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[J-Man]

i fvcking hate women.

they are manipulative, deceiving *****es.

i just realised that my best friend (female) has been using me for the past 2 years.

women are *****es.

from now on, im gonna fvck them and leave them. hell, i might even abuse them too. ill get what i want, and theyll get what they want... to be hurt. in any way fvcking possible.

last night, i went into an 711 with this attitude. there was a hot girl in there. i looked her RIGHT in the eye, and thought to myself: "im gonna **** you and leave you, *****." and she stared back at me with those big pupils. wouldnt stop staring actually. COULDNT stop. they are so ****ed up.

you see i look like im 14. dont know why. all the girls think im "cute" and all but its really annoying. and being only about 5'7 doesnt help. ive been looking at all hot women i see now like this. most taller than me! and now they look at me like "damm, i want it. please, treat me like the slutty piece of sh*t that i am." and from now on, i will.

just wanted to get that out of my system.

 

[Ronin I]

How was she using you?

 

[silverdog]

man, i know how you feel, i know that feeling.

 

[J-Man]

shes insecure as hell. i was always there for her, giving her a shoulder to cry on etc. i dont wanna get into details but yes she was deffinitally (sp?) using me.

im not THAT pathetic, lol. i was doing that for her because i WANTED to be her "just friend." we were very close, or so i thought.

 

[Entity]

so you're going to let one bad experience with a female mess up anything else you may have with another?

 

[davelmn2003]

I feel for you J-Man. Girls don't know what's in their best interest, just like children, dare I say. Women, though, may be a little different.

What really interests me is what happened with that hot girl you saw at 711 who couldn't stop staring at you?? You were on a high gear (fueled by anger). You should have boned her right there or asked her to come back home with you. Heck, she might even have agreed, given what you said!

 

[Sting]

I hate to break it to you, but you let yourself be used. You didn't do so knowingly, but you still did. I don't know what made you wake up to the fact, but like many on this board, I'm glad you did.

Now, for your current attitude towards women. You're clearly angry that you've been used by someone you called a "friend." Frankly, you should be far more selective with who you call your friend. Friendship is earned by exhibiting loyalty and integrity. Without generalizing too much, and based solely on annecdotal evidence, young women (e.g. 14-18) rarely exhibit true friendship among their own gender, much less with members of the opposite sex.

 

[wise_mage]

does anyone aggree with what he said about girls wanting to be treated like *****s and sluts and ****ed and used and be hurt and abused?
do the really want this? if so why? and why do they say the hat it? is this what they are looking for?

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Not all women are bad. You only got burned by 1 woman.

 

[Sojourner]

I hope this doesn't sound too callous, but they say "there are no victims, just volunteers".

 

[Reto]

I know what you mean. Sort of. I finally got fed up of being an AFC that i got angry. I got used from my oneitis. Basically, I quit giving a crap what women thought. If I hurt thier feelings, I just didn't care any more. Me is all that matters.

I'm not anry any more, but I built on it and quit my AFC ways. No more putting chick on a pedestal. No more bending over backward for them.

How did you feel when you looked that chick in the eye in 7-11? She probably thought you were oozzing with confidence. Exactly what chicks want...

Learn and build on your anger...

 

[stevey_2000]

i agree with entity and diplomatic lies...

don't let 1 woman send you into a frenzy because she was acting wierd!, ignore her and go and look for other women to sh**!!!

i always get women telling me i'm 'cute' (i use that to my advantage ;-)), but my bro, who also goes out clubbing with me, is 'hot' (as the girls put it) but we get the same amount of girls as each other!

if you get told your 'cute', then your on your way to being 'hot' , well that is the way i put it ;-))

Just don't let a women get to you my friend, no matter what they say or do to p!ss you off...

good luck!!

 

[Chemistry]

You sound kinda psychopathic but in reality only you are to blame as you let her use you...

Use it as an experience to open your eyes to not just women, but the world in general.. don't go off on some rampage because of it and instead merely think of it as a life lesson... remember that 1st time you touched the stove top and burnt yourself or did another thing equally as stupid growin' up... you did it, found out the hard way albeit, but then you didn't do it again... what you didn't do was go off on some blind rampage throwin' your stove out, vowin never to use a pan or stove again

Rationality is the key...

I'm not quite sure what you did with the girl in the shop, lol... why didn't you just say "Hi!" or start the conversation up, via a simple observation, rather than staring at her and not sayin jack... for all you know she could've been waiting for you to open your mouth, because she really wanted to talk but didn't have the confidence to start things off.. I hope you're not just assuming these women want you based on the "I want you to hurt me" look, lol, rather it is based on actual success with them...

End of the day, "Cute" is better than nothin'... it's a compliment a conversation starter, use it to build with.. would you prefer if they never said anythin' or called you ugly, both of those would be a little more concernin' to me

 

[Starman]

Ive been in this predicament before with my oneitus..always there for her, shoulder to cry on, blah blah blah

then as soon as we get into a little tiff..she turned around and started talking all this $hit about me like "Im glad Im not talking to him anymore! He is Weird!"

The point is .. Nobody OWES you a damn thing..if you gave this girl a shoulder to cry on..if it is YOUR true generosity with your time and empathy..then you shouldnt expect anything in return.

If you were just trading empathy, compassion, gifts , etc..to hopefully get in her pants..of course you are going to feel gyped at the end.

You are as selfish as her, but you didnt get what you wanted in the end.

Sure friends are supposed to reciprocate what you give to them..but you should realize it immediately if they dont..Ive made this mistake several times..and Ive learned.

The thing about respect, integrity, reciprocation are all true about friendship..the first sign someone crosses these boundries..its time to NEXT them.

 

[Eminem]

LOL!

You will get all pissy and go fcvk a broad and get herpes!

Why don't you just bang your best friend?

E

 

[J-Man]

Originally posted by davelmn2003
What really interests me is what happened with that hot girl you saw at 711 who couldn't stop staring at you?? You were on a high gear (fueled by anger). You should have boned her right there or asked her to come back home with you. Heck, she might even have agreed, given what you said!

i was too shocked. looking back i should have gone right up to her... o well.

im not basing this off of one girl, or two or three. come to think of it, i cant think of ONE female i have ever known who isnt like this.

and Ashley Chuckles, thats exactly what ive done. learned an important lesson about women.

 

[RazzleDazzle]

I haven't really met a good woman either. They are all just too flaky. You can't trust them with anything. Keep your anger though J. Because if you don't get angry you'll get depressed. And you learn better when your angry than depressed.

And don't touch the ones between 14-18 they are hopeless as GF material. Mood swings, not dependable, selfish little princess syndrome, and they all want to fall in love.

Your mad because your hurt and deservedly so. Don't listen to anyone who says you got what was coming. They don't know the details of your relationship anyways. They can only say that because they didn't have feelings for her like you do (did). Time is the only thing that will help you. That and learn from your mistakes with her.

Good luck.

 

[matius]

I haven't really met a good woman either. They are all just too flaky. You can't trust them with anything. Keep your anger though J. Because if you don't get angry you'll get depressed. And you learn better when your angry than depressed.

Man I dig that sentiment.

Yes, I think women want to be treated like a slut when it gets down to the dirty deed. But they also want a guy who knows how to treat them right with that attitude.

You could have the best intentions in the world when dealing with some chick. You want to treat her like the bomb but she uses you than flakes. Very frustrating to say the least.