working out...necessary?

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Of course it's great to be in good physical condition, but is it necessary to get the women?

I see chicks with fat dudes and really skinny dudes all the time.

Doesnt seem like it would make too much a different if you have all the confidence you need.
 

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If you want to settle for being mediocre, then go ahead... Just don't expect us to endorse it.
 

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I never said I was settling on anything. Just posing the question.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
If you want to settle for being mediocre, then go ahead... Just don't expect us to endorse it.
VERY well said...
 

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After you've been working out for a while, you'll realize that it's more for you than for women. Lifting feels great, gives you a sense of confidence, and is one of those terrific, little accomplishments that adds to your mentality all throughout life. Anyone's who's been consistent at lifting for multiple years will tell you that they definitely do not work out for women.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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you say is it necisery if you already have very high confidence, well it will still give you even more confidence, what you said is like if you got a family car which does 180mph do you need a ferrari if you want to do 180mph, well no you wouldnt need 1 but as you know, no family car does 180mph so your gona need to get a super fast turbo charged sports car.
 

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Do i sense that you may be too lazy/not motivated enough and are trying to make excuses?

Anyway, ive only been lifting for 4months now and initally i did start coz i wanted more/nicer women but after only 4 months im actually mainly doing it for me not them...

Try it! :)
 

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I agree with most of the replies.

Working out isn't essential to getting a woman, and there is plenty of evidence of that, but being in good physical shape is a sure way to increase your value in the minds of women and, more importantly, in your own mind. When you raise your value in any way, you can raise your standards.
 

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Originally posted by AverageFC
Of course it's great to be in good physical condition, but is it necessary to get the women?

I see chicks with fat dudes and really skinny dudes all the time.

Doesnt seem like it would make too much a different if you have all the confidence you need.
Usually the guys who work out for the sole person of trying to attract women don't last very long in the gym, or they are the poseurs who come in, do a few sets of bicep curls (because let's face it, biceps really are the indication of brute strength), flex in front of the mirror, then call it a day.
 

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Originally posted by AverageFC
I never said I was settling on anything. Just posing the question.
Your name alone tells me all I need to know about you. AFC, and proud of it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by diablo
Your name alone tells me all I need to know about you. AFC, and proud of it.
so what are you trying to say?
 

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Originally posted by AverageFC
so what are you trying to say?
It's not so much what I'm saying as what I'm asking. Why would you choose for your name something that nobody on the entire site wants to be; something that everyone is either working or has previously worked hard to cast out of their lives and trample into the depths of their memory?

Anyway, if you think that quality girls are going to go for fat guys, by all means keep scarfing down Mickey D's and sitting in your La-Z-Boy. I'll be in the gym. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by diablo
It's not so much what I'm saying as what I'm asking. Why would you choose for your name something that nobody on the entire site wants to be; something that everyone is either working or has previously worked hard to cast out of their lives and trample into the depths of their memory?

Anyway, if you think that quality girls are going to go for fat guys, by all means keep scarfing down Mickey D's and sitting in your La-Z-Boy. I'll be in the gym. :rolleyes:
Shouldnt judge a book by it's cover d-man. What if my name was DonJ?
 

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well its not necessary BUT think about this, everytime a woman sees a guy on tv that she drools over the guy is usually well built. Not Arnold Schwarzenegger built but usually nice arms, stomach, chest etc. I use that as motivation. Every women loves a nice toned man.


But you should work out for yourself for health and fitness reasons mainly
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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