Women are attracted to ego/narcissism

[Chamber36]

I was trippin on some magic mushrooms with my friend who I realised is a narcissist.
I realised women are attracted to his huge ego.
Narcissism makes the narcissist ignorant towards criticism. These people can see themselves as all-knowing. Arguing with them is often pointless. They will have yes-no-yes-no arguments and call you childish.

It's their confidence and their ability to convince themselves of anything that will attract a woman. They don't justify their arguments with facts but with morals and then debunk your arguments with the fact that you simply don't understand.

In a world full of nice guys and pushovers, where nobody seems to take control, some people seem to be trying to go crazy on control.

Narcissists want to have a monopoly on control, and women love it.

 

[custardpie]

How did your friend handle the trip?

Mushrooms tend to be quite harsh on those with big egos.
I mean it's basically what they do, they dissolve your ego and if you identify yourself by your ego then you'll think you are dying when really you are becoming you true self.

I fvcking love mushrooms but I predict this thread will now fill up with people bashing shrooms and telling you not to take drugs because they make you anti-social.

I recommend you have solo trip. You will meet God and find your true nature. I'm not kidding.

 

[Masculinity]

Narcissism makes the narcissist ignorant towards criticism.

That's actually not true. Narcissist people have enormous egos that can be destroyed very easily. This is why they are narcissist in the first place because they can't get enough validation from other individuals. The above results came from Robert Hogan who published a study in the journal of Review of General Psychology analyzing which people are the best leaders. Narcissists are successful in the short-run, but they bail or crumble in the long run.

If you'd like a copy of the 15 page journal you may PM me.

 

[st_99]

Narcissist people have enormous egos that can be destroyed very easily. .

Thats the way i understand it also. Their ego is extremely fragile.

 

[Chamber36]

How did your friend handle the trip?

Mushrooms tend to be quite harsh on those with big egos.
I mean it's basically what they do, they dissolve your ego and if you identify yourself by your ego then you'll think you are dying when really you are becoming you true self.

He has a big ego but I don't think he identifies with it. He realises it's just a part of his psychology.

He handled the trip well. We had some salvia aswell so we even merged with the everything else in the room.
He has more experience with drugs. He's been in a K-hole and says he's dismantled his ego already, more than once.

I never thought he was a narcissist before. But he was acting really ignorant and I noticed that I had to watch my words. Once I was in his appartment I had to abide by his laws, and it pissed me off alot. He's moving in with me and we were analysing each other. I don't care what his analysis of me is, but whenever I was analysing him he was like: WHAT ?! WHAT?!
He could sense I was thinking about him in a negative way but I didn't want to tell him. So my diagnosis was: Narcissism.

I also realised he's further on the road to individuality. He's defined more of what he IS and ISN'T.
I see myself as humble and meak. While he sees himself as all-knowing. But instead of explaining things, all he cares about is that you buy into his frame. It's not about enlightening me, its about him being RIGHT. I thought he would teach me about space,time, ego and self, but he was entirely not on my level.

I'm gonna do more shrooms in about 2 weeks. I need more. It helped to put things into perspective.
I realised I was a lump of gold looking for another lump of gold, but I'm afraid there'll be a smudge of **** on it, so all I can find is ****.

 

[Chamber36]

It could be that he respects me but doesn't want to acknowledge any criticism from me. Whether that makes him a narcissist I don't know.

 

[Aaron B]

narcissist crew signing in

 

[SgtSplacker]

Recently I tried changing my POF profile to read like one of the crazy super arrogant profiles you can find here. The profile has super high standards, is totally rude and some ladies insult me because of it, but that is until they read the disclaimer. The profile has a disclaimer saying that its basically meant to be a joke. You would be surprised how many ladies dont read the disclaimer and still want to talk to me.

 

[Darth]

For an example of a textbook narcissist, see President Obama. He seemed to be very solid at the beginning, but now it's coming down around his ears.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

How did your friend handle the trip?

Mushrooms tend to be quite harsh on those with big egos.
I mean it's basically what they do, they dissolve your ego and if you identify yourself by your ego then you'll think you are dying when really you are becoming you true self.

I fvcking love mushrooms but I predict this thread will now fill up with people bashing shrooms and telling you not to take drugs because they make you anti-social.

I recommend you have solo trip. You will meet God and find your true nature. I'm not kidding.

Ahh! That's so fvcking crazy that you say that! Earlier this summer I tripped with a few friends and this EXACT thing happened to me. I felt as though I was dying and needed help. Then a friend of mine was saying I'm a control freak and all this crap and I just wound up throwing up everywhere.. As I threw up I felt like it was my ego spewing out of my body before me and I just felt like a horrible person. I felt isolated and alone.

I guess you could say it was a bad trip. :crackup:

Other than that, great time! I love how the mind tends to make up moving patterns of the things around you and I feel (as well as many other scientists) that psychadelic drugs can help us better understand our thinking patterns.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I dunno about all the personality revelations using mushrooms. To me it is mostly visual and thats it. For these moment of clarity things LSD (acid) always worked wonders for me.

