it is not about doing it, as I did this most of the timeWell I always kinda liked going out solo. But I would do it more on nights like Thursday rather than weekends when things are busy and more group-oriented or couple-oriented.
So I guess my recommendation is to push yourself a little more. Make it weird. Defenestrate. If you're well dressed and have a mysterious air about you, and socially adept, people will want to chat with you.
it is more about that you can really go out too long ( especially in weekends ) solo without taking an energy hit
when you go solo you put a lot more energy when you go out so you mask the thing that you are actually solo
plus opening up sets is way easier with a wingman, talking with 2-3 girls at once it is not easy