Would you trust some girl with birth control?

Trust a girl who gave you condom?

  • Yea

    Votes: 9 31.0%
  • Hell No

    Votes: 20 69.0%

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myfriendblu

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Just curious. A certain attention whor e thinks Im deluded because i don't trust bitc hes with birth control. Would you trust a girl you have been RECENTLY seeing or, heck even a ONS with birth control she gave you(a condom out of her purse) I say hell no. :p

It has happened before. Crazy insane females punching wholes threw condoms.
 

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I think it's insane for a girl to do that with some guy she DOESN'T KNOW, but the I'm sure it has happened. If she gives me a condom I'm all for giving her the benefit of the doubt. Hell, I'm getting broody anyway ;)
 

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Well, I think you can estimate the risk based upon a little knowledge of the girl. Does she seem desperate for a meal ticket? Does she think you have money? Is she trying to qualify for welfare?
 

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Okay... I am the attention *****... but I never thought that blu was deluded... I was just absolutely shocked to hear of this... I am reposting my other posts in my own defense... :p

Here is the post I wrote in response to his story:

OH MY GOD myfriendblu!!! Are you ****in serious!? That is absolutely the dumbest thing I have ever heard of in my entire life! Why oh why on earth would a girl do that!? I mean, if a girl gets pregnant she's really the one who has to deal with it... not to say that guys don't do anything about it, but come on... it's her body... why would she EVER do that!? Insanity!!! I just want to proclaim right now that I WOULD NEVER EVER DO THAT AND ANY GIRL WHO DOES DO THAT IS SICK IN THE HEAD!!!! Now I am starting to understand why myfriendblu feels the way he does about most women... because he apparently is surrounded by the sickest mother****ing women on the planet. Oh I have to ask you this though, WHERE did you hear these horror stories? Did the women admit to it or did the condoms just fail? (Because we all know condoms aren't 100% effective -- I'm living proof of that -- but just because they don't work doesn't mean they were tampered with).
And here is the post I wrote in response to some terrifying real-life example and him calling me deluded, etc...

Oh and by the way, I NEVER EVER said YOU were ****ed in the head... I said any girl who would do that is ****ed in the head... I just guess there are a lot more chicks out there who actually are ****ed in the head that I thought... When I said it was the dumbest thing I'd ever heard of, I meant the girls doing it (not you saying it). It still totally ****ing blows my mind that any girl would do that! As a single mom (yeah yeah shut up ) I know full well how difficult it can be to raise a child alone, so it is absolutely amazing how any woman would purposely do that to herself... I mean this isn't the 1950s... getting knocked up doesn't mean you're going to get married... what planet are these chicks from!?
So I rest my case. Yes, chicks are ****ing sick. I am not. No one is deluded. Case closed.
 

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So, you're not a chick. Then, what are you? A male?
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I was just absolutely shocked to hear of this... .
Figures :rolleyes: Most girls are clueless to whats going around in the world.
 

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Someone should start a poll whether if the male birth control pill was FDA approved, and involved little side effects - Would the DJ's here use it?

I'd be the first to vote YES...granted my b*lls don't shrink :eek: and my sperm is good n plenty when I'm off the pill :D
 

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I'm happy with the withdrawal method. It works, been using it for years. Unless I have a low sperm count... :eek:
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
So, you're not a chick. Then, what are you? A male?
ha ha ha... I'm a chick, but I'm not ****ed up in the head. :rolleyes:
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
ha ha ha... I'm a chick, but I'm not ****ed up in the head. :rolleyes:
No suprise Malibu, looks like most people think the way I do according to the pole:eek:
 

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sorry... multiple post... ???
 

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Originally posted by myfriendblu
No suprise Malibu, looks like most people think the way I do according to the pole:eek:
blu, I am in no way disagreeing that it is possible for some sick in the head girl to pull some absolutely psychotic horrifying bull****. I really don't think it is that common, but even if it is very very rare it is still possible and therefore not worth the chance. I think it sucks that these nutso girls who do pull **** like that, give a bad name to all the girls out there who would be as outraged as me to hear about it.

