Women talk 3 times more than men

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Women talk three times as much as men, says study
By FIONA MACRAE Last updated at 22:00pm on 27th November 2006

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Women talk almost three times as much as men, according to the research.
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It is something one half of the population has long suspected - and the other half always vocally denied. Women really do talk more than men.

In fact, women talk almost three times as much as men, with the average woman chalking up 20,000 words in a day - 13,000 more than the average man.

Women also speak more quickly, devote more brainpower to chit-chat - and actually get a buzz out of hearing their own voices, a new book suggests.

The book - written by a female psychiatrist - says that inherent differences between the male and female brain explain why women are naturally more talkative than men.

In The Female Mind, Dr Luan Brizendine says women devote more brain cells to talking than men.

And, if that wasn't enough, the simple act of talking triggers a flood of brain chemicals which give women a rush similar to that felt by heroin addicts when they get a high.

Dr Brizendine, a self-proclaimed feminist, says the differences can be traced back to the womb, where the sex hormone testosterone moulds the developing male brain.

The areas responsible for communication, emotion and memory are all pared back the unborn baby boy.

The result is that boys - and men - chat less than their female counterparts and struggle to express their emotions to the same extent.

"Women have an eight-lane superhighway for processing emotion, while men have a small country road," said Dr Brizendine, who runs a female "mood and hormone" clinic in San Francisco.

There are, however, advantages to being the strong, silent type. Dr Brizendine explains that testosterone also reduces the size of the section of the brain involved in hearing - allowing men to become "deaf" to the most logical of arguments put forward by their wives and girlfriends.

But what the male brain may lack in converstation and emotion, they more than make up with in their ability to think about sex.

Dr Brizendine says the brain's "sex processor" - the areas responsible for sexual thoughts - is twice as big as in men than in women, perhaps explaining why men are stereotyped as having sex on the mind.

Or, to put it another way, men have an international airport for dealing with thoughts about sex, "where women have an airfield nearby that lands small and private planes".

Studies have shown that while a man will think about sex every 52 seconds, the subject tends to cross women's minds just once a day, the University of California psychiatrist says.

Dr Brizendine, whose book is based on her own clinical work and analyses of more than 1,000 scientific studies, added: "There is no unisex brain.

"Girls arrive already wired as girls, and boys arrive already wired as boys. Their brains are different by the time they're born, and their brains are what drive their impulses, values and their very reality.

"I know it is not politically correct to say this but I've been torn for years between my politics and what science is telling us.

"I believe women actually perceive the world differently from men.

"If women attend to those differences they can make better decisions about how to manage their lives."

Other scientists, however, are sceptical about the effects of testosterone on the brain and say many of the differences between the male and female personality can be explained by social conditioning, with a child's upbringing greatly influencing their character.

Deborah Cameron, an Oxford University linguistics professor with a special interest in language and gender, said the amount we talk is influenced by who we are with and what we are doing.

She added: "If you aggregate a large number of studies you will find there is little difference between the amount men and women talk."

Already available in the US, The Female Brain will be available in the UK from April.
 

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It's true, but there's still some BS in that article, and it's funny how it has so many quotes by that woman!
The result is that boys - and men - chat less than their female counterparts and struggle to express their emotions to the same extent.
We don't struggle because we don't even try.
 

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i like how it took some huge dr. feminist study to prove something we already knew. "big news everyone; girls talk a lot." there's TONS of BS in that article...but what else would you expect from a "self-proclaimed feminist..."
 

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The funny thing is that when I do less talking girls want to do more talking.
 

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There was a ton of BS in that article. You can't get an unbiased report when you are quoting a feminist. Men refuse to hear even the most logical arguments?! I have heard such BS spewed from so many women. I think men are the logical ones, while women's logic gets clouded with their emotions. And to say women barely think of sex is a major spin. They may think of it differently. For example, while a guy may be thinking about plowing some girl, the girl is thinking of getting in a relationship, romance, etc. Not to mention that while guys are out having fun, girls are busy talking to each other about guys.
 

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I'm sick of hearing this "men think about sex every x seconds"

that is such bull****

Women only say that men are sex-obsessed so that they can justify their own dirty thoughts/habits.

so far in my college, everytime I've seen a group of girls talking, its been sex related (very graphic too. dildos, joking about sex, innuendos between eachother, etc)
 

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The "every xx seconds" is a load of bull. http://www.snopes.com/science/stats/thinksex.asp Its been debunked a billion times. I can't even comprehend how someone thinks of it almost every minute, it must be exhaustive. I even account for porn stars!

I forget where I heard this (someone confirm it). But when men talk, it tends to be more succinct and blunt. While women need to rationalize their thoughts verbally, and talk in a more indirect manner.

Woman: Does it seem akward in here. I smell something odd, I think it is coming from that direction. Do you think it is the heat ducts? It's definitely not me. Maybe it was someone in here before. Did you shower this morning?
Man: You stink.
The funny thing is, low levels of testosterone is responsible for:
Memory Loss
Drops in Verbal Memory
Improves Spatial Memory
 

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I reckon Pook must be a woman, cuz damn, his posts are long!

Seriously though, men aren't just gorillas who like to grunt once in a while. Some of history's greatest men (Caesar, Roosevelt, Hitler) were masters of talking. Don't fall into that stupid stereotype.
 

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diplomatic_lies said:
I reckon Pook must be a woman, cuz damn, his posts are long!

Seriously though, men aren't just gorillas who like to grunt once in a while. Some of history's greatest men (Caesar, Roosevelt, Hitler) were masters of talking. Don't fall into that stupid stereotype.
There's a difference between being a "master speaker" and getting a high off of running your mouth.
 

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I know a girl who talks three times more than the women who talk three times more than men in six times less the time necessary for women to talk three times more than men. The subject is always changing, the pitch of her voice is piercing and almost annoying, and she cannot be interrupted when she gets going. That's scary.
 

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lol i heard about this from jay leno. he goes:

"Don't quote me on this, but a recent study by a woman in London found that women talked 3 times as much as men...

...Which actually works out quite well because men only listen one third of the time"
 
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