Maybe two years ago I was hanging out at one of my favorite hangouts when this woman, Debb, burst in yelling and carrying on in a vile manner. The object of her outrage was a man who happened to be there, a guy who I had just met perhaps an hour before – Pete. Pete was obviously embarrassed by her actions especially as he walked out with his head hung low with her following behind cursing and *****ing. I felt horribly sad for the guy, questioning, in my head, why any man would allow himself to be subjected to such abuse.
Since then I’ve encountered Debb a few times including once when she was 86ed out of a place because of her foul mouthed b!tching at those who were unwilling to let her have her way.
One day I met up with my girlfriend Lilly and she had with her, her new friend Debb. I was horrified but was cordial. Afterwards I told Lilly about Debb. Lilly wasn’t convinced as she had not seen Debb act in the way that I described. They continued on as friends. I figured eventually Lilly would see Debb treat Pete, and others in the rude, foul mouthed way that I seen her before.
As the weeks passed I saw more and more of Debb and her behavior. Her behavior, as much habit as conscious thought, revolved around her continually trying to control those around her. Most of her efforts centered around deceptions and out and out lies. Try as she did, she was unable to “charm” me as I was onto her from the first moment I heard her foul mouth. Besides, I don’t find her attractive in the least.
The realization for Lilly that Debb was as I said she was came one day when Lilly accidentally left her purse over at Debb’s house. After we retrieved her purse, Lilly discovered that her wallet was missing. She insisted that it was in her purse, where she always kept it, but Debb insisted that she had not touched the purse and no one else had been by. So, Lilly had to spend all the time, effort, and money to replace her credit cards, driver’s license and whatever else was in her wallet. After a couple of weeks, about the time Lilly had replaced everything, Debb invited us over to her house for a dinner party. At the party Lilly’s wallet was found by one of the other guests. Yet it was found lying in such a place that it couldn’t have gone unnoticed over the couple of weeks since it had gone missing.
By now Lilly was convinced that Debb had taken her wallet and then later placed it to be found. This suspicion was backed up by Pete who later told us that that was typical of Debb’s behavior. I was seeing that this was just another trick that she used to control others, just for the sake of controlling them even if she gained nothing by it.
Lilly was through with Debb by now but unfortunately Debb had wound her way into our social circle. That wasn’t to last long. At a social function, while trying her crap on a woman who wasn’t about to put up with it, a verbal fight ensued and led to a shoving match. Even though it was quickly broken up and neither woman was hurt, Debb called the police claiming that she had been assaulted. When the police arrived Debb was convincing to the police, even convincing them that all the witnesses were just sticking up for the other woman. This all led to the other woman being taken away in handcuffs. As the police were driving away Debb was saying to everyone, “Lookee here you fvckers, mess with me and I’ll call the cops on you too.” That incident was enough for everyone to see Debb as she really was.
The woman who was taken away was released a couple of hours later without charges or anything.
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Over the course of having been around Debb I saw how she treated others and was horrified by it. If I had been Pete I would have left her a long time ago. But, alas he seems to be forever destined to be a wuss. During that time I saw her go off, arm in arm with at least a dozen different men. One day I was aware that she had spent the day at one man’s house (later he was bragging about the sex that they had) only to leave his house to hunt down Pete and b!tch at him for going out for a drink with the guys.
Overhearing her talking to Lilly, Debb claimed that none of the women liked her because all the guys did. One day I was at a social gathering and brought it up, that she thought that all the guys were in love with her and all the other crap she thought to be true. We all had a good laugh.
Being the nice guy that I am I never really said anything to Debb, mostly preferring to keep my distance yet I knew that she liked me and probably quite a bit.
Yesterday I was with some friends, incidentally at the club where Debb had been 86ed when Debb showed up with her latest dupe. She saw me and came over rather quickly acting as if we were long lost friends. For whatever reason, probably just seeing that ugly face with her smug attitude, I began, “You have some nerve coming here…” and got on a roll listing all the things that I had seen her do, the way she treated people and on and on. And I wasn’t talking softly.
Her smugness fell away to confusion and then to a rising anger as she tried to defend herself. At one point she said, “but I though that you liked me.” From that I launched into another barrage telling her and everyone else that I never liked her, that I have always thought of her as the piece of sh!t that she is, that she was ugly, ugly, ugly and that the only men she gets is that wimpy losers that can’t get any other women, and on and on.
To my surprise, as I pretty much ran out of things to say, as I stopped to catch my breath others began in on her. About then the manager came out trying to see what all the commotion was about. Just then I remembered that she had been 86ed. So I yelled out to her “What are you going to do now, call the cops?” Lilly had reached the manager and was filling him in on what was going on, emphasizing that Debb had been 86ed. The manger spoke up, telling Debb that she had to leave or he was going to call the police and have her removed. Her little dupe friend pulled her along outside as she continued crying and yelling. Several hours later there was a call on my cell phone which I didn’t answer. However the caller left a message. It was Debb, she was crying telling me how wrong I was, how if only I would talk to her, blah, blah, blah. I couldn’t stand to hear her voice anymore so I deleted the message before it ended. Lilly told me that I should call Debb up and tell her never to call me again. No, I explained to Lilly, Debb is a control freak who thinks that everything should revolve around her - she wants me to call her.
