Women arent happy

[_sideways_]

For as much as we say...sucks to be us right now...dating sucks...thots...diggers...etc.
I dont think there are that many happy women. I mean really...they aint with a good dude...chads arent good dudes. No guy is going to put up with their nonsense.
Its mostly lies on social media.
Speaking from my viewpoint...what i experienced. They laugh and parade but sitting down with them and talking...its hard out there. They have to put on a nice face.
Idk...or maybe im backwards...cuz look...girls settle for fat dudes all the time. Im sure its not great sex...no guy settles for 200 pounds.

 

[Robert28]

Most every woman out there is pulled up to hell and back and suffers from “anxiety”. Anytime a woman tells me she has anxiety I know that means personality disorder she refuses to get help for and hasn’t been diagnosed with yet. Let them be miserable, I don’t care anymore.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Most women aren happy because they sabotaged themselves with bad disicions when they were young

 

[NealIRC]

Ugly women aren't happy.

 

[corrector]

Another cope thread?

 

[RazorRambo24]

To say a generalized statement like this suggests this is a method of coping for a man who's not very fulfilled in his life when it comes to women. That's just my perspective and it's not personal.

Furthermore, what makes people happy isn't solely based on whether they have a good man or woman in their life.. It's much more. I'm surprised we have to mention this blatantly obvious stuff to some of the men on here still.

Factors that provide happiness much more than just a "man" or "woman" in your life: Good and robust family life, like large family, good communication between siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles, nephews and nieces, family events, cookouts, weddings, hangouts, -- Good Friends (probably the biggest predicator of happiness), Financial Stability (more of an underlying foundation), Good Health, Hobbies and Interests, A career doing something you love, and having a well balanced life (Balance is key)

Edit: @corrector beat me to it while I was writing this

 

[Solomon]

Ugly women aren't happy.

^^^This, the whole women aren't happy trope is "cope" I look at the women I personally know and see this all the time

-Popping bottles in the VIP room and not paying a dime
-Boat/Yacht parties with handsome men and not paying a dime
-Fancy trips with girlfriends or their partners and if it's with their partners not paying a dime
-Girls night out meeting with rich men and not paying a dime

^^Do I think this is the ideal life? hell no but this is the life most Beautiful or hot women live. Charmed lives, to the point that they don't need to have self-reflection unless they wanna get married, and even then women whom I know that aren't married are not married by choice

 

[Manure Spherian]

I mean really...they aint with a good dude

You have some points considering it seems that in modern times there is a constant stream of polls showing some women are sad, anxiety ridden, and pissed off about something. They might have actually always been like this going back thousands of years, but didn’t have avenues to hem and haw.

But let’s get this straight folks: many women don’t need good men to be happy, don’t want such men, and couldn’t care less if they adropped dead.

Stardusk several times said, “Women don’t like men.” I don’t think that’s true for all, but it’s true for some or many.

 

[tksniper]

For as much as we say...sucks to be us right now...dating sucks...thots...diggers...etc.
I dont think there are that many happy women. I mean really...they aint with a good dude...chads arent good dudes. No guy is going to put up with their nonsense.
Its mostly lies on social media.
Speaking from my viewpoint...what i experienced. They laugh and parade but sitting down with them and talking...its hard out there. They have to put on a nice face.
Idk...or maybe im backwards...cuz look...girls settle for fat dudes all the time. Im sure its not great sex...no guy settles for 200 pounds.

Since when did thots deserve to be happy? High quality women are happy.

 

[MatureDJ]

no guy settles for 200 pounds.

 

[Slowhandluke]

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This is the exception rather than the rule.

^^^This, the whole women aren't happy trope is "cope" I look at the women I personally know and see this all the time

-Popping bottles in the VIP room and not paying a dime
-Boat/Yacht parties with handsome men and not paying a dime
-Fancy trips with girlfriends or their partners and if it's with their partners not paying a dime
-Girls night out meeting with rich men and not paying a dime

^^Do I think this is the ideal life? hell no but this is the life most Beautiful or hot women live. Charmed lives, to the point that they don't need to have self-reflection unless they wanna get married, and even then women whom I know that aren't married are not married by choice

Most attractive women AND attractive guys have a charmed life. In other news, water is wet.. When the looks go away... when the success leaves - women and men are not happy. There are more women who are NOT attractive than there are women who are attractive. It's not a trope. Women in general are not happy. I've seen it first hand. I'm old so I have seen the progress from cute college girl, to middle age women.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

The current state of dating has to do with radical feminism that started in the '60s, cheap available BC, and the ERA movement - it's the roots of it. The message was, "Men have sex with whoever they want, and you can too!".

#1 Fast forward to me driving home from a plate's place. Attractive, single, age-appropriate, relatively wealthy. She was upset because she assumed I would spend the night. Nope, sorry, hun. I'm 100% sure she went through her party years as a very attractive young woman and disappointed tons of guys. Now she is approaching her 50s, is still very attractive, objectively an 8 on a good day, and she cannot get me to commit fer shyte. Hasn’t reached the epiphany stage yet.

