Women and their little games

[PeasantPlayer]

Ok so this didn't bother me at all, I found it interesting and entertaining and how devious the female mind really works. Long story short there is this bar I go to have a few brews, shoot some pool, chit chat with people and call it a night. Well I have been going to this bar every Wednesday and I started noticing this new chick was coming in cause she knew somebody that work at the bar. Cool whatever, I checked her out she checked me out, but I honestly didn't care to make a effort to talk to her. It was not out of fear of anything I just wanted to mind my own business and really at this point I could care less.

She started coming in every wednesday around the same time I was at the bar for the last month. Last week I was outside getting some air at the bar. She happened to be outside with a mutual person I talked to at the bar. I'm talking to mutual friend from the bar, she buts in the conversation so we start talking for a few minutes and exchange names. As the convo is over she says "by the way you're really cute" I said thank you and continued inside the bar non nonchalantly.

This wednesday I hit up the same bar, and looks who comes in 20 minutes later, this same chick, but this time she brought a BETA orbiter with her. Inside I am like "wow LMAO" i'm shooting pool not caring at all, just thought it was kind of sad. I was thinking it was some sort of test, but I was like ehhh whatever maybe I am overthinking this. As the night goes on, she is sitting on his lap, this guy is a total BETA, he reeks of AFC. So I notice she tried to make eye contact with me, which I ignored. Her and BETA go outside for a cig, 10 minutes late BETA WALKS IN THE BAR HOLDING HER PURSE! I was :crackup: :crackup: It was hilarious. He brings it to the table sets it down, and this way a big purse too. She comes in 2 minutes later and I am just like WOW, what a loser lol. So I started chatting up this cute chick at the bar, she was cute nothing special, but cute. Had a good convo and went home empty handed (by choice)

Are women really this pathetic? Was this chick trying to **** test me or am I overthinking through the lens of my ego?

 

[Suspens]

You do care about her.
You acted like an attention hoe and were expecting her to get your number.
She crushed your weak beta dreams by bringing in a better "beta orbiter".


Next time if you see a chick and you feel you like her, do something instead of being an attention hoe.

 

[cola]

I think you may be being a bit narcissistic bro. I can't say that she brought this guy to make you jealous. I think he's prob one of her plates. When she said "By the way you are cute" why didn't you escalate?
I know you're not always in the mood to entertain females, but that was pretty direct on her part. She made the first move. Maybe you did hurt her ego a little, that may be PART of the reason she brought the beta..

If you really don't care screw it. You'll see her again I suppose, If you want her sounds like you can get her. Just wait till she approaches you again, she will.

 

[RangerMIke]

If you want her go get her.... if you don't then move on.

But if you are wondering if this is some kind of test... I doubt it because women only REALLY test men that show interest in them. You really haven't shown her any interest so why would she test you? As far as she knows your gay unless you've been hitting up other women while you are tbere.

 

[Tictac]

Your are right.

You are (way) overthinking this.

 

[skinnyguy]

You should have banged her the time she said you were cute. Even her "beta" friend would have done that.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I already nailed a few chicks from that bar. I wasn't to worried about nailing this chick, I just was in once of them ehhhhh moods. Don't care though. Question was more or less if I was being to narcissistic.

Another thing is the dude holding the purse, i mean they still make betas like that? lolololol

 

[G_Govan]

I already nailed a few chicks from that bar. I wasn't to worried about nailing this chick, I just was in once of them ehhhhh moods. Don't care though. Question was more or less if I was being to narcissistic.

Another thing is the dude holding the purse, i mean they still make betas like that? lolololol

You don't realize it but you rejected her.

"by the way you're really cute" I said thank you and continued inside the bar non nonchalantly.

This is why she brought the beta. I've had this same thing done to me a few times.

Women (attractive anyway) are rarely ever this forward. She pretty much communicated to you that she wanted your D and you walked away without reciprocating at all. Now, if you were never interested then mission accomplished.

I've had this done to me even without either of us saying a word to each other. Sometimes they can only muster the courage to make strong eye contact and nothing else due to fear of rejection.

The more attractive they are the more subtle they tend to be.

I think you at least would've f-cked her otherwise she would've been off your radar completely.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Well that night she said I was cute, as I was leaving and shook her hand, made sure I got her name and told her ill see her next Wednesday.

Its over though, time to spin more platessssssssssss

 

[G_Govan]

Well that night she said I was cute, as I was leaving and shook her hand, made sure I got her name and told her ill see her next Wednesday.

You might think this was enough and any "reasonable" person would be ok with this.

Well, women aren't reasonable. If you had any intent at all you should've gotten her number and set up a date instead of just her name and a casual "I'll see you next time."

You didn't cold approach her, she came to you with strong buying signs and you over-gamed trying to appear aloof.

I've made this mistake plenty. When women are giving you strong signals you just need to seal the deal, they WANT you to.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Pretty much I did over game hahaha

 

[nismo-4]

You told that princess to go to another castle. Why not yours, I have no clue.

 

[foreverAFC]

when a girl tells you she thinks you are cute, and you shake her hand and tell her you will see her later,its pretty much a rejection. next time a girl tells you that you are cute, ask her for her number.