Women as AFC.

[Lo Hung Wang]

Ok, heres my situation : I have a f u c k buddy girl on the side - but she suddenly wants a relationship now and is always trying to get me to go on a date with her. ( I keep rejecting her). I also have a temporary non-serious girlfriend - i.e. I've told her that im moving soon and it's going to be on a "fun" basis. She knows about the f u c k buddy, but because of the "fun, no-strings" relationship we agreed to; she has no reason to get angry. However, her jealousy has kicked in. Now she's competing with my FB and constantly giving it up in an attempt to snag me. While the FB wants to get her out of the picture so she can get a real "meaningful" relationship out of me. She even hinted that I not move. Riiiight. Sex is good but not that good.

So as it stands now - these 2 girls are competing for me, essentially prostituting themselves. But heres the funny part:

Theres a third girl who's been watching all this from the sidelines and keeps trying to get with me! She's constantly calling my house and dropping hints and mimicking me - And its a HUGE turn off!!!


Just looking at the situation, I now realise why women are so turned off by AFC's. I was looking through what must have been a womans perspective of her dating life. A bunch of low-self esteem AFC's tripping over each others shoes destroying each other for me - all the while I was getting hot sex as the byproduct. (its really a bribe though)

I'm only 20, and i've just learned what feels like one of the greatest lessons ever - Women are just as insecure, if not more than men. Sure, I've read the bible and its wisdom on AFC'ism. But it wasn't until I experienced those reprehensible GIRL AFC's that I truly realised what the authors were saying in the bible. (and how truly non-man I used to be)

You can read about AFC's - but you have to witness the female AFC phenomena to truly understand and better yourself. There is no alternative to experience.

Just further reason not to be afraid.

 

[Hugh G. Rection]

Were they hot?

 

[Lo Hung Wang]

All three are hot. At least by my standards.

All three are variations of cute and hot.

 

[iqqi]

this belongs in the discussion forum.

 

[Page]

It sounds like you have been doing ok for yourself.


Just keep calling all the shots with these chicks and you will do fine.

In the meantime, i suggest you invulge in a threesome with the first two.

 

[Lo Hung Wang]

I am doing very well for myself, and it feels great. I'm glad I found this board and the people on it. IMHOP I think I read too much into everything - there were so many techniques in the bible that I tried to perform everything like a robot. Didn't work. I stuck to the inspirational posts and saved them to my HD. Whenever I was down and out; I read those same posts over and over again. Emotion never runs dry - techniques do.

funny story: A cohort of mine came over and started using my comp. He found the link to this message board and he said something akin to this:

"Dude! AHAHAhahah your so lame! "Don Juan" HAHAHhaha"

I sense some c0ck-blocking ahead from this fuqtard.

In the meantime, i suggest you invulge in a threesome with the first two.

The FB girl would do it if I bought her booze. The other one's a problem. However....... my (male)friend and I were considering the option of banging her...

But now i'm not so sure, I mean..... so much could go wrong.

 

[TTAG]

nice work

keep it going! ever thought about pimpin?

 

[John Juan]

sounds like you're doing great, just don't let one of them put a hole in your condom! and you make sure to keep calling the shots.

its funny, i never understood why the last girl i really cared about dumped me so quickly, but since starting my recovery from AFCdom i've been with several chicks that have no spine, no self, no pride, and will do anything for me and just like you say its a BIG TURNOFF. it was great the day the lightbulb inside my head made the connection between my days of old and the way these girls were coming on to me hot and heavy. I was once just like them. praise the dj bible i'm out of that now!

-jlc