would she leave if she was interested?

[tomyv]

Ok, this one has me dazed and confused!

Ran into a girl that was the ex of one of my friends who has since moved away. I ran into her about a year ago, and she was drunk and basically all over me and spilled the beans about how she liked me, etc. etc.

I was in a LTR at the time so I didn't do anything about this. I'm now single.

I was walking into a bar on Friday night and saw her sitting with a friend. I decided to act like I didn't see her, get a drink, then go in. As I was walking past, she grabs me and is like "how have you been, I haven't seen you for so long." So I chatted with her for a few and told her I was going to get a drink. While I was chatting with her, she told me everything that was going on in her life, going on and on. Her IL seemed Very High.

So I go to order my drink and I'm talking with my buddy, I look over and she and her friend are walking out the door. As she was leaving she was making serious eye contact, but didnt come over to say bye or anything.

My question, Low IL, or should I have stuck around right off the bat or what?

 

[Surfboard]

It's hard to say what her Interest Level was. Since your gut was telling you that her IL seemed high, then we'll go with that.

Now we have to try to figure out why she wouldn't at least say good-bye before she left. I'd have to throw out the possibility that she was playing hard to get. It's not like you she sees you every day.

So my best guess would be that she didn't pick up a good vibe from you. Maybe you didn't show enough signs that you were at least a little bit interested in her. Who knows???

 

[WaterTiger]

Originally posted by tomyv

I was walking into a bar on Friday night and saw her sitting with a friend. I decided to act like I didn't see her, get a drink, then go in. As I was walking past, she grabs me and is like "how have you been, I haven't seen you for so long." So I chatted with her for a few and told her I was going to get a drink. While I was chatting with her, she told me everything that was going on in her life, going on and on. Her IL seemed Very High.

So I go to order my drink and I'm talking with my buddy, I look over and she and her friend are walking out the door. As she was leaving she was making serious eye contact, but didnt come over to say bye or anything.

My guess is she KNEW you saw her when you walked in and walked past her without a word. She probably thought you were snubbing her and FORCED you to talk to her. She's probably wondering..."Why is he snubbing me? What did I ever do to him?"

If you decide to call her you might have a chance if you do it quick. Don't give her too much time to think about it or she'll start thinking you're just a jerk.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Don't over-analyze things. If you want to make a move, do so.

 

[Quick]

Originally posted by BobbDobbs
Don't over-analyze things. If you want to make a move, do so.

It doesn't mean anything one way or the other. Like others said, it could have just been a response to your actions. Make a move and find out for sure.