Ok, about a month ago I met a really good looking girl at a store in the mall near my house. Anyways, we talked for 15 minutes and I then asked for her number. She said no because she doesnt give out her number. Thats fine...actually its good cause she might not be a slut. She then tells me to come in another day when she is working. So, I never catch her when she is workin until yesterday. I go in and talk to her, everything is going great. She remembers what we talked about before and everything. But then I say, "Can I get your number this time or do you still not give it out?" She smiles and almost gives it to me but then says that she wants mine instead. So I decide to give it to her. She says to keep my phone on and get ready for a call. I'm wondering why she did this? Does this mean she didnt wanna talk to me or what? Any insight is appreciated.
Wont give me her number...but asks for mine??
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She doesn't give her number out....to guys she's not interested in.
And how did she "almost give you her number" the second time around?
93% chance you got rejected. Add 1% for every day you don't get a phonecall.
No, don't go to see her again.
And how did she "almost give you her number" the second time around?
93% chance you got rejected. Add 1% for every day you don't get a phonecall.
No, don't go to see her again.
Anyways, we talked for 15 minutes and I then asked for her number.
My bet is that it was a run-of-the-mill conversation. Don't forget, if she is hot, she has been hit on a million times already. Just because YOU think that it was an OK conversation, she wouldn't.
Next time you hit on a store chick, make sure that you are MEMORABLE.
She said no because she doesnt give out her number.
Already been covered by Squirrels.
Thats fine...actually its good cause she might not be a slut.
Nope. She wasn't attracted to you. How could you expect a girl to be attracted just because you TALKED to her? You need to demonstrate personality and demonstrate your values to her first.
She then tells me to come in another day when she is working.
That's a test to see how much of a chump you are.
So, I never catch her when she is workin until yesterday. I go in and talk to her, everything is going great. She remembers what we talked about before and everything.
Hummm, you have invested FAR too much TIME in someone that you don't even know, besides the fact that she is hot.
She knows you have been trying to "bump" into her, like all the others that have visited her. Her employment was to increase traffic to the store.
But then I say, "Can I get your number this time or do you still not give it out?"
That's not a really confident way to ask someone for their number. Plan something first, and then getting the number is an after-thought.
She says to keep my phone on and get ready for a call. I'm wondering why she did this?
She is teasing you.
Does this mean she didnt wanna talk to me or what?
No.
My bet is that it was a run-of-the-mill conversation. Don't forget, if she is hot, she has been hit on a million times already. Just because YOU think that it was an OK conversation, she wouldn't.
Next time you hit on a store chick, make sure that you are MEMORABLE.
She said no because she doesnt give out her number.
Already been covered by Squirrels.
Thats fine...actually its good cause she might not be a slut.
Nope. She wasn't attracted to you. How could you expect a girl to be attracted just because you TALKED to her? You need to demonstrate personality and demonstrate your values to her first.
She then tells me to come in another day when she is working.
That's a test to see how much of a chump you are.
So, I never catch her when she is workin until yesterday. I go in and talk to her, everything is going great. She remembers what we talked about before and everything.
Hummm, you have invested FAR too much TIME in someone that you don't even know, besides the fact that she is hot.
She knows you have been trying to "bump" into her, like all the others that have visited her. Her employment was to increase traffic to the store.
But then I say, "Can I get your number this time or do you still not give it out?"
That's not a really confident way to ask someone for their number. Plan something first, and then getting the number is an after-thought.
She says to keep my phone on and get ready for a call. I'm wondering why she did this?
She is teasing you.
Does this mean she didnt wanna talk to me or what?
No.
PuertoRican_Lover
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other reasons girls don't give out their number..
She lives with her parents and she don't want 20 dudes caling her house asking to lay her....she'll look like a slut to her parents...
also she has a boyfriend and don't want incoming calls
She lives with her parents and she don't want 20 dudes caling her house asking to lay her....she'll look like a slut to her parents...
also she has a boyfriend and don't want incoming calls
Francisco d'Anconia
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100% spot on, good job!!!
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Seriously, are you on crack or something? You do know that initial superficial attraction (Attraction to LOOKS) is like 80% of the inn you get from start?
Other than that, very good interpretation though abit pessimistic I must add
(No one should not expect anything but one should not go around being pessimistic either, negativity leads to failure =))Brilliant assessment. I've experienced this situation before - this is exactly what happened. This one woman I met, tried to play me with a similar bunch of lines - she was probably attracted to me, as I was able to kiss her, but she was just satisfied having a decent looking guy pay attention to her and that was it.
Francisco d'Anconia
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I can understand searching for some reason to help prove she had been truthful in her intentions, I'm sure I'm not the only one here that hopes it works out well.
Although you still can't turn your back on something you said yourself; that you'd find out in the next few days. So how many days exactly a few, 2,3,7,10,14,30, more? I know that there isn't any real way for you to know. Understand that usually if a woman's IL is high she would have given you some specific time frame.
Just something to consider...
Pimp-sicle
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Sorry buddy but you got played BAD!!!
This chick gets paid to be nice while she's at work. She never was interested in you but girls never like being mean so they give you false hope. They do this so you get the hint and leave them alone. Sounds like you visited the store 3 or 4 times hoping to run into her. If you can't # close a girl right off the bat, then you should know that she's not interested. Don't take it personally just move on.
I'll bet my arm and leg that she doesn't call. Girls NEVER call guys for the first contact. Sorry buddy, just learn from your mistake and move on.
If a girl ever tells you to give her your # instead when you attempt to # close, just laugh and her and say "I know how that works." I've actually salvaged a few cold approaches by doing this.
PIMP
This chick gets paid to be nice while she's at work. She never was interested in you but girls never like being mean so they give you false hope. They do this so you get the hint and leave them alone. Sounds like you visited the store 3 or 4 times hoping to run into her. If you can't # close a girl right off the bat, then you should know that she's not interested. Don't take it personally just move on.
I'll bet my arm and leg that she doesn't call. Girls NEVER call guys for the first contact. Sorry buddy, just learn from your mistake and move on.
If a girl ever tells you to give her your # instead when you attempt to # close, just laugh and her and say "I know how that works." I've actually salvaged a few cold approaches by doing this.
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Before cellphones, I would agree with you.
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This used to be one of my favorite things. I would never ask a ho for her number. My goal was to only pull the top producers with high interest.
When they call you it means they really really want to get with you.
What I did was give them my card.
With this system it's a numbers game. The more you give out your card only to interested women the more you get.
You can print a card up on your home computer with your name occupation and phone number on it.
Having a card is so much more proffessional than writing it on a napkin.
Make sure you look like your a success also. Ho's dig that shyt.
Within a weeks time your phone should be ringing off the hook.
If you see a fine one at a coffee house go up to her and chat for a moment then say "it's been nice talking to you ......let's do it again sometime soon...here's my card why don't you give me a call"
Blam...
then comes the Slam and thank you mam..
When they call you it means they really really want to get with you.
What I did was give them my card.
With this system it's a numbers game. The more you give out your card only to interested women the more you get.
You can print a card up on your home computer with your name occupation and phone number on it.
Having a card is so much more proffessional than writing it on a napkin.
Make sure you look like your a success also. Ho's dig that shyt.
Within a weeks time your phone should be ringing off the hook.
If you see a fine one at a coffee house go up to her and chat for a moment then say "it's been nice talking to you ......let's do it again sometime soon...here's my card why don't you give me a call"
Blam...
then comes the Slam and thank you mam..