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inzone50

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If your LTR g/f went to a club with her friends and a guy there asked her if he could buy her a drink.. she accepted but nothing happen between them?

would you have a talk with her about it?
 

ready123

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go with her next time, and tell her to slide you the drinks she gets

free drinks for you
 

tick37

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Was the first fragmented sentence an actual question? I'll have to say no for the second question.
 

KontrollerX

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ready123 gave the best answer.

Alternatively though if you've got a buddy you can trust 100% have him be at the club next time to observe her behaviour and tell you if nothing really does happen with the guy or guys that buy her drinks such as her and the guy leaving together etc.
 

Nighthawk

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No it would be inappropriate unless she already knew the guy as a friend.
 

DonGorgon

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inzone50 said:
If your LTR g/f went to a club with her friends and a guy there asked her if he could buy her a drink.. she accepted but nothing happen between them?

would you have a talk with her about it?
What you are "ok with" is besides the point cause women will do what they want... Just be glad she is giving you a turn and move on when your time is up.... which it is when she is out have ing men buy her drinks and telling you nothing happened.
 

tick37

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DonGorgon said:
What you are "ok with" is besides the point cause women will do what they want... Just be glad she is giving you a turn and move on when your time is up.... which it is when she is out have ing men buy her drinks and telling you nothing happened.
Be glad she gave you a turn? You're joking, right?
 

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if you cant trust your girl to chill with her friends on her own without u, u have to ask urself if this relationship is right for you.... and before you jump onto the next relationship u need to work out ur jealousy issues... its a weakness.... guys buying girls drinks is what happens in clubs... girls rarely decline.. its free ****..w ould you decline some free stuff? i dont think so.
 

tick37

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sav said:
if you cant trust your girl to chill with her friends on her own without u, u have to ask urself if this relationship is right for you.... and before you jump onto the next relationship u need to work out ur jealousy issues... its a weakness.... guys buying girls drinks is what happens in clubs... girls rarely decline.. its free ****..w ould you decline some free stuff? i dont think so.
Yup, don't be so weak. If she's sees that weakness in you, she'll probably run anyway. You've got to be better than the other guys and getting jealous puts her above you, and you'll lose. Take it as a compliment and tell her you think it's great.
 
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