worried about my sexual health

MakeItHappen

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let me tell you about my predicament.

just yesterday, i started noticing tiny pimples on the head of my penis. No the little pimples around the head of the penis but on it.
my girlfriend have given me a *******(twice and unprotected)and now i'm worried. i remember the first time we were together, things got heated,she gave me head, and we were about to have sex but we stopped and she sed that before we went on she wantd us to get tested just to make sure.
we havent talked about it since, but today, after noticing the tiny bumps yesterday, i called her and told her that we should be serious about it and get tested for any std's soon.

my problem is that i'm still really young(16 yrs old) and i'm not too keen on telling my parents cuz i'm **** scared! if the test comes out positive for anything, i really dont know what i would do cuz the possibility of it just ****!n scares me. right now i need some reassurance from u guys cuz i dont really have anyone i can trust or talk to.

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gav

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when was the last time she gave you a bj?
 

Porky

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the clinics are confidential. I think most will even give you the medication you need without notifying your parents.
 

California Love

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Unless you've had sex with a girl over 18, the clinics will keep you anonymous and provide you with free treatment, like Porky said. Just don't tell them anything other than what the need to know. Say, "I've been sexually active with one partner. I want to get tested."
 

Vincent

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Health and Fitness

Well it shoulda been >.<. Mod's please move this to right place.
 

diablo

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H&F...

Good advice has already been given. As long as you're 17 or under, the Public Health Unit will test you, medicate you, and give you whatever you need all without your parents knowledge. Just bring them a valid form of ID... a drivers license or a birth cert. to verify that you're the proper age.
 

California Love

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Originally posted by diablo
H&F...

Good advice has already been given. As long as you're 17 or under, the Public Health Unit will test you, medicate you, and give you whatever you need all without your parents knowledge. Just bring them a valid form of ID... a drivers license or a birth cert. to verify that you're the proper age.
A valid school id should work also.
 

Cesare Cardinali

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How old is your girfriend? Is she a virgin? Does she have any weird pimples, sores, warts, or whatever in her mouth? Do the pimples hurt?

Maybe it's just pimples and paranoia bro. I suggest asking a doctor (it can't hurt) but also just wait and see if the pimples go away. At 16, your body is going through so many changes that this is probably just pimples. If your GF has no symptons it is pretty unlikely that you caught anything serious. Since you are young, I suggest getting into the habit of using condoms for oral as well as regular sex. Get flavored condoms and get used to the feeling.

Good luck and keep us posted.
 

MakeItHappen

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my girlfriend is 18, she says she's a virgin but u neva know. when i asked her she said that everytime she got close she freaked out and didnt go any further. so i could assume she's a virgin but might not be.

i havent noticed any weird pimples, sores or whatever in her mouth cuz i havent looked but i'll make sure i check.

the pimples dont hurt at all but its funny that i just started noticing them. or maybe i just didnt pay enough attention before.

the last time she gave me a bj was in the early hours of saturday morning (around 3 or 4 am)

thanks 4 the support

i'll make sure i use condoms
 
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