Women get a kick out of men's pain

[gspshields2]

As you all know, for the past few weeks I've been trying to approach chicks at the gym, at the mall, and online on POF. From what i've noticed so far is that the women, really get a kick (high) off of inflicting pain on men. They would very much enjoy it if they drove men crazy and to suicide.

One of the young blonde POF HB8 chick just laughed at me when I asked for her number.

She said "hahhaa, you really think someone like you can get my number?"

WTF is this. The polite thing to do would be to ignore the person if you don't want the number.

Why bother responding, so you can crush someones self esteem.

This rejection has gotten me feeling so low right now.


Yesterday when I was a the gym, a few HBs actually laughed (at me) when I asked them do they come to this gym often.

Women are cruel, and evil.

I wonder if women would laugh at this guy as well? or its just me

 

[SgtSplacker]

It's all part of the learning process bud. If the old "come here often?" line is not working then you need to try something else. Whats important is to always move forward, and put those mistakes behind you. And stop thinking that only women are cruel, people are cruel not only women.

And it's easy to get frustrated at POF women. They all say they want LTR but will only reply to the most ripped looking dudes on the site.

Listen, the pickup game is all about numbers. You go out there and talk to 20 girls and one is bound to jive with you.

 

[Chamber36]

It's all part of the learning process bud.

You go out there and talk to 20 girls and one is bound to jive with you.

Yes, that's right.

You are just going to have to keep on macking and eventually you're gonna get positive feedback from a girl that's hotter than the girls that rejected you, and that will nullify all those rejections. People can be cruel though, boys and girls.

What you need to watch out for is girls where you're not talking to them - you're talking to their ego. Just avoid chicks ego's man. I hate ego's. Find a chick that doesn't have a big ego. You can tell when there's a huge ego because it will feel like there's a big huge force-field in front of them and if you step in it, they seem to think you want nothing more than that persons attention. Best thing you can do in a case like that is ignore the person.

 

[seethehoop]

Agree with Sgt.

And as to the one that said "hahhaa, you really think someone like you can get my number?"

I am a little less patient that some. I might have said "Well, now that I see you are a BITCCCHH, I'm glad i didn't get it"

I would have responded with something like "Ah don't worry, I've got it. It was written on the bathroom wall ;P"

 

[gspshields2]

A couple of things....

Do you hit the gym? Are you in good shape?

YES GREAT SHAPE

Do you go out? Are you confident?

YES I AM I THINK I KNOW WHY THESE WOMEN HATING ON ME

When the girls laughed, did they giggle, or laugh in a ridiculing way? There is a big difference. And how did you respond to their giggle/laugh?

THEY LAUGHED IN A CONDESCENDING WAY LIKE I WAS BELOW THEM AND WALKED OFF IGNORING ME

 

[pdx1138]

I would have responded with something like "Ah don't worry, I've got it. It was written on the bathroom wall ;P"

perfect response. I'm going to use that some day.

 

[gspshields2]

What's your height/weight?

Around 5'11 205 pounds give or take.
It's muscle though not fat

Is it obvious that you hit the gym?

Yes it's obvious I hit the gym

Do you wear complimentary/trendy clothes?

Yes I do

Hairstyle? Please say you don't have a mustache.

No mustache, short hair, gelled, spiky


How old do you look? How old are you? How old are the girls?

I'm 27, I look my age, the girls are in their 20s.

Why do you think they aren't interested?

A few of them (more than one) remarked to me saying "I don't talk to chinks"

 

[Iceberg]

...Jesus Christ, you guys gotta stop feeding the trolls.

I mean, it's funny and all. But it's just a waste of time.

 

[gspshields2]

I know several asians that do awesome with girls, not unlike you. There's no way that is the issue.

What city are they from?
I would love to move there.

Even the girls that don't say thats the issue, i know thats
the issue.

If you asked 10 girls which race of men they think is bottom of the barrel(food chain), i gurantee you at least 8-9 out of ten of them would say asian men.


Anyways IM ggetting off topic with the race issue.

Why are women so cruel that they have to say these nasty things to me to bring me down?

 

[SoSuave666]

Regardless of the troll threat here, I think some of this conversation is actually good...

I don't think it's that they get a 'kick' out of hurting men. Some people can just be plain rude though. I think if you have a relationship with some woman and it ends it's not that she wants you to hurt, it's more that she doesn't care that you ARE hurting. Like if you ever broke up with someone before. You want them to be OK, but really it doesn't matter to you one way or another. The things they do after they break up with you are usually not meant to hurt you, but they hurt because you realize that she is moving on and you KNOW you should be doing the same. A lot of people mistake indifference for deliberate jealousy tactics. Problem is, you will never know, so stop worrying.

Granted there are exceptions. If the breakup is bad, perhaps there will be a month or two after the breakup where she is intentionally trying to make you feel bad. But jealousy is used by pretty much everyone, so I don't like to hold only women responsible.

If people are immediately dismissing you when you try and talk to them, especially with racial slurs, they are just terrible people. I give people the time of day, but if I'm not interested I distinctly tell them so. It's their job to deal with that, but I'm not going to sugarcoat it for anyone. I expect people to do the same to me, just not in a condescending way. I respect any woman that says "thanks but no thanks." You can't take every defeat to heart.

Success isn't permanent and failure isn't fatal, my friends.

 

[Iceberg]

Come to NY. Hell, one of the hottest girls I know is dating a Chinese guy. God she's a knockout.

So yeah, I think you're wrong when you say "I know that's the issue". I think you just need to work on your game/approach.

Am I crazy for not taking this guy seriously?

Am I supposed to believe that:

A- a guy walks around a gym asking random girls "Do you come here often?"

