Women wanting sex rather than me go down on them.

[Rainman4707]

Noticed something recently with women is they seem more interested in getting fu*ked than me going down on them. I give them foreplay, kissing their neck, smelling them, play with their tits, rub their pu**y etc etc. Women respond by telling me to fu8k them.
Any thoughts?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Noticed something recently with women is they seem more interested in getting fu*ked than me going down on them. I give them foreplay, kissing their neck, smelling them, play with their tits, rub their pu**y etc etc. Women respond by telling me to fu8k them.
Any thoughts?

They feel like sex combined with orgasm causes more of an emotional connection. Women are avoiding emotional connections like guys nowdays. We need some of the more successful in the field to comment.

Some of them are using women for the oral. Because they are on the same cause. Sex is only to procure favor and resources. They are playing a game thats fun for them.

 

[TBG]

I'd just take it as they're so turned on at that point they want you to **** them.

I've had it with women giving me a blow job, yeah i was enjoying it but I wanted to **** at that point.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Happened the same to me..

 

[sazc]

I'd just take it as they're so turned on at that point they want you to **** them.

this

my girlfriend was complaining to me about a hookup she had telling me "He just wouldn't stop eating my pvssy, in my head I was like ENOUGH, can we get to fvcking already???'

There's always the possibility that she just doesn't like oral but, IMO, it has nothing to do with your oral skills, she's just really ready for it.

 

[sosousage]

it means your plates dont clean their vags

 

[sosousage]

I give them foreplay, kissing their neck, smelling them, play with their tits, rub their pu**y etc etc.

wtf, so much work just to fucc

 

[mrgoodstuff]

In many cases, it is not that they don’t want you to do it at all, they only want you down there long enough to get them going.

Women have different types of orgasms with different sexual acts. Some just prefer the feeling of penetration when climaxing.

You feel most women orgasm from penetration? In my experience its less than 50% the others need oral or manual **** stimulation.

 

[SoSuave666]

You feel most women orgasm from penetration? In my experience its less than 50% the others need oral or manual **** stimulation.

I believe it to be much much less than 50%. If you want to give your girl constant orgasms foreplay (fingers, tongue) is usually the best way to achieve this. However she may be able to orgasm from penetration once in a while....she may just like the feeling of getting fvcked hard.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That is not what I said. I’m not talking about all women.

I’m talking about these particular kinds of women.

Women who want you to stop and finish them with penetration prefer that felling over climaxing from oral.

I have been with women who do all of these same things the OP is talking about, yet they still constantly sext me, always starting with how they wish I was going down on them at that moment. But they never want me to finish whenever I am actually with them and doing it.

They want it just to get going. They still like it. they just want penetration more.

They desire you want to be fvcked specifically by you. Thats the way it should be.

 

[Rainman4707]

People say that a good lover should be concerned with the women's pleasure before his own.

First time I have sex with a woman, once I'm hard..I just want to fu*k her, so therefore I'm similar to the mentality of your post.

the first time they just want to get it over with and revel in the achievement.

 

[Rainman4707]

wtf, so much work just to fucc

I recommend you buy 2gts (two girls teach sex) program.
It has made me better in bed.

A woman needs to be warmed up (aroused) before you fu*k her.

 

[SoSuave666]

I recommend you buy 2gts (two girls teach sex) program.
It has made me better in bed.

A woman needs to be warmed up (aroused) before you fu*k her.

Yes this is basic knowledge and a lot of guys are dismissing it. There are two reasons why she doesn't want you to go down on her:

1. She is already at the point of very high arousal. Maybe your fingers did the trick?

2. She is not comfortable enough with you. I've had girls I just met let me bang but not go down on them. I'm also going to lump into this group the fact that she may not be feeling completely hygienic that day.

 

[Mike32ct]

Been with about 10 women in total. Not one wanted me to go down.

It’s always kiss, grind, finger or bj, then F.

 

[RickTheToad]

I recommend you buy 2gts (two girls teach sex) program.
It has made me better in bed.

A woman needs to be warmed up (aroused) before you fu*k her.

I watched it. Some interesting techniques. Forgot about the old pillow under the back thing... Just google it and you can d/l it for free.

 

[RickTheToad]

OP, most ladies do not get off through d!ck in puss, but a good way is to prime her with your touch. As for not wanting to go down, that's not always a bad thing. If that is the case, it could be that she is already very highly aroused and she just wants to be fvcked like an animal. Take control and beat that puss into next week. If you do it right, she'll be screaming for more.

 

[lamath]

This make me think of AMS that say a man should never go down on a women.



From my experience when she tells you to go in, thats usualy means she is really into it.
When this happens i like to make her wait longer until i decide its time, this use to work wonder on now ex.

 

[SoSuave666]

This make me think of AMS that say a man should never go down on a women.



From my experience when she tells you to go in, thats usualy means she is really into it.
When this happens i like to make her wait longer until i decide its time, this use to work wonder on now ex.

I like AMS. But with any advice it's usually best to tailor it to your own style. Going down on a chick is in no way shape or form AFC in my book. You better be ****ing her too tho.

I have seen the video where AMS said that girls usually do not orgasm from penetrative sex. I 100% agree with that...most women do not. It's about foreplay. If you don't want to go down on a girl, use your fingers. If you don't want to use your fingers have her grind on your ****. Be seductive, I have found ears and obviously nipples to be sensitive parts that arouse women very well if you aren't into the other ****. Also if you aren't into going down on a girl or fingering you better be building seduction for at least an hour prior to hooking up.

 

[RickTheToad]

This make me think of AMS that say a man should never go down on a women.



From my experience when she tells you to go in, thats usualy means she is really into it.
When this happens i like to make her wait longer until i decide its time, this use to work wonder on now ex.

Guess it depends. Some men like it. Some don't. Usually ladies like it. Again, depends. NFN, AMS is black, 6'4'' and huge in NYC. Much bigger pool to deal with than most other places. If a man cannot get laid in NYC, Miami, Chicago, Dallas, LA, Boston, etc. then it truly is that man. These cities are just overflowing with puss.

 

[RickTheToad]

I like AMS. But with any advice it's usually best to tailor it to your own style. Going down on a chick is in no way shape or form AFC in my book. You better be ****ing her too tho.

I have seen the video where AMS said that girls usually do not orgasm from penetrative sex. I 100% agree with that...most women do not. It's about foreplay. If you don't want to go down on a girl, use your fingers. If you don't want to use your fingers have her grind on your ****. Be seductive, I have found ears and obviously nipples to be sensitive parts that arouse women very well if you aren't into the other ****. Also if you aren't into going down on a girl or fingering you better be building seduction for at least an hour prior to hooking up.

Blindfolds work wonders too.