Women like "new" guys

[SoSuaveDude]

A recent epiphany that hit me, seems obvious but i'll share it anyway.

Women love the tangible feeling of thrill, mystery, and excitement they get when dealing with a new guy. Many of you guys wonder how to keep a women's interest for extended periods of time, but the women of today get "wet" at the event of a new potential lover/bad boy entering their life.

Remember that time when you were once the new guy she practically begged to fuark?

Seriously, this instinct proves true time and time again, and for those trying to maintain mystery in a successful LTR. It's impossible. This is another reason why you should not expect women especially under 25 to be wife material. Enjoy your fling for however long it lasts, but realize that things will likely end, not because you're necessarily low quality, but because women love the "chase" and "drama" of new love. Consider it like a new novel or series she has discovered. Yeah she still remembers and likes harry potter, but she loves the exciting new series of twilight and the character progression. Human nature is like this to an extinct, being that we all get tired of a predictable, daily boring routine.

I guess this phenomenon coincides with the fable of women working hard for marriage, bending over for their fiance, cooking, and trying their best to satisfy him and such, but a year or two after marriage once the chase is well over, they contribute no more productive energy into the relationship as she no longer "feels" it. Sex declines with compliance, etc.

Never stop improving yourself, because there's a 99% chance your current lover isn't permanent

My main point is don't take women seriously. Enjoy the moment of the fling, and fall for her in the moment, but know how to cut ties when she goes sour/ looks for other guys. So many "no contact" threads as of late. No contact's a waste of time. Quit contributing effort to a broken, overdue relationship. Go look for more women, and spin plates during your next fling!

 

[PapiChulo]

Yes, that's why you don't become boring and predictable. If you are exciting in comparison to others, the risks decrease exponentially. You also have an advantage over new guys because of the history together.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Yes, that's why you don't become boring and predictable.

Which means you're always a "new" guy.

 

[C-quenced]

This post MUST garner more attention and hopefully it can save a couple of lost tortured souls. Good ****ing post brother!

A recent epiphany that hit me, seems obvious but i'll share it anyway.

Unfortunately it isn't so obvious to the mass majority. That evidence is all around us.

Women love the tangible feeling of thrill, mystery, and excitement they get when dealing with a new guy. Many of you guys wonder how to keep a women's interest for extended periods of time, but the women of today get "wet" at the event of a new potential lover/bad boy entering their life.

It's all about novelty and the feelings that follow the chemical process of falling or being in love (mystery, exhilaration etc.) which eventually begins to wear off in time, the longer you're with the same person. Familiarity is one of the prime attraction killers. I think Robert Greene in his book "The Art of Seduction" puts it really well but I'm unable to find the part in which he addresses this drastic mistake.

Remember that time when you were once the new guy she practically begged to fuark?

Seriously, this instinct proves true time and time again, and for those trying to maintain mystery in a successful LTR. It's impossible.

Very much impossible but I'm afraid egos will get in the way and many will rationalize about how great of a person they are so there should be women who will somehow overlook the whole mystery factor. I seen this line of thinking bring dire consequences.

This is another reason why you should not expect women especially under 25 to be wife material.

They're not wife material even when they're OVER 25. The men in our society must abandon the medieval courtship system and get with the times.

Enjoy your fling for however long it lasts, but realize that things will likely end, not because you're necessarily low quality, but because women love the "chase" and "drama" of new love. Consider it like a new novel or series she has discovered. Yeah she still remembers and likes harry potter, but she loves the exciting new series of twilight and the character progression. Human nature is like this to an extinct, being that we all get tired of a predictable, daily boring routine.

Men should quit feeling guilty for using women and dropping their white knighting ways. Society can disagree with everything I say EXPECT for one thing, which is the FACT that we don't owe women anything... not even commitment. Men should finally come to the realization that it's okay for them to finally live their lives and drop women that they no longer deem worthy of keeping around for ANY reason without being weighed down by guilt.

Never stop improving yourself, because there's a 99% chance your current lover isn't permanent

Even in the face of facts and evidence we're still going to get these fools coming around FEELING that their circumstances are somehow different and you just need to find that one "special" woman. It's truly ****ing pathetic.

My main point is don't take women seriously. Enjoy the moment of the fling, and fall for her in the moment, but know how to cut ties when she goes sour/ looks for other guys. So many "no contact" threads as of late. No contact's a waste of time. Quit contributing effort to a broken, overdue relationship. Go look for more women, and spin plates during your next fling!

