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Would you give her a birthday present.......

WillieSacks

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I got this gals number on Tuesday and her b-day is on the 13th of November, so I got her number on 10/28, went drinking with her that day and made out with her that night. I haven't called her since but I saw her around and she invited me to go out clubbing and drinking with her and her friends on her b-day.

Would you give her a present or just show up?

I think I may give her a card, I dunno yet.
 

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A card will be enough.
 

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Well that depends on you.

If you want to fuvk her: NO PRESENT

If you want to be her "friend": Roses, candy, the whole 9 yards.


Seriously speaking, don't get her anything. At the most I'd give her a phone call and wish her a happy birthday. You don't want to freak her out so soon and make her think your already thinking about a relationship after knowing her for 2 weeks. Trust me on that bro.



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No.....not even a card, just a short phone call.
 

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A phone call? Well I'm probably going to go out with her on her b-day b/c it's her 21st bday and she's definitely going out on her 21st bday and she invited me to go with her, I also have a STRONG feeling that I'll get laid on her b-day, if I don't go out on a date with her this week (Which I may do). It's all good though, I'll probably just give her a card. No presents or roses or any $hit like that.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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I'd say just a phone call during the day- wish her a happy birthday- find out what time things are going on and get smashed that night.

No card.

Take her home and there ya go.
 

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A phone call? Well I'm probably going to go out with her on her b-day b/c it's her 21st bday and she's definitely going out on her 21st bday and she invited me to go with her, I also have a STRONG feeling that I'll get laid on her b-day, if I don't go out on a date with her this week (Which I may do). It's all good though, I'll probably just give her a card. No presents or roses or any $hit like that
Dont talk down to our responses...we all dont know 100% of your personal situation. From the sounds of it, it seems like you just met this girl. I doubt you are hanging with her on her 21st b-day also. And if you do get laid its probably because she was drunk. Make sure you were invited because if you "so happen" to end up in the same bar as her you will look weird.

Dont even give her a card man, you will look stupid. Just wish her a happy birthday and if you are spending time with her that night, that is her present.
 

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Originally posted by Legend
Dont talk down to our responses...we all dont know 100% of your personal situation. From the sounds of it, it seems like you just met this girl. I doubt you are hanging with her on her 21st b-day also.
I wasn't talking down on your responses, where did you get that from? BTW I talked to her a couple of times b4 I got her number. Before I even got her number she said "you should hang out with us on my 21st b-day" (I've talked to her in school a couple of times) Before that, I was talking to her about the clubs she goes to and I asked her how old she was? then she brought up the fact that we should hang out on her 21st b-day, shortly after that, she asked what I was doing that night and then she said,
"you should meet up with us at Chilis and we could all go drinking tonight." I noticed she was trying to get me to ask for her number so I told her to write her # down for me and I would call her and see what's up. So I go and I end up making out with her at some party later on. I think her IL is pretty high bro.

I actually appreciate your input, that's why I asked. The only reason I ws questioning the phone call was b/c I was going to be seeing her on her 21st bday since she DID invite me. I obviously wouldn't go out with someone if I wasn't invited. Anyway if it looked like I was talking down on you, I didn't mean for it to look like that. I appreciate your advice though and it seems like not giving her a card is a good idea, thanks Legend.
 

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Originally posted by Legend
No.....not even a card, just a short phone call.
He's going out with her on her birthday and you want him to call her??? WTF!!

Listen, this is a perfect time to put C/F to work. Get her a c/f birthday card! Nothing that's too insulting or overly sexual since her friends will probably be around and the last thing you need to do is embarrass her.
 

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yeah i did'nt realize he was seeing her on her birthday ...i realized after the fact.
 

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What I did:

She was probably busy the day of her birthday, so I didn't call her...but I called her the next day and took her out to a cool restaraunt (we have a cool place called "Rosie's", it's a 50's barbeque place) and took her up to the mountains to watch the sunset.
 

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I'd give her a card at least, this is her 21st for goodness' sake!

Don't buy her a present, but a card with a message in it might be a good idea.
 

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Chicks take their birthday very seriously. You have to do something (a C&F card is the minimum.)

I know, I know, don't buy a chick gifts etc. etc. But the birthday is a different beast.
 

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What did you end up doing? I hope it wasn't a card...when she opened it, your nutz fell out.

You knew her for just a week...!
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Her b-day is this coming thursday and I'm prolly going out with her on Sunday night. I'll give her a card, nothing harmful about htat.
 

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haha i know what to give her

give her a heavy dose of your cack in her lovehole....that should be present enough haha
 
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