA SAYS, "WTF, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO" in his head. Don't ask me where this squabble came from, because up til now, I still do not have a clue. Thats just women for you. Jealous and envious. When HB Brunette walked off, they started talking all this shyt about her. How she has no friends but them, how she is stupid and retarded bla bla. How she has an attitude problem.

Eventually, they call her phone to see where she is. She is in the middle of the capital, wearing next-to-nothing and upset. She gets back and we all agree to get back home. We were about 45 mins away from hometown area.

Throughout that whole journey back, they totally TAKE THE MICK OUT OF HER, LAUGH AT HER, TELL HER TO SAY SORRY WHEN SHE DIDN'T EVEN START ANYTHING, TELL HER HOW SHYT SHE IS AS A PERSON AND NOBODY LIKE SHER. At first I thought this was a decoy for them to not go to the club I recommended, but they were actually serious.

HB Brunette was grilled for about 25 minutes by them. Heckling and poking fun at her, then HB Brunette down the unthinkable! She said "WELL I AM STUPID". When she said that, I cringed. I totally lost attraction at that point. This goes back to a recent thread about "Why don't girls admit they have it easier than men in dating"

Its true. HB Brunette wasn't holding no current job, not at college, doesn't do anything, no ambitions by the looks of things and is daddies precious girl. All she has to do is look hot and cute. Her own friends were telling her how much of a piece of **** she is. Do you know why? Because they were jealous! She OBVIOUSLY gets all the attention from guys and gets hit on the most, and they couldn't take it anymore, that explains the SUDDEN outlash from the leader of the pack.

What certified this for me even more, when the drama cooled down, the leader of the pack said "I'm not going to let you fvck her you know..." and she also said "Why did you say she looks like she can have your next abortion and not US" - I said this to HB Brunette previously when I was joking around. Notice, she says "Why not US". They were jealous of her and this ultimately cvckblocked HB Brunette, NOT ME.

I guess she wanted to keep her friends from getting even more butthurt if she was to escalate with me, she would have to.. My first INDICATOR for a SMD (same day lay). The interaction was perfect. I had her coming into me whenever I said something, smiling, touching, pulling faces, shy, blushing. I'm actually really fvcking PEE'D OFF at those two horrible bytches. I'm also fvcking p1ssed at HB brunette more for being such a unworthy, sucker and belittling herself. I could see in her face, that she was in a pit of dispair in full view of other people, watching. How do you admit you're stupid, just to be liked again by your friends? Girls are weird dude. I didn't even take her number down, I was that annoyed. I just walked off after we got back to our hometown. They just stood there and watched me walk away.

 

[Alien]

So, we get onthe bus, they start asking me about me and where I'm going. I told them, to "Heaven". .... That was cool

But...
if you are out with a group of girls you are the leader of the pack(not one of them). First you really acted like a leader then you fvcked it up by not protecting her.
You could have said "Girls stop this jelousy sh!t, cause it annoys me. You 3 came out together, right? then why are you talking sh!t about her??"

Doesnt matter if there is no logic in it. They will nod like little kids

Or you can play it cool and hug the HB telling her: "Dont be afraid my little darling, i dont let them slap you anymore..."

 

[Falcon25]

All you had to say to her friends was "Stop fuvking with her just because your not pretty as her." Then you turn to her and say, "Hey, let's you and me get out of here and grab a drink. And maybe find you some new friends." That would have been a guaranteed lay.

 

[PlayCold]

Women can be really *****y to each other... And the question is why?

 

[kingsam]

you failed the c0ck-blocoks sh|t tests and she had the stronger frame than you, and so she "won"

you should have gamed her better as she wanted the attention, whilst still getting the original hotties number for later

additionally you reacted to their "bad" behaviour- you rewarded them with attention for it ... ever heard of rewarding the girls when they do stuff you like , and ignoring them when they do stuff you dont like?



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if the bus dont come call a taxi

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whilst the girls may have been jealous, the hot one is still a "loser" for not having anything else in her life than her looks and beign daddy's little princess

 

[Capodeciña]

All you had to say to her friends was "Stop fuvking with her just because your not pretty as her." Then you turn to her and say, "Hey, let's you and me get out of here and grab a drink. And maybe find you some new friends." That would have been a guaranteed lay.

All I had to say? Its easier said than done. I did however say something similiar. I said, "Why are you still bytching? It's done" to the LOTP. I didnt want to be a captain-save-a-ho. Remember, I hardly knew these girls and if I had stirred up the hornest's nest even more, they would've just grilled her completely. They did anyhow. I told HB Brunette to sit next to me, I put my arm around her and they turned around and still kept at it.

About bouncing somewhere else, remember they went out together as a 3, and they were leaving as a 3. HB Brunette walked off just to cause some emotional drama in the heat of the moment. Plus you don't know the logistics. HB Brunette had her clothes at the LOTP's house. Though thats not an excuse, I could've still tryed to bounce elsewhere with her. I actually regret not walking after her, when she walked off and they couldn't find her for 10 minutes in the city, I should've walked after her and sweetalked her. Very unlikley she would've done that, since her emotional state and mind was on the troubles with her so-called friends.