I been preaching this for so long now but it ALWAYS seems to fall on deaf ears. This is among some of the best pearls of wisdom that can be handed to anyone.

It should also be brought to attention that most "relationships" are broken before they even start and most women themselves are generally damaged goods way before we even step into the picture.

I may have a negative tone to my post but it's nothing more then the beautiful sounds of reality.

 

[Majestyc]

My main point is don't take women seriously. Enjoy the moment of the fling, and fall for her in the moment, but know how to cut ties when she goes sour/ looks for other guys. So many "no contact" threads as of late. No contact's a waste of time. Quit contributing effort to a broken, overdue relationship. Go look for more women, and spin plates during your next fling!

Amen. Great post.

 

[bigneil]

We don't remember days or years, we remember moments. Try to have the best moments with women.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

In fact, you could also say that one of the best ways to protect yourself from flaky women is by choosing to only give serious consideration to those who STAY interested in you long after they "think" they know you pretty well.

Silly girls can only fall into infatuation with you.

But only serious women can develop a real, lasting connection with you.

 

[ezio]

this entire thread is very profound. we need more like this. bump bump

 

[DonGorgon]

very true information here.. relationships are like a count down clock to the end you can always see the change in her interest level and how horny she gets and hos the frequency of sex goes down.. I have found that being her boyfriend is the worst dude to be in her life cause she is usually tired of you fast and cheating with new random dudes.. when you are the BF you will always notice that eventually she will try to reduce the sex and use you for emotional boost and for going out and spending money..

all women cheat young and old ..ld women are just more picky and they hide their cheating better

 

[LostAndConfused]

This is really so true. I hope you made this thread about my earlier No Contact thread today...... I went NC with this girl and she didn't stop texting me tonight. I'm beginning to reach some very nice conclusions that would be great for the community here .

I believe that at some point, we can ALMOST ALGORITHMICALLY predict female behavior. Sound nerdy enough for you?

Just think about it....we humans aren't evolving anymore because Genetic Drift can't happen (airplanes alone make GD impossible), unless some crazy sh1t hits the fan (Read: apocalyptic population shrinkage). Therefore men and women have both already evolved all of the facets of their Sexual Strategy, and these will not change until the end of man. Example of an evolved trait: concealed ovulation. Chimp females are easy to pick off when they're in heat, human females not so much so, although science has already told us that they will dress more scantily!

It's not like in the next 20 years girls will all of a sudden have a new dating strategy that makes their feminine ancestors green with envy. Nope, the sh1t's always been the same, except we're in the land of purely female choice again where only the alphas succeed.

So tell me, what would you do if I told you WHEN exactly to bail out of a casual dating relationship, so you can preserve the upper hand?

Follow me here, I actually have a hypothesis..... Hopefully in a couple of years I can write blog posts about this and tell guys how to manipulate this to your own personal gain. First off, I'm going on the MAJOR assumption that when you meet this girl, right off the bat she knows you're not a beta, or a desperate AFC, if you will. My finding's don't really apply to one night stands or *extremely* short term relationships where you work to get the lay and then the spark fizzles out.

Case and point: I had an HB7 who I experimented with by treating her like a complete *******. She gave up a lay during one ovulation, but after that we NEVER talked afterwards. Hardcore alpha doesn't make much for an affair, I learned.

In the casual dating scene, you meet a girl and show up as a new alpha into a girl's life, and she'll give you, on average, two, maybe three ovulations - by this I mean she'll let you fvck her during her horniest, most fertile days two or three times. That's about 2-3 months of good loving, and she will absolutely WORSHIP you during these first few months, treating you like a king.

After that, she'll let you fvck her again about 7-5 days before her next ovulation, then she'll fvck Mr. MysteriousNextGuy during that ovulation. You won't get her at her horniest, but you will get her nonetheless. Pretty much EVERY hookup at my college has gone this way. I'm sure this goes similarly for other college guys, but I took note to track where they are on their cycle over the past few girls.

Doesn't this make sense on some level though? By 2-3 months of hooking up with a girl, she already knows so much about you that you can no longer be a mystery. Sure you can act spontaneous, but it will still be understood under a range of your acceptable behaviors. And the spontaneous, known, guy is still no match for the nonspontaneous unknown fella.

Heres the kicker......if you counted 14 days right from her period, she'll suddenly go MISSING or no contact during the next ovu.

