Originally posted by Legend
Dont talk down to our responses...we all dont know 100% of your personal situation. From the sounds of it, it seems like you just met this girl. I doubt you are hanging with her on her 21st b-day also.
I wasn't talking down on your responses, where did you get that from? BTW I talked to her a couple of times b4 I got her number. Before I even got her number she said "you should hang out with us on my 21st b-day" (I've talked to her in school a couple of times) Before that, I was talking to her about the clubs she goes to and I asked her how old she was? then she brought up the fact that we should hang out on her 21st b-day, shortly after that, she asked what I was doing that night and then she said,
"you should meet up with us at Chilis and we could all go drinking tonight." I noticed she was trying to get me to ask for her number so I told her to write her # down for me and I would call her and see what's up. So I go and I end up making out with her at some party later on. I think her IL is pretty high bro.
I actually appreciate your input, that's why I asked. The only reason I ws questioning the phone call was b/c I was going to be seeing her on her 21st bday since she DID invite me. I obviously wouldn't go out with someone if I wasn't invited. Anyway if it looked like I was talking down on you, I didn't mean for it to look like that. I appreciate your advice though and it seems like not giving her a card is a good idea, thanks Legend.