Wish i was a minute man?

[Avsguy01]

First off let me just say that i got the big V off my chest yesterday! It was great! Although it could have been a hell of alot better. Which brings me to this topic. Unfortunately this girl i was with just couldnt handle me. Not to be bragging......i was just too much (big, long whatever) for her and i couldnt move at my pace or push to my liking. We went for about 2 minutes at a nice pace and she had enough. She started hurting so the rest of the time it was just way too uncomfortable for her and thus i wasnt able to get off. No orgasm for me. We tryed again and it was too much pain for her.

So, its great that i lost my virginity (i am not a virgin right even though i didnt come?) but i wish i would have gotten off. Thats why for just that one instant i wish i was a minute man. But i guess im not and i have to find a girl that can handle me for a while in bed or is there something i can do differently next time?

Anyway, thanks guys! This site has helped me alot and now with the big V off my chest i can concentrate on bringing in the hotties! I feel like a new person. One with more confidence now.

 

[Avsguy01]

I guess no ones ever had this happen to them??

 

[numlock]

was she a virgin?

 

[n00blar]

Tell me if you have been following this rule.
DO NOT SHOVE IT RIGHT IN HER.

If you haven't then you need to follow this rule(s).
SLOWLY, BUT SURELY WORK IT IN.
TRY LUBRICANTS.
TRY DIFFERENT POSITIONS.
TRY MORE FOREPLAY. (I.E. SHE MIGHT NOT BE HORNY/WET)

 

[Avsguy01]

Well i let her do the following. Allowing her to place me in her and yes i did go slow. She said she was wet and that she had multiple orgasms or atleast she thinks so. She did get pretty excited but it came to the point where she couldnt handle it anymore and she just had to stop and it left me with no climax.

 

[assasin]

My golden rule: If she hasn't screamed in frustration grabbed it and physically forced it inside her, you haven't done enough foreplay.

I've been shagging the same girl for 7 years, and I still wait for her to put it in.

 

[bp1974]

Then you need to teach her how to give you a great BJ to finish you off.

bp1974

 

[Avsguy01]

HA HA. I dont know maybe i just have problems getting off. It takes me longer i guess. Then again it was my first time, ill just move on to the next chick i can get. To be perfectly honest, with me being a virgin before that, i dont think she was all that great. She had no movement. She was on top at one point and couldnt keep very good rythem. She wouldnt let me thrust cause she said it hurt. Something about me hitting the top part. I need to find a deeper girl and one thats wild!!!.....lol

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Originally posted by Avsguy01
Something about me hitting the top part.

It depends, most likely you just needed to change to a different pos... read a coupla books and change it around a bit.

 

[Avsguy01]

Yeah your right but this girl just didnt want to change positions. Believe me i definately arose the oportunities to change positions but she didnt want to.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

I think the first time for any guy, usually you'll get the same results. I didn't get off the first time, and we were at it for an hour. I think after my legs started cramping up, I just stopped. ...that small bathroom was tricky to work in.
I don't think I got off the second time either.. ???? Eventually, I think you'll learn to relax and everything will happen like it should.

Also, be careful for what you wish for......

 

[SamePendo]

Its funny how we men are. Women would be complaining on how you (man) werent enough, and how you quit. Yet, we, men, get satisfied just for having 2 mins of "pleasure".
But, well, congratulations! Good to know you dont think of yourself as a god just because you had sex... keep up the good work !

 

[assasin]

Originally posted by Avsguy01
Something about me hitting the top part.

Yes if you go in too deep you can knock an ovary. From how it's been described to me it's a similar feeling to being kicked in the balls!

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

If you are with a girl that is way to tight or not deep enough, then use your big head. DON'T thrust all the way in her! Work it half way for a bit, this way she is not screaming and just want you to finish up. You have to work some girls nice and easy. Then when you get her juices flowing, ask her if she wants more. It takes time to get use to girls, they are all different!

M.A.C.

 

[Avsguy01]

Thanks guys. Its just good to know that i have things to learn and that theres nothing wrong with me. Im just happy to be out of the V-stage.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Just never forget....ALWAYS use a condom!!!! & a !

M.A.C.