In the past 2 years, this is how just about every short term fling has gone for me....however, now that I see a pattern, I can begin to act on it.

If you've read the book Sperm Wars, this is basically what girls do in a MARRIED cuckolding setting.... the girl pits male vs. male for breeding rights in her vagina. In more distant times, it used to be whoever killed the other man, but more often now it's the psychosocially dominant guy who can give her tingles at the right time.

But as all us game-enlightened folk know, the battle vs. Mr. MysteriousNextGuy is an uphill battle, guaranteed to be a loss unless he's a beta. During her ovulation, the girl c*ms more, and harder, and that's a win in MysteryGuy's book. She essentially put your sperm in a worse time of the month to get to her egg. Read Roissy's explanation of how game is even more important in a relationship than as a single guy: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/03/26/game-is-even-more-important-for-relationships/

Of course esteemed PhD's in psychology will never do the research to back this up will NEVER happen, just think of the ramifications on the feminine imperative....

I'm thinking about making a thread/discussion about this, but I need more evidence.

It'll take a couple more girls for me to realize how to play this the best but my HYPOTHESIS is that when she gives you the pre-ovulatory lay, she acts distant during ovulation as she seeks Mr.Next (unlike us men being able to juggle girls, girls can't carry two alpha males in her heart, she puts you on the backburner when Mother Nature tells her to find Mr.Next).

That's when you DO go no contact.

Preliminary field results show that I'm exactly right. During the next ovulation when her instincts are telling her to find the new guy, you are scrambling that design by making her wonder WHERE THE FVCK YOU ARE! And by all means, insinuate that you're seeing someone else, without being explicit.

This girl today just reached out to me tonight, if you read my no contact thread. Win in my book. But where I lost was responding to her. Funny enough, she left me hanging just like I did her a week ago. I should have stayed no contact.

 

[Mike32ct]

Lost and Confused: That is fascinating stuff, and I totally believe it. But just out of curiousity and to play devil's advocate, doesn't most of her mating selection vs. time of ovulation theory fall apart if she's on the pill? A lot of girls are on the pill. It tricks the body into thinking it's already pregnant and PREVENTS ovulation.

I guess what I'm asking is "Do you find that your theory still holds when your plates are on the pill?". Granted, you might not know if she is, but some might mention it.

 

[bigneil]

Great news LostAndConfused.

you can always see the change in her interest level .. I have found that being her boyfriend is the worst dude to be in her life cause she is usually tired of you fast and cheating with new random dudes.. ...all women cheat young and old ...

I agree with this. There is a process I use called Normalization. That is to accept whatever is normal and not worry about it. For example, we all have teeny tiny bugs crawling on our skin. But it's normal. Likewise, women sleep around but this is normal.

A lot of men here have a losing strategy which is:

1) Be extra needy
2) Fall extra hard
3) Lay down the LAW
4) Never forgive her if she "cheats"

My strategy is different:

1) Have sex with her regularly
2) Make her orgasm so she will have "feelings for you"
3) Be a challenge so she will chase you
4) Commit to noone (Law of Power #20) so she can't cheat on you

This strategy leads to women who are faithful by choice versus by fear.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Three things:

1. Has anyone compared this forum right now versus 5 years ago?

Five years ago people were, similar to myself, working diligently on improving themselves. People actually addressed real problems that they personally had with girls, and helpful members of the forum taught them the best way to behave.

When you look at the first page of threads in the DJ forum, don't you see more generalizations now, don't you see more "women suck" threads now?

Because its true.

Women suck.

Much of the manosphere, I believe, myself included have realized that improving ourselves to have better station with women is relatively pointless. SO YOU GUYS TOLD US, "CHASE PAPER, NOT SKIRTS."

We have money now. Happiness hasn't increased, women are no less flaky. Now what?

Even in 5 years girls have gotten worse it seems.

The type of threads that appear on this hallowed forum have grown darker and more depressing. And let me tell you, I fvcking love this forum. I've learned so much here, and girls indirectly are grateful for what I've learned, now that I can dish out epic servings of manliness to them.

Girls will still give Mr.MysteriousNext a better chance, even if you are superior to him in every way. I highly doubt that the CURRENT girl I'm seeing's new ovulatory guy is Ivy Educated, has model looks, is athletic, and has a huge c0ck like me, but nonetheless he still wins. My aggregate looks are top notch, and its pretty solid that I have 2 jobs on top of that at the age of 21. I keep building and building my value but honestly guys, it doesn't mean sh1t to women.


