jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
I have been with a few women compared to your experience, but I have had two in particular who needed "outside help" to keep the relationship going. It's as if they were trying to improve me in some way. They were constantly working to find things in me that they had to solve, to create the image of the man they had in mind.
I'll give you a concrete and easier example of when I was 21, and I was with my 2ltr, I worked in the company managed by her father, he sold clothing products. Her father was a businessman, almost always out and about, very well-groomed, well-dressed, charismatic. In short, his absence was felt.
She was the only heiress, so she had this need to satisfy, by finding a "replacement" for her father, to put in his position once he retired. Also, she was talking about getting a house, living together at 21, and then having kids at 25. I noticed one thing about this girl in particular: she wanted to create me. She had this image of this ideal man, and she didn't do any serious **** tests, but it was like she was guiding me with her arguments to be a better man, from her perspective, as if to tell me you lack this quality, and I point it out to you in a subtle way, now that you've noticed, please work on it.
I noticed that she read a lot of books and there were always these stories about how this man inherited a fortune from a big family, grew up and became a man of power and wealth after meeting this woman who turns his life upside down.
That said, we still broke up at 23 for other reasons.
I haven't had any other girlfriends who did this the same way she did it. She was very affectionate, but very dramatic at the same time (really, a lot of drama everyday). I wondered what she was doing to me. Despite all that I was getting, many good things and few bad things, I didn't see many red flags in her, except this constant search for improvement, which was overwhelming. Have you ever had similar experiences with women?
I'll give you a concrete and easier example of when I was 21, and I was with my 2ltr, I worked in the company managed by her father, he sold clothing products. Her father was a businessman, almost always out and about, very well-groomed, well-dressed, charismatic. In short, his absence was felt.
She was the only heiress, so she had this need to satisfy, by finding a "replacement" for her father, to put in his position once he retired. Also, she was talking about getting a house, living together at 21, and then having kids at 25. I noticed one thing about this girl in particular: she wanted to create me. She had this image of this ideal man, and she didn't do any serious **** tests, but it was like she was guiding me with her arguments to be a better man, from her perspective, as if to tell me you lack this quality, and I point it out to you in a subtle way, now that you've noticed, please work on it.
I noticed that she read a lot of books and there were always these stories about how this man inherited a fortune from a big family, grew up and became a man of power and wealth after meeting this woman who turns his life upside down.
That said, we still broke up at 23 for other reasons.
I haven't had any other girlfriends who did this the same way she did it. She was very affectionate, but very dramatic at the same time (really, a lot of drama everyday). I wondered what she was doing to me. Despite all that I was getting, many good things and few bad things, I didn't see many red flags in her, except this constant search for improvement, which was overwhelming. Have you ever had similar experiences with women?