 

[Chamber36]

Funny because my friend was acting like a control freak and he didn't have any trouble tripping balls.

But it doesn't matter whether HE is a narcissist.

It's just funny that I realised women are attracted to narcissistic traits.

Apparently, to the question: "What does a woman want?" Freud answered: "rudderless," "receptive," "narcissistic" and "dominated by the yearnings of 'self-love.'"

Pretty interesting.

 

[Aaron B]

I dunno about all the personality revelations using mushrooms. To me it is mostly visual and thats it. For these moment of clarity things LSD (acid) always worked wonders for me.

a Johns Hopkins study has recently shown that mushrooms trigger lasting personality changes in some people

 

[Mike32ct]

There is no question that narcissists (sp?) attract women.

There is a guy in my work building that we didn't know well, but could sense his extreme arrogance. Not knowing his name, we secretly referred to him as "The ****y Guy" (TCG).

Well, TCG left last year's Xmas party with an HB8.

Now he's hooking up with another HB8 in the building.

His specialty is social circle game and F-ing women he already knows when they get divorced or break up with their boyfriends.

His arrogance, looks, and charm work for him.

 

[Chamber36]

It's fvcked up because I invited him to move in with me next year, so I could learn about game. Now I'm doubtful because he dealt me a load of compliance tests.

I was looking forward to going to lots of parties and bringing home lots of girls with him. He's a textbook narcissist. He wants special treatment all the time, so I'm not sure I want to live with him anymore. I don't want to be his slave. I wanted to learn from him.

If I let him live with me it has to be clear that I'm the boss.
He made me compliance test, thereby asserting dominance. I'm worried he wants to use me for my apartment and for my attention.

I don't think he can do without attention, he wants constant adoration from others. Besides that, he can't really stand when another person is happy. Last time I went to his birthday he couldn't get a chip off his shoulder, though he had a girl on his lap and plenty of weed/alcohol.

So he's basically a male Attention VVhore; full of mind games.

I wanted to learn from him but I think I already learned it all! Shrooms ftw!

 

[Aaron B]

this reinforces the notion that women form their opinion of a man largely based on how he views and feels about himself

 

[PokerStar]

to me i love shrooms. i do them once every 2 years or so.

when im on it, it feels like pure chaos. i m not sure why, but i feel free. like everything is clear to me. i like losing control. maybe because i work hard everyday to keep myself in control.

hmmmmm

looks like ill be doing some zoomies in the next few weeks.

 

[ZenoB]

Narcissists are a challenge to female players.

 

[Chamber36]

to me i love shrooms. i do them once every 2 years or so.

when im on it, it feels like pure chaos. i m not sure why, but i feel free. like everything is clear to me. i like losing control. maybe because i work hard everyday to keep myself in control.

hmmmmm

looks like ill be doing some zoomies in the next few weeks.

If you really want to lose control try salvia.

First time I did that: It felt like I woke up from a dream (life). I had awoken into the actual REAL reality. There was nothing there. There was no beginning, no end, no time. I was at first frightened, but I quickly got comfortable there. I wondered whether I would make it back to my dream, which was LIFE, or that the dream was over.

When I came back I was really grateful to be back in the same time and space I'd disappeared from what seemed to be an eternity ago.All this happened in about 2 minutes.

Don't want to make this into a drugs-forum but spiritual enlightenment is part of becoming a man. Some of these drugs have been used in initiation rights of the American Indians.

BTW if you take my advice do your research first. Know what you're getting in to. Don't blame me if you have a bad trip. You probably will. I did. But it was good aswell. Good = bad. Bad = good.

Concerning Women:
I realised during the shroom trip that women aren't really meant to be thought about, but to be fvcked. I thought back to the time I became a virgin. I remember that while fvcking that girl there was absolutely NOTHING going on in my head. So women are attracted to men thinking "nothing" in their presence because women cannot think about "nothing", therefore a man thinking about "nothing" fascinates them. Besides that, if he's thinking about "nothing" then he isn't thinking about game. It's one of the reasons why women like a working man. When you're in work-mode you won't be thinking. You're just doing a routine. Thinking about "nothing". Basically in a state of meditation.

Of course a narcissist will never be thinking about nothing, but he won't let another person know what he's thinking. They're manipulative and act nice towards outsiders so women like them aswell, like flies are drawn to honey. They are receptive towards others, but (secretly) spiteful towards their closest. So women are fascinated by them too.

 

[PapiChulo]

I had a prof like that in school. He is the most pompous douche I have ever seen, and it seems that he felt my lack of empathy towards him, which in turn made him desire to put me down every time he had a chance. Apart from being completely delusionally arrogant, he was sort of charming with a british accent (somewhat fake accent), the subtle kind of as$hole. And the female students ate it up with a spoon getting crashes on the guy, and the guys thought he was genius, I though he was a pompous prick - Hitler like figure (could not seduce me). P.S. please don't confuse personality disorder with arrogance, some people are just that.