The only way, and I repeat, the ONLY way to win is to have another girl you're fvcking on the side. But plate theory doesn't really hold in certain places. Case and point, my university. The party scene is small, so everyone knows the girl I'm hooking up with currently. Place like this give women an inherent advantage, as adding a new man takes ZERO effort for a girl, while adding a new plate for a guy takes considerable effort.

I'm an attractive guy and find adding plates really easy, but I'm still no match for the average girl. They'll always have power in that stead.

And thats the whole uphill argument that most of the older guys on this forum fail to realize. Sure we can spin plates, but THEY CAN DO IT TOO. And they do it easier.

2. Birth Control. We now know, empirically, that BC fvcks up girls hormones.

And we've heard the stories. A woman on birth control is attracted and dates this guy for several years, they get married, she goes off BC and finds him utterly repulsive.

Similarly, girls go for nice guys more. You said it yourself. It tricks girls into thinking they're pregnant.

When girls are pregnant, they actually DO want a provider/protector. I think this is the state most men WANT to be in in the first place.


Let me take a step back and explain my personal experience with girls on birth control. One girl in particular, an HB7.5, I kept as a fvck buddy for one and a half years.. I even pulled super huge beta-AFC moves like asking her to be my girlfriend. She said no, but still gave up the pvssy.

So you're exactly right. The pill makes all of my ideas fall apart. However, I think the Pill ALSO makes girls more attached to you, which is what we all want anyways, isn't it?

3. Orgasms. I used to think they were the keys to a girls heart, but really girls aren't that hard to make c*m. I don't even give them oral anymore, just a couple of minutes of fingering and they're hitting orgasms from the real thing, quite often. I believe that most alpha males make the girl *** at this point anyways, from what I've read in Sperm Wars.

And they c*m harder for the mysterious guy, every time.

 

[nightcrawler]

Three things:

1. Has anyone compared this forum right now versus 5 years ago?

Five years ago people were, similar to myself, working diligently on improving themselves. People actually addressed real problems that they personally had with girls, and helpful members of the forum taught them the best way to behave.

When you look at the first page of threads in the DJ forum, don't you see more generalizations now, don't you see more "women suck" threads now?

Because its true.

Women suck.

Much of the manosphere, I believe, myself included have realized that improving ourselves to have better station with women is relatively pointless. SO YOU GUYS TOLD US, "CHASE PAPER, NOT SKIRTS."

We have money now. Happiness hasn't increased, women are no less flaky. Now what?

Even in 5 years girls have gotten worse it seems.

The type of threads that appear on this hallowed forum have grown darker and more depressing.

Girls will still give Mr.MysteriousNext a better chance, even if you are superior to him in every way.

2. Birth Control. We now know, empirically, that BC fvcks up girls hormones.

And we've heard the stories. A woman on birth control is attracted and dates this guy for several years, they get married, she goes off BC and finds him utterly repulsive.

Similarly, girls go for nice guys more. You said it yourself. It tricks girls into thinking they're pregnant.

When girls are pregnant, they actually DO want a provider/protector. I think this is the state most men WANT to be in in the first place.


Let me take a step back and explain my personal experience with girls on birth control. One girl in particular, an HB7.5, I kept as a fvck buddy for one and a half years.. I even pulled super huge beta-AFC moves like asking her to be my girlfriend. She said no, but still gave up the pvssy.

So you're exactly right. The pill makes all of my ideas fall apart. However, I think the Pill ALSO makes girls more attached to you, which is what we all want anyways, isn't it?

3. Orgasms. I used to think they were the keys to a girls heart, but really girls aren't that hard to make c*m. I don't even give them oral anymore, just a couple of minutes of fingering and they're hitting orgasms from the real thing, quite often. I believe that most alpha males make the girl *** at this point anyways, from what I've read in Sperm Wars.

And they c*m harder for the mysterious guy, every time.

double post srry

 

[nightcrawler]

Three things:

1. Has anyone compared this forum right now versus 5 years ago?

Five years ago people were, similar to myself, working diligently on improving themselves. People actually addressed real problems that they personally had with girls, and helpful members of the forum taught them the best way to behave.

When you look at the first page of threads in the DJ forum, don't you see more generalizations now, don't you see more "women suck" threads now?

