Working the club scene

[Matt Rogers]

I have had very little success with the club scene in the past, and as i am in my last year of university and will never be able to get away with staying up till 2 and sleeping in till 12 the next morning, I thought i might as well take advantage of this.

When I have gone out in the past I never see girls checking me out and when I try and tap girls on the shoulder and ask them if they want to dance I usually get rejected. Am I doing something wrong?

I usually go on my own, as my friends are rather reclusive and have girlfriends. How is the best way to go clubbing on your own?

Also I find that it is very hard to have a conversation as it is so loud? Should I just get their name, ask them to dance then swing them around a bit and start kissing?

Also how do I dance well with a girl. I can sort of shuffle around and sway on my own but aren't very good at doing it with a girl. I don't need anything complicated-just enough to dance with a girl for a few minutes before going into kissing and everything.

 

[bonethugmug]

I ain't the most experienced in the club scene either, but I'll tell you what works for me. Usually, I roll with a friend or two and if we roll up on a 2-set we will roll up together. The thing is, girls will "reject" you mainly if they are dancing with their friends and they don't want them to feel left out. Therefore, it is tough to start dancing with one girl who is in a group. So if that's the case, my friend and I will just start grinding them kind of in a transitional way and the girls will get the message. First time I went to a club, I asked the girl to dance, didn't work. Last time I just went around and if I saw a girl I wanted to dance with, I just did it. Most didn't reject me. As for dancing skills, I'm not the one to ask, but personally, I just learned more as I danced with more girls. As for getting to the kissing part and convos in the club, I am still working on that frotn.

 

[RiceHapa888]

moving up to kissing and **** in a club...if they are doing that sorry ass 1980's **** where you're dancing without touching each other pull her over by her waist with authority (alphaness) and start kinoing her shoulders and back...get that EC and move in for the kiss as the kino and EC escalates- you'll get em everytime!
once you got the kissing it'll progress to making out and by then take her back to a booth and you are on your way to a ONS!

 

[SheepSter]

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my reply from another thread:

What you should always keep in mind is to have fun. You're free to do whatever you want (within the limitations of the law), and so you should act accordingly. By not limiting yourself to the outcome. My advice: make it a great night out, girls come in the 2nd place.

With that in mind I can elaborate on your situation. I've been there so I know what you're talking about. You said you had a great convo, but then don't knew what to do next. It's quitte simple: be BAD. I hope you're at the level that you know she's giving you IOI's. At this point she WANTS you to do something else than talk my friend. At this point you should take her somewhere else in the club (the launch area) and ISOLATE. This is key, because once she's isolated her defences will be gone. Ever noticed how a HB can be a straight b|tch when she's with her friends, and totally yours once you got her alone. Yes isolate I can't stress that enough. Once isolated be BAD and immediately start kissing her, they love it when you take control. Do some push & pull, look her deep in the eyes a couple off times and vary between short and passionate kissing.

Heavy kino needs to be applied now, smell her and tell she smells nice. Keep the kissing going now. Then suddenly STOP. This move is one I always use and it works like a charme for me. I stop and tell her I think I'm going to another place, then get up and slowly start leaving. **Notice that this does three things:
1)You test her
2)You create a challenge/mystery
3)You show her you can leave any time you want
She will probably yell wait, grab you and pull you back. And then my friend your in, because now you got all the power.
Give her a remark like:"What do I get i return if I stay?"
Now 9 out of 10 she asks: "What do you want?"
You want to lay her, be BAD and tell her to come along with you (don't tell her were you're going anticipation + mystery). Take her home or in the nearby dark alley (since you want it fast right) or tell her you want to see the inside of her bedroom. In short be direct now, she's into you already so just be BAD. The rest is up to you.

**Notice I did not say to be a man but to be BAD. This is because if you want to lay a HB the first night you meet things need to go on a faster pace, being a man alone won't cut it. You have to skip certain parts of the seduction game, or go faster with it. Attraction is important, convo less. Therefore you need to isolate as soon as you can. You know the song "bad intensions"of Dr.Dre listen to it and you know exactly what I'm talking about.