Would a 1950s "stepford wife" obedient woman bore most DJs to death?

[LonesomeLoser]

Just out of curiosity because I've seen posts recently about how women want men who offer leadership, guidance, who won't put up with their 5hit etc. And I've seen posts saying how much better things were 50 years ago or so when the women stayed home and cooked and cleaned so I'm just wondering: isn't the modern woman with all her attitude and 5hit tests and b1tchiness a lot more fun and challenging than a submissive obedient woman would be? Imagine a HB10+ (I'm talking purely looks here) who is all wholesome like Little House on the Prairie, never gives you a 5hit test, never talks back, is always the good wife and mother (or would be if you were married). Now I know that I'd get bored to tears by a woman like this, but maybe its because I'm an AFC and I think AFC's are typically not attracted to female versions of AFCs (don't know if there's a sosuave term for that). But what about DJs? Would DJs get bored with women who gave him NO drama, AT ALL? EVER?

 

[Interceptor]

I think that healthy men with healthy self esteem would not find it boring.
I also believe that most people create drama, and want it in their lives to fill up the holes in their lives, and make them feel like their life is meaningful.
People want to care, but when they feel unfulfilled, and unimportant , they create drama to make them care about their lives, and make them think that NOW their life is 'full'.

But it's just full of drama, not positive energy and meaning, purpose, and passion.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

I'm with INTERCEPTOR on this one (and MANY "ones"...lol).

LonesomeLoser,

If what you mean by "1950's Stepford Wives" type chicks is a woman who is kind, giving, agreeable, sexy, classy---when appropriate, affectionately-loving---when appropriate, and on the same page as you as far as her values and beliefs are concerned------then I wouldn't think of this as a recipe for boredom, but rather a battle plan for a BETTER life.

Imagine: If a man had a woman in his life who was more of an ally than a constant "potential" enemy, he could be free to accomplish even MORE in his life-----as opposed to simply living a life of constant distraction and energy drain.

Or, in other words, I think having a woman in your life who can have an opinion and a point of view, but WITHOUT being argumentative and needlessly combative due to immaturity and low self-esteem issues would be a great thing to have.


March on.

 

[Igetit!]

Personally, I agree with Interceptor and Victory Unlimited. A man who is healthy in his mind and spirit wouldn't be "bored" with a woman who loves him and supports him, who has him bset interest at heart. However, I do see your point, though. It's like when someone grows up in a household with constant yelling, fighting, and drama, then when they become an adult, they start the same yelling,fighting,and drama in their own lives because it is all they've ever known. They get so used to the non-stop drama,that peace,quiet,and calmness actualy makes them feel uncomfortable.If you grew up in a time where all you knew was flakiness,constant mood swings,girls dancing on table tops,girls kissing other girls,women thinking that you are beneath them simply because they are "hot",then yeah,in comparison,I can see why you'd think a 1950s obedient "stepford wife" would seem boring.

 

[Petars]

I will take one ...

Drama is for woman.......

 

[Mr. Me]

50 years ago or so when the women stayed home and cooked and cleaned so I'm just wondering: isn't the modern woman with all her attitude and 5hit tests and b1tchiness a lot more fun and challenging than a submissive obedient woman would be? Imagine a HB10+ (I'm talking purely looks here) who is all wholesome like Little House on the Prairie, never gives you a 5hit test, never talks back, is always the good wife and mother (or would be if you were married). Now I know that I'd get bored to tears by a woman like this

Really?

So you prefer an unwholesome woman who keeps the house like a pig sty, goes out a lot, never cleans up, has an attitude, is always sh1t testing you, never lifts a pot to cook you a meal, argues with you and is a bad wife?

Those women do exist. They're called "exes" and "bad choices", among other names.

I think you have a skewed vision of what women were like back when women were feminine by calling them "submissive obedient".

A woman could be a loving, supportive wife and still let her husband know when she disagrees with him and why she disagrees, and do so respectfully, as a partner in a relationship. Don't kid yourself: the expression "If Mama ain't happy, ain't no one happy" originated way back then. If you wanted a happy marriage, you kept your wife happy. If you abused the relationship, she may have been prone to not divorce back then, but it wasn't going to be a fun relationship.

A man has certain emotional needs, just as women do. One of them is to have a comfortable, peaceful home life. No one wants to come home after working all day to chaos. Home is to be an oasis. If you come home and the place is a mess, the kids are screaming, she's yelling at you as soon as you walk in the door, you're not going to be happy.

If you're bored, you can always spice up your life in a healthy way. But if your home life is a mess, that's difficult to tone down. A woman who's a "challenge" has to be a positive, healthy challenge, not a negative, unhealthy one.

 

[speakeasy]

It depends. These days, people have been influenced by MTV, celebrity gossip rags and movies to think there should always be intense sparks and if there isn't something is wrong. 50 years ago, a woman was looking for a guy with good character, a good reputation and one who could provide for a family and that's it. A guy back then was just looking for a woman who was pretty, respectable, could cook and take care of a home and would make a good mother for his kids. Everything else was extraneous. I think these days, men and women just demand more of each other. At that time, we expected our friends to fill those gaps and make like interesting. Now we expect our partners to do that and people have fewer friends.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

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