Because its true.

Women suck.

Much of the manosphere, I believe, myself included have realized that improving ourselves to have better station with women is relatively pointless. SO YOU GUYS TOLD US, "CHASE PAPER, NOT SKIRTS."

We have money now. Happiness hasn't increased, women are no less flaky. Now what?

Even in 5 years girls have gotten worse it seems.

The type of threads that appear on this hallowed forum have grown darker and more depressing.

Girls will still give Mr.MysteriousNext a better chance, even if you are superior to him in every way.

2. Birth Control. We now know, empirically, that BC fvcks up girls hormones.

And we've heard the stories. A woman on birth control is attracted and dates this guy for several years, they get married, she goes off BC and finds him utterly repulsive.

Similarly, girls go for nice guys more. You said it yourself. It tricks girls into thinking they're pregnant.

When girls are pregnant, they actually DO want a provider/protector. I think this is the state most men WANT to be in in the first place.


Let me take a step back and explain my personal experience with girls on birth control. One girl in particular, an HB7.5, I kept as a fvck buddy for one and a half years.. I even pulled super huge beta-AFC moves like asking her to be my girlfriend. She said no, but still gave up the pvssy.

So you're exactly right. The pill makes all of my ideas fall apart. However, I think the Pill ALSO makes girls more attached to you, which is what we all want anyways, isn't it?

3. Orgasms. I used to think they were the keys to a girls heart, but really girls aren't that hard to make c*m. I don't even give them oral anymore, just a couple of minutes of fingering and they're hitting orgasms from the real thing, quite often. I believe that most alpha males make the girl *** at this point anyways, from what I've read in Sperm Wars.

And they c*m harder for the mysterious guy, every time.

guys like you just need to realize what the game really is.

you got a situation where you have women...creatures that are offered sex.

and men..the creatures that hunt for it

obviously women have the upper hand in some ways....and men in other ways. There are severals drawbacks to it as well...such as a woman getting emotionally attached and wanting commitment and men having to deal with competition from other men and not wanting commitment.

donno what to say really...find little ways to put yourself above the competition and figure ways out to get a girl.

nothing more to it really...

 

[nismo-4]

Great read! I made a long ass list of common ass cases as well as a sequel, and these same cases come up in my courtroom.

Alpha beats beta.

Looks and money beat game and personality.

Do these 4 things always and you'll be fine.

1. Improve your looks.
2. Improve your money.
3. Spin them damn plates
4. Upgrade yourself.

All women cheat. All women lie. Women fall in love for different reasons than men do. Remember this well. So ordered.

Case closed.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Dude, I don't want to spin plates anymore. Three weeks ago I fvcked two and a half blondes in the same night, consecutively. Let me tell you, its pretty fun when you fvck a girl and intentionally fake an orgasm so you can save yourself for the next girl who is coming just one hour later. The third couldn't come over because the second was already sleeping with me and it was 1AM when she asked to hang out.

At this point, I'm one of the hottest guys at my school. The only thing I'm doing now to improve myself is just adding unique pieces to my wardrobe, so that I can be THAT much better dressed than other guys.

My value has gotten so high numerous girls don't even have a shot with me anymore.

You guys have created a monster. Sometimes I'll flirt or fvck with girls just for sport, or just because I "can."

And I hate it.

I get approached when I'm doing stupid, random things like homework in a public place or locking my bike up so it doesn't get stolen.

I've learned so much in the past couple of years, but I still don't have what I want.

What do I really want? A girl with only three things really. A) Cute B) Likes to smoke / down to explore drugs w/ me and C) Loves faithful sex with me.

But we can't have nice things. C'est la vie.

I seek meaning in my relationships. But I can't find meaning anywhere.

:EDIT: The ONLY attitude that works well with women is to actually not give a fvck whatever they have to say. I read alot about the "aloof" attitude that works well with women. But I think you should take aloof to an even more extreme. When you actually take everything a girl says to be a JOKE, you have won her heart.

I've thrown away the aloof mindset and adopted the comedian mindset. Women are there to make you laugh. At their expense. And they love me all the more for it. Eugh.

Watch this, this is how I feel about game right now:

http://www.southparkstudios.com/clips/388734/i-have-cynicism

Ice Cream scene. Cartman says "looks like ice cream to me" when Stan says it looks like "sh1t". Replace Cartman with a forum poster here, and replace Stan with me, pointing to a girl and saying that it looks like sh1t.

