Women clinging on to the last of their looks

051AV

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A woman I know she's nearing 50 years old, I met her 15 years ago she was in her late 30s her husband is probably 8-10 years older than her. He's aging you can tell he's in his late 50s nearing 60, he's letting himself go.

They have two children which they had late in life he will be 71 years old when their oldest child graduates high school 73 when his youngest graduates. He's always been a down to earth guy I don't think he grew up in a rich family. Her on the other hand she's from a well off family she likes to flaunt she has money the friends she has are well off. I have a feeling money is really important in her life what she wanted she got when she was a child.

From the day I met her I sensed she has insecurities mainly with her body she can't get fat she is an exercise nut she will push her body to the limit. She exercised and worked out to the day she gave birth to her kids god forbid she could get fat. After her first child she pushed herself to get skinny again then she had her second child which took a toll on her body. She would exercise for at least couple hours a day 7 days a week. She pushes her body to limit, this summer she's the skinniest I've ever seen her you can see her ribs and abs she body fat % is the lowest I've ever seen it. I feel its an unhealthy skinny she doesn't have muscle, its almost like she's had a boob lift because a woman that skinny doesn't have C cup breasts.

From the day I met her 15 years ago she's never had a pretty face or a pretty smile, she does have a good personality. No matter how hard she works out or does to her body isn't going to change the fact she doesn't have attractive facial features. She walks by you notice her slim body then up to her face. She looks like her mom she doesn't have nice facial features either.

The reason why I made this post is I look at this woman today she still has the same issues I seen in her 15 years ago. I think she's pushed herself too far she's barely got any meat on her bones.
 

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I kind of see the point of this thread but to me...this sounds like a woman who's respectable In the sense that she has gotten the most out of her potential physical looks. Sure it may be fueled by insecurities but for majority of women, validation is the goal in life and I respect her work ethic to get it
 

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Women do have it tougher than us guys, women are always trying to keep up to the Joneses, when I first met her all her female friends are gray poupon types look to be high maintenance to the hilt , if you don't have a fat wallet they are not interested in you. Her male friends are in the same class as well they have money they have high paying jobs. Her husband on the other hand he's worked hard for his money he didn't have the golden spoon in his mouth, she wanted the big fancy house and flaunt that they have money. There are other little things like the fact she hasn't had her original hair color in years she continually dyes it blond, she wears contacts 24/7 nobody see's her in glasses I've seen her twice in 15 years wearing glasses.

I do feel bad for her, now that I have BPD/damaged woman detector programed into myself I can sense damaged women or women that have some kinds of issues.
 

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Keep these kind of posts to your personal diary. Thanks.
 
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