Women are the “gatekeepers” of sex.

latino158

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One of the most obvious things to any man who stopped to think,in your ****ty miserable life is the difference in the life of a woman and a man.

Imagine you, a man , having the power to have sex with whoever you want, whenever you want, wherever you want? Going out on the streets and get “cat called”, and stares. And with just a “hi” or touching your hair or talking with a straight face “let’s have sex” and get positive results?

Imagine you, a man can having this power and on top of that, they get you to the motel, pay the motel, pay for beers and maybe take a pleasure to take you to dinner. Having someone that you call and comes around running to you to have sex? Imagine you having the power to do that with most people you meet?

Visualized? This is the female sexual power. They, the ugly, the chubby, the hot, the average, the single mothers, the nerds, unless they are completely deformed (and still can !) have the power to have sex with the most of the men they know at any time. They can go on the street corner and lift their skirt or take a longer look and there will be QUEUES of men from all walks of life, beauty, race and personalities to date or have sex.


- Men need to learn to be good-looking, outgoing, have expensive cars, money, personality, confidence, like, initiative, boldness, good job, go out a lot, have many friends, status,have an interesting lifestyle, good conversation skills, connect, game, talk for hours, learning about her, work out, be strong , tall, badass, alphas and other absurd ****.
 

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latino158 said:
Men need to learn to be good-looking, outgoing, have expensive cars, money, personality, confidence, like, initiative, boldness, good job, go out a lot, have many friends, status,have an interesting lifestyle, good conversation skills, connect, game, talk for hours, learning about her, work out, be strong , tall, badass, alphas and other absurd ****.
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In my late teens until a I got married at 33, all I had was a great body (military service 6 years) and an attitude. And I got laid like it was free because it was free. Most of my lifetime N happened then and from Boston to Mexico.

I had no money, barely had a car, worked construction, short-order cook, river guide, bartender, lifeguard... whatever.

After taking 24 years off for what ended up as a bad marriage (and for a while again having nearly no money), I am again getting laid like its free because it is free.

I'm still fit and most importantly, I have quite the attitude. So all that other crap you list doesn't really mean much.

Get out there. The only thing holding you back is what you think about you. Those are called excuses. And they are all lame.
 

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latino158 said:
I would say the first thing you should do is stop crying like a whiny *****.
 

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What you said is very true but I'd still rather be a man any day. There is nothing inherently special about a woman being able to have sex at her whim. There is little effort required. Which is why this site advocates against placing women on a pedestal.

Most women realize this which is why easy women are usually looked down upon in female social circles and usually ostracized. In addition to that, a woman's value decreases as they have sex. It's the reverse for men.

Imagine a lock. Imagine if that lock could be opened by any key. A lock that simply let any key open it. You could practically slide in any key, turn it and the lock would open with ease. It's value would be worth next to nothing.

Now imagine a key. A key that after years of refinement and craftsmanship could open practically any lock in the world. It would be extremely highly valued. It would be highly sought after and wanted.

So in a way, you are still right. Women are the gates but men are the keys.
 

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Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of TIME and ATTENTION (aka relationships). Those too things are a man's main bargaining chips.

Now you might say.. but wait.. what about looks, money, status, etc.? This all falls under the "time" and "attention" category. Because until a man with those resources gives a woman his ATTENTION.. she cannot benefit from those resources.

Therefore.. smart men know that in order to have maximum control in their relationships with women.. they MUST be stingy and protective of how much time and attention they give a woman. AND more importantly.. they must make SEX a requirement for any woman who wants to have regular access to that man's time and attention.

Desperate, co-dependent betas will give away their time and attention for FREE.. kissing female ass, approval seeking and pandering. Thus the woman quickly realizes a few things:

-This man is NOT in high demand (which is why he is so available)
-She does not have to have sex with him in order to be part of his life because he is so desperate for female validation that he will give a woman a relationship for FREE.. hoping it will lead to sex later.
:crackup: :crackup:

The game is simple. Make women EARN your time and attention by requiring sex. I don't have female "friends" I'm not f*cking and neither should you. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
 

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Not only that, women are born into a caste system.

A woman, regardless of how much makeup she wears, regardless of how hard she's in the gym, will always live in a caste system that determines the type of man she can get. it can fluxuate a little but not very much. A 5'3 girl with an avg face can only do so much and while she might be the gatekeeper of sex, it's like being the gatekeeper at OZ lol. If a woman is having sex with a bunch of losers does it really matter?


One thing I like about being a man even a minority man is that I have 100% control of my density. If you say 20% of the men get 80% of the *****, as a man i have the tools to climb my way to the top 20%, women don't. you're either born with nice legs and a pretty face and nice smile or you're not.
 

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Pedrill said:
But master Pook King. If a man doesn't have looks, status, or money his time and attention is meaningless as he isn't worth anything therefore isn't going to get the SEX he craves from the same women HE wants to get it from. :yes:
All the more reason to get your sh!t together if you want to bang hotties. :crackup:

Yeah any man can get laid regardless of looks, money, status, etc.. BUT how attractive the women are will depend on those factors.

Another strategy some man use is LIE about their money, status, connections, etc. for short term affairs. This is most effective on women ages 18-25 when you are at least 28+. The younger you are (as a man) the less likely an 18-25 year old woman will believe your lies.

But like I've said many times before: If women are your top priority in life and #1 goal.. then you are sad, pathetic, co-dependent faggot. At best women are a sport. Play with them. Don't seek them out to fix ANY of your personal problems. IF you're thirsty for poon.. either get your sh!t together, hire prostitutes or learn to lie well.
 

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backbreaker said:
Not only that, women are born into a caste system.

