jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
So, you actually want to meet women, and you can see that many people do this through their work, hobbies, social circles, or other avenues. They often settle for a woman they've found with whom they have something in common, leading to kids, marriage, and maybe after 10 or 15 years, a divorce because, when she changed her job, she met someone new and became attracted to him, or viceversa. Now, you can see this pattern everywhere: people enter LTR's based on initial attraction, cultural expectations, peer pressure, FOMO, or a lack of other options.
Since this scenario occurs due to biological attraction and the desire for something new, people often settle because of societal norms. As a result, they may find themselves unhappy in their LTRs after years of conflicts.
So how do you truly feel about someone who is worth an LTR?
How does a woman—whom you can only find after visiting many places, experiencing various circumstances, and going through numerous experiences—make you feel? How do you know you're not settling but have genuinely found someone who resonates with you? What qualities does this woman possess that make you feel differently as a man compared to other women with whom you also shared a connection? It's easier to discuss STR and ONS, but we are focusing on the perspective on LTR.
If we are here in the forum, I should not make this question, but sas this ever happened to you?
How does a "worthy" woman make you feel in a LTR in such a way that you can recognize her value when dating? How can you avoid cultural biases that pressure you to settle for someone for superficial reasons, and instead focus on the genuine feels this person brings/evoke to you? (This question is particularly relevant for those experiencing "oneitis.")
Since this scenario occurs due to biological attraction and the desire for something new, people often settle because of societal norms. As a result, they may find themselves unhappy in their LTRs after years of conflicts.
So how do you truly feel about someone who is worth an LTR?
How does a woman—whom you can only find after visiting many places, experiencing various circumstances, and going through numerous experiences—make you feel? How do you know you're not settling but have genuinely found someone who resonates with you? What qualities does this woman possess that make you feel differently as a man compared to other women with whom you also shared a connection? It's easier to discuss STR and ONS, but we are focusing on the perspective on LTR.
If we are here in the forum, I should not make this question, but sas this ever happened to you?
How does a "worthy" woman make you feel in a LTR in such a way that you can recognize her value when dating? How can you avoid cultural biases that pressure you to settle for someone for superficial reasons, and instead focus on the genuine feels this person brings/evoke to you? (This question is particularly relevant for those experiencing "oneitis.")