This whole business with Debb got me thinking. Some of the posts I’ve read complaining about certain women could very much apply to Debb. The sad fact is that there will always be women like Debb because there will always be men who will put up with her crap because no other woman would want them.
Since then I’ve encountered Debb a few times including once when she was 86ed out of a place because of her foul mouthed b!tching at those who were unwilling to let her have her way.
One day I met up with my girlfriend Lilly and she had with her, her new friend Debb. I was horrified but was cordial. Afterwards I told Lilly about Debb. Lilly wasn’t convinced as she had not seen Debb act in the way that I described. They continued on as friends. I figured eventually Lilly would see Debb treat Pete, and others in the rude, foul mouthed way that I seen her before.
As the weeks passed I saw more and more of Debb and her behavior. Her behavior, as much habit as conscious thought, revolved around her continually trying to control those around her. Most of her efforts centered around deceptions and out and out lies. Try as she did, she was unable to “charm” me as I was onto her from the first moment I heard her foul mouth. Besides, I don’t find her attractive in the least.
The realization for Lilly that Debb was as I said she was came one day when Lilly accidentally left her purse over at Debb’s house. After we retrieved her purse, Lilly discovered that her wallet was missing. She insisted that it was in her purse, where she always kept it, but Debb insisted that she had not touched the purse and no one else had been by. So, Lilly had to spend all the time, effort, and money to replace her credit cards, driver’s license and whatever else was in her wallet. After a couple of weeks, about the time Lilly had replaced everything, Debb invited us over to her house for a dinner party. At the party Lilly’s wallet was found by one of the other guests. Yet it was found lying in such a place that it couldn’t have gone unnoticed over the couple of weeks since it had gone missing.
By now Lilly was convinced that Debb had taken her wallet and then later placed it to be found. This suspicion was backed up by Pete who later told us that that was typical of Debb’s behavior. I was seeing that this was just another trick that she used to control others, just for the sake of controlling them even if she gained nothing by it.
Lilly was through with Debb by now but unfortunately Debb had wound her way into our social circle. That wasn’t to last long. At a social function, while trying her crap on a woman who wasn’t about to put up with it, a verbal fight ensued and led to a shoving match. Even though it was quickly broken up and neither woman was hurt, Debb called the police claiming that she had been assaulted. When the police arrived Debb was convincing to the police, even convincing them that all the witnesses were just sticking up for the other woman. This all led to the other woman being taken away in handcuffs. As the police were driving away Debb was saying to everyone, “Lookee here you fvckers, mess with me and I’ll call the cops on you too.” That incident was enough for everyone to see Debb as she really was.
The woman who was taken away was released a couple of hours later without charges or anything.
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Over the course of having been around Debb I saw how she treated others and was horrified by it. If I had been Pete I would have left her a long time ago. But, alas he seems to be forever destined to be a wuss. During that time I saw her go off, arm in arm with at least a dozen different men. One day I was aware that she had spent the day at one man’s house (later he was bragging about the sex that they had) only to leave his house to hunt down Pete and b!tch at him for going out for a drink with the guys.
Overhearing her talking to Lilly, Debb claimed that none of the women liked her because all the guys did. One day I was at a social gathering and brought it up, that she thought that all the guys were in love with her and all the other crap she thought to be true. We all had a good laugh.
Being the nice guy that I am I never really said anything to Debb, mostly preferring to keep my distance yet I knew that she liked me and probably quite a bit.
Yesterday I was with some friends, incidentally at the club where Debb had been 86ed when Debb showed up with her latest dupe. She saw me and came over rather quickly acting as if we were long lost friends. For whatever reason, probably just seeing that ugly face with her smug attitude, I began, “You have some nerve coming here…” and got on a roll listing all the things that I had seen her do, the way she treated people and on and on. And I wasn’t talking softly.
Her smugness fell away to confusion and then to a rising anger as she tried to defend herself. At one point she said, “but I though that you liked me.” From that I launched into another barrage telling her and everyone else that I never liked her, that I have always thought of her as the piece of sh!t that she is, that she was ugly, ugly, ugly and that the only men she gets is that wimpy losers that can’t get any other women, and on and on.
To my surprise, as I pretty much ran out of things to say, as I stopped to catch my breath others began in on her. About then the manager came out trying to see what all the commotion was about. Just then I remembered that she had been 86ed. So I yelled out to her “What are you going to do now, call the cops?” Lilly had reached the manager and was filling him in on what was going on, emphasizing that Debb had been 86ed. The manger spoke up, telling Debb that she had to leave or he was going to call the police and have her removed. Her little dupe friend pulled her along outside as she continued crying and yelling. Several hours later there was a call on my cell phone which I didn’t answer. However the caller left a message. It was Debb, she was crying telling me how wrong I was, how if only I would talk to her, blah, blah, blah. I couldn’t stand to hear her voice anymore so I deleted the message before it ended. Lilly told me that I should call Debb up and tell her never to call me again. No, I explained to Lilly, Debb is a control freak who thinks that everything should revolve around her - she wants me to call her.
This whole business with Debb got me thinking. Some of the posts I’ve read complaining about certain women could very much apply to Debb. The sad fact is that there will always be women like Debb because there will always be men who will put up with her crap because no other woman would want them.