So i met a chick like 3 months ago that was dating a friend of mine. After a couple days he dumps her and returns to his 2y ex, and she starts dating other of my friends, and after 2 days he dumps her and starts with his current girlfriend.
Like a month ago, she started hanging out at the same place me and these my friends 2 usually go to saturday nights, so i started getting to know her.
When i first saw her with my friend #1, my first impression was i good, i felt atraction. This last saturday i was talking to this girl, we dont really know eachother, but there was beginning to be a climate between us 2. Latter on, we were in a group of friends, she was there too with her girl best friend, and i had told her i live really next to her (like 1 block lol), so she was kinda sugesting if we'd went together.
I didnt give the edge of going alone with her, so she went in a ride with her friend. When i got to my place she was on my place, we talked a bit and both confessed there was something coming up between us, but maybe wasnt suposed to happen that night she said.
Next day i sugest she comes to my place the following day, which she did. We were here hanging out, listening some songs and knowing eachother better, and i was feeling very actracted, so i went for a kiss, but she was feeling embarassed by it happening so fast, and didnt went along. No problem at all, we continued talking and flirting.
Latter the day, i was at coffe where a big group of friends hang out, and there were already rumours all around cause one of my 2 friends knew i had been with her, and told other, that told other, that told other. Since for my 2 friends cause she dated both, she is in the slutty category, they assumed we had been f.ucking. She also told a friend of her's she was coming and that she was anxious to be with me.
Well, this got to her ears, that there was a rumour we had been f.ucking that afternoon, and she wanted to talk to me. Before that i went to talk to my friend and told him to keep his mouth shut. Then talked to her and managed to settle things up, and we're fine.
Now here is the situation, 2 of my best friends that dont talk to this girl and think she's slutty; a girl that's atracted and into me, and that i like a lot, but the rumours of us starting to hang out make her unconfortable.
I think she now wants to take things slower so she doesnt get hurt again.
So how would you guys deal with this situation of an atraction between me and her, with all this mess around? I'm keeping it as cool as i can, and i'm gona keep into her, but i'd like to hear some feedback.
Like a month ago, she started hanging out at the same place me and these my friends 2 usually go to saturday nights, so i started getting to know her.
When i first saw her with my friend #1, my first impression was i good, i felt atraction. This last saturday i was talking to this girl, we dont really know eachother, but there was beginning to be a climate between us 2. Latter on, we were in a group of friends, she was there too with her girl best friend, and i had told her i live really next to her (like 1 block lol), so she was kinda sugesting if we'd went together.
I didnt give the edge of going alone with her, so she went in a ride with her friend. When i got to my place she was on my place, we talked a bit and both confessed there was something coming up between us, but maybe wasnt suposed to happen that night she said.
Next day i sugest she comes to my place the following day, which she did. We were here hanging out, listening some songs and knowing eachother better, and i was feeling very actracted, so i went for a kiss, but she was feeling embarassed by it happening so fast, and didnt went along. No problem at all, we continued talking and flirting.
Latter the day, i was at coffe where a big group of friends hang out, and there were already rumours all around cause one of my 2 friends knew i had been with her, and told other, that told other, that told other. Since for my 2 friends cause she dated both, she is in the slutty category, they assumed we had been f.ucking. She also told a friend of her's she was coming and that she was anxious to be with me.
Well, this got to her ears, that there was a rumour we had been f.ucking that afternoon, and she wanted to talk to me. Before that i went to talk to my friend and told him to keep his mouth shut. Then talked to her and managed to settle things up, and we're fine.
Now here is the situation, 2 of my best friends that dont talk to this girl and think she's slutty; a girl that's atracted and into me, and that i like a lot, but the rumours of us starting to hang out make her unconfortable.
I think she now wants to take things slower so she doesnt get hurt again.
So how would you guys deal with this situation of an atraction between me and her, with all this mess around? I'm keeping it as cool as i can, and i'm gona keep into her, but i'd like to hear some feedback.