And

B- that the girls are so offended by him that they call him a racial slur?


Come on...

Regardless of the troll threat here, I think some of this conversation is actually good...

True. True. True.

I'm sure people out there can learn from this, anyway.

 

[gspshields2]

Am I crazy for not taking this guy seriously?

Am I supposed to believe that:

A- a guy walks around a gym asking random girls "Do you come here often?"

And

B- that the girls are so offended by him that they call him a racial slur?


Come on...

Would you like me to record the conversations next time and have them posted here?

I get called racial slurs all the time by whites and hispanics(ESPECIALLY BIGTIME BY HISPANICS)/sometimes blacks. When it's a guy telling me this sh1t is no problem because I can kick his ass.

But ifs a female, I just walk away because you can't do anything about it.

Honestly, I did nothing and I was called a racial slur by some of these girls, not all of them, but enough to put me in a sour mood.

I will record the conversations next time and post them here,
to prove to you what I am saying is real.

 

[RedZone]

I wouldn't really take what a girl says on POF seriously. She doesn't know the real life you at all. She's probably just a *****y AW.

 

[Trump]

A girl who is doesn't have interest level in you - doesn't like you - her whole goal is to put you down so she can feel better about herself. The more you get angry and upset, the more she has proved her point.

Use it to your advantage and find out what you are doing wrong. Dress better, learn better, talk better. LEARN from guys who have been there before. It's like going to a bank asking for a loan and you have no security to back it up so they deny you. Do you go to the next bank with the same story? Of course not. You get security and THEN approach.

One of the young blonde POF HB8 chick just laughed at me when I asked for her number.

She said "hahhaa, you really think someone like you can get my number?"

"You're right, someone with such bad manners and self esteem issues could be alot of trouble, thanks for the heads up."

 

[cablecow15]

Am I crazy for not taking this guy seriously?

Am I supposed to believe that:

A- a guy walks around a gym asking random girls "Do you come here often?"

And

B- that the girls are so offended by him that they call him a racial slur?


Come on...




True. True. True.

I'm sure people out there can learn from this, anyway.

hes full of crap , hes posted pics of him with girls before , unless hes changed dramatically from then , its defiantly not obvious he hits the gym .

 

[AAAgent]

Honestly, i have nothing good to say about you gsp. Sure you may not be emitting the nerdy vibe which would further emulate the so called Asian stereotype but your just as bad.

Your telling US as a Canadian Asian, its impossible for you to get an Asian girl or any girl for that matter? Canada has the largest chinese population outside of Asia and for some reason, all those Asian women don't like Asian men? I find that statistically impossible as there are bound to be women of every race that will be dating Asian men.

The problem is obviously you. You get numbers, you go out on dates but apparently all women hate Asians...why are they out on a date with you in the first place?

 

[gspshields2]

Asian chicks that are westernized do not like Asian men. I have 5 female cousins, born in the US, they are all engaged or married to white men. You are forced to deal with the FOBs who don't speak English. They won't understand anything other than the words "hi" and "bye" and "me love you long time".

Asian chicks also have no junk in the trunk, flat chested, crooked teeth, weird shaped head, most ugly looking race of girls on the planet. There are certainly some exceptions (THE DECENT LOOKING ASIAN CHICKS ARE ALWAYS TAKEN).

Every race of girls: Hispanic, White, Black, Indian the girls have curves.
Asian chicks are flat, all of them are.

Sure, just settle for your 2 out of 10 asian chick with no curves that doesn't speak english,
and doens't know how to parallel park a car.

I only like White and Hispanic chicks thats it. If the Asian chick(with curves) is a 8+ then yes I would like her too.

I just want a 7.5 or 8 and im happy. But I'm not gonna get some 2 out of 10 chick.
If the chick has a good personality then 7 is fine.

I think if you honestly ask any guy why they get into a relationship with an Asian girl, particularly if they are average to below average looking girls, its probably because they have no options. Or maybe that guy just happened to reject Pamela Anderson because he wanted a nerdy asian chick instead.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Why are you guys taking him seriously? When you go to the gym, you go there to work out, sweat, stay in shape and go home. I negged him for his faggotry.

Obvious troll is obvious.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Asian chicks that are westernized do not like Asian men. I have 5 female cousins, born in the US, they are all engaged or married to white men. You are forced to deal with the FOBs who don't speak English. They won't understand anything other than the words "hi" and "bye" and "me love you long time".

Asian chicks also have no junk in the trunk, flat chested, crooked teeth, weird shaped head, most ugly looking race of girls on the planet. There are certainly some exceptions (THE DECENT LOOKING ASIAN CHICKS ARE ALWAYS TAKEN).

Every race of girls: Hispanic, White, Black, Indian the girls have curves.
Asian chicks are flat, all of them are.

Sure, just settle for your 2 out of 10 asian chick with no curves that doesn't speak english,
and doens't know how to parallel park a car.

I only like White and Hispanic chicks thats it. If the Asian chick(with curves) is a 8+ then yes I would like her too.

I just want a 7.5 or 8 and im happy. But I'm not gonna get some 2 out of 10 chick.
If the chick has a good personality then 7 is fine.

I think if you honestly ask any guy why they get into a relationship with an Asian girl, particularly if they are average to below average looking girls, its probably because they have no options. Or maybe that guy just happened to reject Pamela Anderson because he wanted a nerdy asian chick instead.

If this isn't obvious trolling, then I don't know what trolling is then.

 

[Chamber36]

I'm not a shrink, but it sounds to me like the OP is projecting his hatred of his own race onto all the females.

The way he describes females think of him and the way he thinks of females of his own race is in a way the way he thinks of himself. So he will have to learn to think of himself in a different way before anyone else will.