#2 Then there's the case of another plate lying in bed in mid-coital bliss, trying to joke with me about "you must've said that to your other girlfriend," I responded: "Which one of them?" - it was posed as a "joke" but was someone wanting validation. She then said, "Well, if that's the case, I don't care because I'm getting it better than ever." Again woman in her late 40's, 7.25, single, no kids, never married. AND SHE OUTRIGHT PLATES HERSELF.

They do eventually all reap what they sew. Neither of these two examples can extract a commitment from me. I like them plenty, and we have fun, but nope.

That's what women are lamenting - they're ready to settle now, but guys like me, who they really like, are not interested one bit. Why would I be? I have 4 other gals just like these 2 at my beckon and call.

It’s going to take an exceptional woman to get me to hang up my guns.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Dating has become a headache for both sexes because its been over dramatised

No longer can two people just go on a date to see if there's any chemistry

Everyones trying to think like 2,3,4 moves ahead , constantly comparing option A against option B and then against option C and D

How anyone can be happy when there's so much choice and confusion is beyond me

You've got women out there who won't go on dates anymore unless a guy passes all of the "tests " some weird instagram or TikTok page has advised

Guys are in their own heads trying to second guess what exactly they are supposed to be doing and in desperation end up on the apps where its even more demoralising

In my early 30's I still have hope I will meet the right girl for me , but it's very tiring and on at least 5 occasions this year ive had to very quickly next women I've been interested in solely because of nonsense like the above

 

[Redwood]

Dating has become a headache for both sexes because its been over dramatised

No longer can two people just go on a date to see if there's any chemistry

Everyones trying to think like 2,3,4 moves ahead , constantly comparing option A against option B and then against option C and D

How anyone can be happy when there's so much choice and confusion is beyond me

You've got women out there who won't go on dates anymore unless a guy passes all of the "tests " some weird instagram or TikTok page has advised

Guys are in their own heads trying to second guess what exactly they are supposed to be doing and in desperation end up on the apps where its even more demoralising

In my early 30's I still have hope I will meet the right girl for me , but it's very tiring and on at least 5 occasions this year ive had to very quickly next women I've been interested in solely because of nonsense like the above

That's just in general, no one wants to be the sucker.

 

[MatureDJ]

The current state of dating has to do with radical feminism that started in the '60s, cheap available BC, and the ERA movement - it's the roots of it. The message was, "Men have sex with whoever they want, and you can too!".

#1 Fast forward to me driving home from a plate's place. Attractive, single, age-appropriate, relatively wealthy. She was upset because she assumed I would spend the night. Nope, sorry, hun. I'm 100% sure she went through her party years as a very attractive young woman and disappointed tons of guys. Now she is approaching her 50s, is still very attractive, objectively an 8 on a good day, and she cannot get me to commit fer shyte. Hasn’t reached the epiphany stage yet.

#2 Then there's the case of another plate lying in bed in mid-coital bliss, trying to joke with me about "you must've said that to your other girlfriend," I responded: "Which one of them?" - it was posed as a "joke" but was someone wanting validation. She then said, "Well, if that's the case, I don't care because I'm getting it better than ever." Again woman in her late 40's, 7.25, single, no kids, never married. AND SHE OUTRIGHT PLATES HERSELF.

They do eventually all reap what they sew. Neither of these two examples can extract a commitment from me. I like them plenty, and we have fun, but nope.

That's what women are lamenting - they're ready to settle now, but guys like me, who they really like, are not interested one bit. Why would I be? I have 4 other gals just like these 2 at my beckon and call.

It’s going to take an exceptional woman to get me to hang up my guns.

Having a harem of 40-somethings is not something to be bragging about.

 

[MatureDJ]

That's just in general, no one wants to be the sucker.

I think a woman being a good sucker makes her more desirable to wife up.

 

[Redwood]

I think a woman being a good sucker makes her more desirable to wife up.

Nah, that's just one part.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Having a harem of 40-somethings is not something to be bragging about.

I’m happy to compare the bodies of all of them to anything you’ve bedded in the last year.

However, I’ll brag all I want because to me they’re way hotter than your supposed 20-something’s you’re laying.

And in Gods creation would you give a flying frak where I stow my Captain’s Log?

Unlike (I’d estimate) 98% of the posters here I’m reality based and waaaaaay happier.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Im 28 and some of my best recent plates have been 35+. Older girls seem to be the way to go for young guys looking for down to earth plates. I kind of agree with @Bingo-Player when he said that dating has become overdramatized. Younger women are too reactive and unstable emotionally and super defensive which makes the interaction too nerve wracking and unpleasant. Older women are done playing games and just want fun. I wish younger women had a bit more of that care freeness but theyre too busy trying to beat you in a status game

 

[corrector]

Im 28 and some of my best recent plates have been 35+. Older girls seem to be the way to go for young guys looking for down to earth plates. I kind of agree with @Bingo-Player when he said that dating has become overdramatized. Younger women are too reactive and unstable emotionally and super defensive which makes the interaction too nerve wracking and unpleasant. Older women are done playing games and just want fun. I wish younger women had a bit more of that care freeness but theyre too busy trying to beat you in a status game

But who do you think you'll be going with when you get older yourself? You still won't want younger women, and the older women would want younger guys, so who would that leave you with?