My "saving" her would've gone unappreciated. If she can't stand up and talk out for herself, what was my help going to do any good? She just reaked of a validator seeker. Her friends are her life and life are her friends. She would rather be bestfriends with them again, than to walk off somewhere to a club with some random stranger. The logisitics where awful.

you failed the c0ck-blocoks sh|t tests and she had the stronger frame than you, and so she "won"

you should have gamed her better as she wanted the attention, whilst still getting the original hotties number for later

No, I didn't fail her c0ckblock tests. I was the leader, she was just the leader of her friends. Remember, they followed me. We were on out way to a club that I suggested, they were all interested to come. The LOTP even said she wouldn't c0ckblock me at the start, but then she started getting jealous and making crude comments behind HB Brunette's back which c0ckblocked Hb Brunette. I gave them all equally enough attention at first, after a while. The UG leader even said, "Why don't you two get a romm" - CLASSIC JEALOUSY PLOTLINE.

I couldn't be asked to speak to any of the ugs anymore, because they where losers who were hating. So, I guess HB Brunette couldn't really show her true self in front of those two. She was already being hated on for being cute, hated on for getting attention on PREVIOUS OUTINGS and then getting attention from me. I already showed my intent for HB Brunette, when I asked the group if I could speak to her, they knew my intentions from there and it was game over for them.

So yeah, I just couldn't hack talking to the ug leader and didn't think about getting the hotties number for later. I wasn't thinking about "numbers" at the time, I was thinking about going somewhere else with the hottie or back to my place as Falcon25 suggested.

 

[El Indio G]

Conspiracy and skullduggery are their expertise.

 

[kingsam]

Cap i wasnt clear ... i wasnt saying you wernt the leader...

I was talking about the mother hen's very strong frame when she started hating on the hotter friend - she obviously has done it many times before!
it would have caught most of us out...! me too
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RE falcon's comment...
many people woud say gettting angry at them would have worked even less well - it would have been putting her under preassure in front of her friends - why you often have to isolate to k-close if a girl is with friends

-always a more chill frame than the chicks

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any way an awsome expereince to share with SS, hopefully some of us wont be too blindsided by thas kinda thing if it happens to us...!

 

[zekko]

Its true. HB Brunette wasn't holding no current job, not at college, doesn't do anything, no ambitions by the looks of things and is daddies precious girl. All she has to do is look hot and cute.

I can understand their frustrations. It sounds like this girl has nothing going for her, except that she is pretty. So she gets all the male attention, over and over and over again. Because we all know that's the way it works.
They were still b!tches about it, but I can empathize with their pain. That's the curse of being an ugly female, I guess.

I actually regret not walking after her

I don't understand why you didn't. That's probably what she was wanting, and expecting. It was the perfect opportunity to isolate, and she was providing you with it.

 

[Capodeciña]

I can understand their frustrations. It sounds like this girl has nothing going for her, except that she is pretty. So she gets all the male attention, over and over and over again. Because we all know that's the way it works.
They were still b!tches about it, but I can empathize with their pain. That's the curse of being an ugly female, I guess.

What? You can sympathize with a bunch of ugly ducklins who moan and whine because they're not hot? Infact, the leader of the pack didn't have a job either, nor was she doing anything with education. She took atleast 20 minutes to say what it is she does, and at the end she said "Let's just say I do Child Care". For arguements sake, lets say she did have her head on her shoulders, does that give her insurance to hate on her hotter friend?

Thats why girls have it easier in total. You don't see guys in public bytching to one another or getting in a slugfest all of a sudden because one guy got more pvssy than the other. If they don't like her, don't hang out with her. There is no sympathizing with any of their motives or actions for doing so.

I don't understand why you didn't. That's probably what she was wanting, and expecting. It was the perfect opportunity to isolate, and she was providing you with it.

I wasn't thinking. Trust me was tempted too, I was still gathering on what the hell was going on at the time, because her friend had just slapped her? But then I thought the two ugs would follow me. You know how girls are, they will start cvckblocking if they saw that I went walking after her and then follow me aswell and make up some excuse to follow. I gotta just do what I 'feel' at any given moment from now on.

I was talking about the mother hen's very strong frame when she started hating on the hotter friend - she obviously has done it many times before!

Yep, you hit the nail on the head! They've done this plenty of times, but then I'm wondering why she still hangs out with them. When she walked off, they got into some old stories about her, just trying to make out she's a rude person and putting stuff in her mouth. They kept saying how shes an attitude problem and reguarly rejects guys, just not you, then I asked why not me? And they said, Because of the way you must of approached her, you made her laugh. Also, that shes apparently rude to everyone which I find hard to believe, because she was so soft-spoken I actually thought she had something mentally wrong with her. If anything, THEY had the attitude problems, just starting on her for no reason. Jealous cows. It makes me mad just typing this.

I could've been going out with her 2 months down the line and she'd be thanking and reminding me about the time I stood up for her, but instead this old bvllshyt happend.

 

[maqnetik]

women do what they think they can get away with