Oh and I guess I am somewhat ****ed up in the head, but not about birth control that's for ****ing sure.
 

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blu---get real.

What does birth control or condoms signify to you: that she sleeps around--??? That she's a slvt, or easy, or has experience?

Most people do sleep around a bit and have experience. Don't let it throw you. Women will underplay the amount they do sleep around.

For guys--it's an age-old thing--called the "Madonna--Wh0re complex" where we want OUR woman to be virtuous and nearly virginal but a kick-@ss moaner in bed--but still a virgin, right? Other guys can have the wh0res with road experience, right?

Partly it's the evolutionary imperatives at work here: we want virgin-like things since it means that when she gets knocked up, it probably our kid. If she's not virginal, who knows who's kid it is? This is why virginity (or the appearance of it) means so much to us and why women instinctively try to give off the appearance of it.

But let's get back to reality.

It's the ones WITHOUT birthcontrol you have to watch out for!

(Does "patrimony" mean anything to you...???)
 

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Originally posted by TesuqueRed
blu---get real.

What does birth control or condoms signify to you: that she sleeps around--??? That she's a slvt, or easy, or has experience?


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When did I ever say that? Oh yea, I DIDN'T. :rolleyes: If anything, i LIKE slutty girls :D . Im just trying to imply that I would never trust some random girl with a condom she gave me, and it looks like most people agree ;)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by bugsquish
I'm happy with the withdrawal method. It works, been using it for years. Unless I have a low sperm count... :eek:
Lol. That would be bad to find out that you did.
 

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It all comes down to gauging the girl you're bedding. If I'm in a ONS with a girl who is in her 2nd year of medical school and she offers me a condom, I think its safe to say that I could trust that she wouldn't risk her future by getting pregnant and screwing up her medical career.

Conversely, if I'm in a ONS with the local mall rat who's making $9/hour working at CornDog on a stick, I think I'd bring my own jimmy hats.:p

I used to make it a habit to use at least 2 forms of contraception - condom/spermicide, condom/bc pills, condom/depo or IUD, or any of the combinations. Used to is right. We all get horney last second and forget the 2nd line of defense. Luckily, I haven't been burned yet (knock on wood):eek:
 

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I think you have a good point hpnotiq... and I think it could work both ways... you should also look at yourself... if you are a rich, successful doctor or lawyer you might be more succeptible to golddiggers than say, if you are unemployed and living in your parent's basement. :D (No offense to anyone who is unemployed and living in their parent's basement... we all have our ups and downs, me included).
 

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You should be bringing your own condoms with you, anyhow.


First, never expect a woman to have her own supply of condoms. There are far too many women who's idea of birth control is having her lover wear a condom that she expects him to supply.

Second, you should have already have an idea of what condoms you prefer to use, based on their sensitivity, durability, texture etc. A woman likely doesn't use the same criteria for choosing a condom as you do (Do think she knows whether Durex or Trojans feel better?) You could get stuck wearing some bathroom-purchased Tire-tread on your penis instead of your prefered brand.

As far as the scenario your discussing, I think it is quite rare, though not unheard of, for women to sabotage their birth control in order to get pregnant. The vast majority of women are sane enough to realize the magnitude of the decision to have a child. I think most women end up with unplanned pregnancies for two reasons 1) Sheer irresponsibility with using a safe, effective method of birth control or 2) The small failure rate cacthes up to them. Only a rare breed are stupid nd selfish enough to try and have a child they are unprepared to raise in order to get a child support check or to "trap" a man into marrying them. Anyhow, if you use your condoms everytime, you'll more than likely be fine.


And a big "Hell Yes!" to the male birth control pill. If what I'm hearing is correct, it's over 99.5% effective, has few side effects, is easier to take than the female pill abd us being preped for market use in near future. Sign me up!
 

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Originally posted by myfriendblu
When did I ever say that? Oh yea, I DIDN'T. :rolleyes: If anything, i LIKE slutty girls :D . Im just trying to imply that I would never trust some random girl with a condom she gave me, and it looks like most people agree ;)
my bad, I read shyt into it...
 
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