Woman has an affair and still entitle to 50% assests

Chromeo

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I was having an argument with my mother the other day.

her point was that its just life and raising a family should come out to about $150,000 a year.

Im sorry but I think if you break a contract you shouldnt be entitled to anything.

If the contract was resolved first, then ok. But cheating and then to get half? I think thats bull!

"My mom says well I think your being disrespectful to women, me and your sister, its a lot of time and hard work to raise a family"

"Ya and its hard work to put a roof over their heads, and to have your wife cheat on you"

disrespectful to women!? WTF what about being disrespectful to man!?

like Ive said before my mom wears the pants in my family
 

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Keep the pressure up, soldier. Do not bend!

I always advocate applying contrary pressure to the notion of female entitlement and not buckling under by feeling "That's just the way it is". Lots of guys have that attitude.

They will furiously try to "guilt" into into submission or compromise. I'm glad you're on the front lines battling this crap. We need to do it one interaction at a time.
 

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Chromeo said:
"My mom says well I think your being disrespectful to women, me and your sister, its a lot of time and hard work to raise a family"
Right there is the sum total of women's logic.
Your mother is saying that she feels that women are entitled to do whatever they like with impunity just because they act like adults with the added responsibility of parenting. As payment for their carrying this burden they believe that the world owes them gratification in whatever form they desire.

You have also just run headlong up against the unspoken agreement between women that each will fiercely protect each others' backs when any man dares to criticize one of them. Their universally manufactured delusion that they are perfect, and above negative comments from men, needs a strong shield, and even a counter attack. To this end, women favor 'shaming' the one who has dared to criticize one of the sisterhood.

Try just laughing at them .
 

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Chromeo said:
But cheating and then to get half? I think thats bull!

Me too, but that is the current state of divorce law. Before no-fault divorce became the norm, the divorce proceedings would often turn into a long and ugly trial. Rather than deal with the difficult issue of proving who fvcked whom, now they just rubber-stamp the divorce. It is much faster and easier.

But no-fault means just that. I once heard a lawyer explain to his stupefied client that it did not matter if his wife was standing on the street corner turning tricks, she still gets half.
 

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Hence the reason why a man should not even get married in the first place. The laws make it too financially risky.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Chromeo said:
Woman has an affair and still entitle to 50% assests
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And this, my friends, is why I plan on NEVER getting married.

It's just not worth the risk...
 

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Getting married isnt a pressing issue for me at the moment. When, if rather, i do decide to marry some woman in the future I can assure you it will be a carefully made decision.

I dont plan on marrying just any girl. She has to have a few key attributes about her that I admire. Health, intellect, work ethic, and physical aspects ar just to name a few.

I wouldnt say its risky to marry a successful, hard working, attractive woman. The only way it becomes financially risky is if you make all or most of the money and she contributes very little financially. Owning a home with another person who pays an equal or greater share of the note would be the opposite of financially risky. You would think this would be common sense, the law simply doesnt reflect it in this case.
 
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your mom is full of **** like pretty much any woman out there. i ignore 99% of what comes out of my mother's mouth because i know its useless bull**** reeking of hypocrisy for the most part and a waste of my time, i do like to make fun of her on it now and then though. props to you for calling her **** out though.
 

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I really hate yelling at my mom, but someone needs to do it. I was fired up for this one. Should have just laughed at her.

Someone has to do it tho, god knows my father wont.

new thread for that.
 
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