Would you next this ***** or hang around? What do I do

[captain55]

-Met this chick off social media 6 months ago.
- Finally manage to meet up with her and eat her out but she wouldn't let me ****. I try hitting her up again and she backs off, told me the other day the reason was she likes to take things slow and I was persistent.
-I go ghost, contact her out of the blue.. she comes over, we end up ****ing. Things are great, she is getting attached to me I can already tell because of the way she's texting me. She hits me up the next day to come over in the morning.
-I bang the **** out of her, the sex is AMAZING. Until the condom breaks an hour into it. She starts freaking out. Demands I drive her to get a plan B pill, starts asking me if I have been tested. I went from being on top of the world and probably smashing the best piece of ass Ive ever had, to legitimately being turned off by this chicks anxiety.
-She is on the phone crying to the planned parenthood asking what her odds are of being pregnant.

After all this **** she puts me through, and telling me she's not going to contact me anymore because she's never having sex again ... she has the nerve to text me a "" emoji a few hours later because she's attached after the sex my best guess...... I'm trying to be polite by texting her because I do really like her, but I'm also freaked the **** out by the anxiety. I wanted to text her "why the hell would you ruin a good thing?".

She texts me today saying " hey so Im kind of nervous. I have no reason to be right" I assure her she doesn't need to be nervous about anything but she needs to calm the **** down. I go and get tested and everything is negative. I text her to let her know to assure her and no response.


I feel like shes traumatized by the condom breaking and is scared of sex...... what do I do here?

 

[elunium]

You do nothing. Keep your frame and be calm. She will calm down by seeing you are calm.

 

[elunium]

She either has big time anxiety issues or this is a pure manipulative power move. Tomorrow she will go raw with someone else no problem. I would next.

Next ? WTF

You have to deal with this kind of problem, not run away from them.

 

[The Duke]

Her anxiety issues will manifest themselves in many other areas. Not something I would want to deal with.

A relationship with her will be one where she will always have you jumping thru hoops.

So you jump thru all of these hoops to prove your innocence, spend your money, spend your time in order to make her feel comfortable and the biatch doesn't even have the manners to send a simple text saying "thank you" for putting her at ease.

 

[marmel75]

She is basically seeing you act like her puppet and having fun manipulating you. Now she knows the real you and the gig is up bro.

 

[Tilex]

This story sounds familiar

 

[elunium]

Does it sound like she dealt with her anxiety problem you cuck?

Who cares about her anxiety? Its not your problem.

What I am saying is nexting her because she is acting in a way you disaprove in ONE ocasion is a coward move. Its the same as running away from the problem.
The problem here is that women are like that. Unstable, emotional and sometimes irrational.

Your job as a man is to understand that behavior and keep your frame. Be calm, dont give her the validation and attention she wants, and everything will be fine. Thats how you deal with this problem.

You will not find a woman in this world that does not do stuff like this from time to time. Thats how they operate. Be a man and deal with that. If you next her only because of that you will be nexting every woman you meet. They are all like that. Embrace it.

 

[captain55]

Her anxiety issues will manifest themselves in many other areas. Not something I would want to deal with.

A relationship with her will be one where she will always have you jumping thru hoops.

So you jump thru all of these hoops to prove your innocence, spend your money, spend your time in order to make her feel comfortable and the biatch doesn't even have the manners to send a simple text saying "thank you" for putting her at ease.

I sent her the results today and she thanked me and said she feels better now.