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Women: Anti Slut Defense

The_King

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Guys...

Ok, Background..

Is I have Fcvk closed this bird before, then went on another night out with herl two days later and only Kiss closed and heavy making out (disappointing). This was about 2-3 weeks ago. Since then, I have not been touch. However, she communicates by text message (I know), she sent a text wednesday, asking me out for a drink this week. I did not reply, just too busy. Saturday, she sends me another, and asks me out again for this week but includes in it

"no funny business"

I reply today, monday, and arrange to see her tonight. The way, I view this is as a test, She does not want to be seen to be a slut. She felt confused when she slept with me, the other week, sayng she did not know what came over her etc, and she could not resist and she never done that before. Therefore, I feel, that I can recreate that attraction when I see her tonight. She does not know what see wants and is probably abit scared of what she felt, she is trying to regain the power. However, I have other ideas, as soon as I get in the car, I shall reach across and kiss her, then play it cool. Keep her guessing, I am going to tell her we are going to be good frineds and kiss her, send her mixed signals.

I am going to raise the attraction, to a point where she can not resist and the "funny business" ,is going to be validated,as the most natural way of expressing herself to me!

What do you guys think, recipe for success or totally the wrong idea?

I shall let you know the outcome, I am confident, I am going to pass this test.
 

Psycho`Sexual

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Excellent!

You really know your stuff. One thing, she might be afraid that you go around blabbing to your friends about how you "scored" and that might be preventing her.

Focus not only on arousing her again, but also on making her very comfortable with you.

:)
 

BobbDobbs

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She's trying to reestablish for a potential LTR. By that I mean she isn't necessarily committed to an LTR, but is trying to nullify the past and reset to zero. In the course of time, she may end up dumping you -- or not.

I think a chick in this mental state has thought a lot about it and it'll be difficult to get her in the sack again soon.

If you want an LTR, there is potential. If you want a fvck buddy, that's now unlikely.
 

The_King

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Interesting...

Basically, I think your saying, tha t she is trying to give me the LJBF line.

This could be true, but I doubt it. I have only seen her twice intimately and before that only chatted with her in a club. However, she dropped me home that night form the club as she was driving but since then she has told me, how she wished I had come back out so we could of got "it on" then , but she is my sisters friend and dropped my sister off at the same time. Which is why, as being a freind of my sisters (work colleague) she does not want to get a bad reputation. Thus, maybe you are right, she want san LTR to justify it, working over time. Conversly, I do not, so I shall stick to my game plan, as I truly believe I can seduce her again. If she gives me the cold shoulder, no loss.

The history to this girl, the previous encounter is posted here, its the girl called Simone

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32295

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hey, this sounds like a good story, keep us posted let us know what happens
 

The_King

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Success...

Ok..here is the lowdown on my success against Anti Slut Defense. The confident way into a womans mind and make it work for you.

She picks me up, starts telling me what a bad day she has had. I keep my replies light, I do not want to be her friend, I want to seduce her.

Then, a mile or 2 down the road, Wham, we are in a car crash! She must be really having a bad day. Ok, this is the time, to demonstrate my value and alpha style to her. So, I ask her if she is ok, she is. I get out the car, walk up cool and confident to the car behind, who had just gone into the back of us. Basically, stop him driving off, and tell him to get me paper and pen, he has 2 women in the car, I say to them they must have paper and pen in the handbags. They don't answer, far enough its probably shock. In the end he finds paper and pen, I get his details and give out Simones. Sorted. The car is still drivable

I go back to her car, put my arm around her, and tell her we can call it quits tonight or we can go back to mine and I will drive. She still wants to go out and drive. Cool, perfect sign, what an oppurtunity for her to flake, and she did not, I know she has IL.

We go to the pub, I am having a few beers and she is drinking fruit juice. I keep up the C & F, she is asking me questions like

"are you sure you want to come her, as you may bump into some of your other girls"

reply

"I can handle that"

I give her lots of eye contact, smiles, kino and C&F. I remind her of parts of the night where we Fcvked. Therefore, making her think of those memories of us as "lovers" and not friends. I tell her

"your confused"

she replies

"yes, I am"

Thats a definate green light, all I need to do know is make sure, I give her what she really wants deep down. The gut attraction is fighting her anti-slut mind. I am going to make sure the gut attraction wins.

Therefore, when we get to the car. I reach across and kiss her. She says she knew it was going to happen. Therefore, the plan, worked she felt the attraction. We carried on, when we pulled up to my house (parents are there) no Fcvk close but the oppurtunity would of been difficult to make in the circumstances (parents) and why, not keep her guessing, I say.

Now she seems to be hooked on me and the "funny business" that she said would not happen, is going on now.
 
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