 

[Sneevox]

Dude, I don't want to spin plates anymore. Three weeks ago I fvcked two and a half blondes in the same night, consecutively. Let me tell you, its pretty fun when you fvck a girl and intentionally fake an orgasm so you can save yourself for the next girl who is coming just one hour later. The third couldn't come over because the second was already sleeping with me and it was 1AM when she asked to hang out.

At this point, I'm one of the hottest guys at my school. The only thing I'm doing now to improve myself is just adding unique pieces to my wardrobe, so that I can be THAT much better dressed than other guys.

My value has gotten so high numerous girls don't even have a shot with me anymore.

You guys have created a monster. Sometimes I'll flirt or fvck with girls just for sport, or just because I "can."

And I hate it.

I get approached when I'm doing stupid, random things like homework in a public place or locking my bike up so it doesn't get stolen.

I've learned so much in the past couple of years, but I still don't have what I want.

What do I really want? A girl with only three things really. A) Cute B) Likes to smoke / down to explore drugs w/ me and C) Loves faithful sex with me.

But we can't have nice things. C'est la vie.

I seek meaning in my relationships. But I can't find meaning anywhere.

:EDIT: The ONLY attitude that works well with women is to actually not give a fvck whatever they have to say. I read alot about the "aloof" attitude that works well with women. But I think you should take aloof to an even more extreme. When you actually take everything a girl says to be a JOKE, you have won her heart.

I've thrown away the aloof mindset and adopted the comedian mindset. Women are there to make you laugh. At their expense. And they love me all the more for it. Eugh.

Watch this, this is how I feel about game right now:

http://www.southparkstudios.com/clips/388734/i-have-cynicism

Ice Cream scene. Cartman says "looks like ice cream to me" when Stan says it looks like "sh1t". Replace Cartman with a forum poster here, and replace Stan with me, pointing to a girl and saying that it looks like sh1t.

Well, if you're truly a Don Juan, you should start actually meeting the girls instead of just seducing them, fvcking them, then moving on. You should be seeking to protect and provide, not just take and leave. That's not being a man, it's being a jerk. SoSuave did not turn you into a jerk. You did it yourself. It seems to me that the only thing you're regarding is yourself, which is good TO AN EXTENT; That is because life is not all about you. You, as a man, are to find a liable way to make you AND a woman happy. Not just you. Dude, if you really want a girl to be the girl you want and you're TRULY a Don Juan, the girl WILL change for you. You can introduce all new types of things to her. Yeah, women will do that. THey're fvcking crazy.

Also, you'd probably best start improving your abilities in more areas than you are.

ALSO ALSO, if you're really upset that you can't have the girl you want, you're missing the most important factor in being a Don Juan: Patience.

 

[Sneevox]

At this point, I'm one of the hottest guys at my school. The only thing I'm doing now to improve myself is just adding unique pieces to my wardrobe, so that I can be THAT much better dressed than other guys.

Well, you could start improving yourself by realizing that what you just said is NOT a Don Juan thing to say. It's not confidence, it's pride. Doesn't it seem rather arrogant to say "oh im jist da hawtest guy at mi skool n it sux n teh only thing i gotz ta do 2 imrpoov miself is to jist buy new clohtes"?

Not flaming, man. Just trying to help. Become more generous. Women don't JUST want a chase. They want to chase a guy with character. Maybe the reason you're not getting the right women is because you're not ATTRACTING the right women. Sure, the goal is to attract women, but you're trying to attract the women you want.

 

[nightcrawler]

Well, if you're truly a Don Juan, you should start actually meeting the girls instead of just seducing them, fvcking them, then moving on. You should be seeking to protect and provide, not just take and leave. That's not being a man, it's being a jerk. SoSuave did not turn you into a jerk. You did it yourself. It seems to me that the only thing you're regarding is yourself, which is good TO AN EXTENT; That is because life is not all about you. You, as a man, are to find a liable way to make you AND a woman happy. Not just you. Dude, if you really want a girl to be the girl you want and you're TRULY a Don Juan, the girl WILL change for you. You can introduce all new types of things to her. Yeah, women will do that. THey're fvcking crazy.

Also, you'd probably best start improving your abilities in more areas than you are.

ALSO ALSO, if you're really upset that you can't have the girl you want, you're missing the most important factor in being a Don Juan: Patience.

lol

go read don juan again my friend.

lmao