A woman, regardless of how much makeup she wears, regardless of how hard she's in the gym, will always live in a caste system that determines the type of man she can get. it can fluxuate a little but not very much. A 5'3 girl with an avg face can only do so much and while she might be the gatekeeper of sex, it's like being the gatekeeper at OZ lol. If a woman is having sex with a bunch of losers does it really matter?


One thing I like about being a man even a minority man is that I have 100% control of my density. If you say 20% of the men get 80% of the *****, as a man i have the tools to climb my way to the top 20%, women don't. you're either born with nice legs and a pretty face and nice smile or you're not.
Yes. Great point BB. If you're a woman, your looks matter WAY more than if you're a man. If you're a man (not sure where the OP :cry: stands in this regard), you have the flexibility of moving up. There are other things that can make you attract the opposite sex, other than looks.
 

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Pedrill said:
Do you have your money, status and looks up to par to bang the hotties? And if you do as a man doesn't that make you a thirsty co-dependent faggot?

How does one lie about their looks? Or their money and status when they have neither the money or the status to prove it? And if they aren't great in the looks department they'd still need to be to get the hotties to believe their lies in the first place master Pook. Isn't lying to women pretending to be something you aren't being a thirsty co-dependent faggot?

Shouldn't we be working to improve ourselves to the best of our ability? THEN seeing if the hotties want to give us the sex we won't get manipulated by lying in the first place?
I'm not rich or a model.. but my looks and money are such that I don't have to lie to get hot poon. And since reaching my early 30's I do even better and have no problems smashing 21 year olds.

I strive for success because I love freedom and power. I like having the money to do what I want, live where I want, etc. And like being able to follow my own rules rather than the rules of others. The less money/power you have the more you have to eat sh!t from others.

So my position has more to do with my own values than trying to attract women. Which is what I preach. So I do practice what I preach. Women are a result, not a goal.

Lying to women in order to sleep with them does not necessarily make a man weak or co-dependent. Men lie for different reasons. Sometimes they are just lazy and lying is convenient. Other times they are fearful, insecure, thirsty, validation seeking losers. The reality is.. most people lie every day. Including CEO's and world leaders. So this is a retarded question.
 

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latino158 said:
Imagine you, a man , having the power to have sex with whoever you want, whenever you want, wherever you want? Going out on the streets and get “cat called”, and stares. And with just a “hi” or touching your hair or talking with a straight face “let’s have sex” and get positive results?
There are far many female escorts available for men and online ads that you could have virtual sex on demand. Now, while I've tried this route before and got attacked by demons. It seems you have not been attacked by their demons since you are comfortable seeing them once a month, doing various acts, or whatever.

Now, I'm not sure if your recent threads could be the influence of a demonic influence from these prostitutes causing a lowered self-esteem. Perhaps, your views may be misguided. However, many people on here feel your posts are negative. Perhaps your attack is more subtle. You are writing threads that show that you are being tormented by a negative influence. Perhaps you caught something from one of these escorts you dealt with before. In which case it may be wise to seek out an exorcist who believes in Jesus.

If what you are saying is logical, and coming from a lucid thought process, then it seems you are discontent of your limited options of using escorts. You did post threads about it before. If that solved everything then what's the problem?

latino158 said:
Imagine you, a man can having this power and on top of that, they get you to the motel, pay the motel, pay for beers and maybe take a pleasure to take you to dinner. Having someone that you call and comes around running to you to have sex? Imagine you having the power to do that with most people you meet?

Visualized? This is the female sexual power. They, the ugly, the chubby, the hot, the average, the single mothers, the nerds, unless they are completely deformed (and still can !) have the power to have sex with the most of the men they know at any time. They can go on the street corner and lift their skirt or take a longer look and there will be QUEUES of men from all walks of life, beauty, race and personalities to date or have sex.
That sounds like real bottom feeders or hoes you are talking about. Now, my concern is that you deal with escorts and you are thinking that way.

If dealing with escorts is a healthy pre-occupation then you should be happy. You would just say, I have some money, I can choose any girl that I want and she'll have to please me. What you are writing about doesn't sound healthy at all and doesn't prove that your investment into using escort services is paying off for you. Perhaps you should just stop seeing them.

In my case, it actually has. Before using an escort, I was bitter against my ex-wife. Afterwards, it didn't bother me anymore because the female contact from the escorts dented everything and I valued my sanity afterwards. I learned that frustration and even rejection is better than insanity. I'm now content, and am just happy to have piece of mind and I never make up any threads complaining about women.
 

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latino158 said:
One of the most obvious things to any man who stopped to think,in your ****ty miserable life is the difference in the life of a woman and a man.

- Men need to learn to be good-looking, outgoing, have expensive cars, money, personality, confidence, like, initiative, boldness, good job, go out a lot, have many friends, status,have an interesting lifestyle, good conversation skills, connect, game, talk for hours, learning about her, work out, be strong , tall, badass, alphas and other absurd ****.
No you don't. I knew guys in college who slept with the best looking girls and weren't the best looking themselves, didn't have anything. Why? Because they knew how to TALK to the girl, to turn her on WITH THEIR WORDS. If you guys want to use these reasons as an excuse not to approach or risk rejection, go ahead, but it won't get you anywhere.

You guys got to watch some manly movies or listen to PoonKing or something. What is this brain washing type of thinking that the man has to be Superman + Batman to sleep with a girl? If you are talking about sleeping with a Supermodel or top movie actress, yes, then you are in a different class, you have to be in their circles and such.

But to sleep with any decent looking girl, as long as you dress well, don't say stupid things, and look half decent, you should be able to get turned her and sleep with her very fast.
 
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