WIPFR: HBCoffee

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Another Work In Progress (also, a thread to show I'm not just a noob that likes to hang out here for endless hours, lol) :rockon:

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So, I love Tim Hortons. So I was walking in one day, with my delivery hat still on (it's my hat..with a business card in a holder pinned in), and ordered some coffee. Of course, she's looking at me funny, not saying anything.

Me: "No, It's not stuck in!"

That was my line, sheesh. Anyways, it works, I talked with her for a bit while she made up my coffee. Sweet deal.

There's nothing like prior rapport when you reappear a week later. I walk in a week later, near her quitting time by accident, and she's dying for a smoke. We go to my car and light up a smoke each and talk. She leaves after. (I"m clearly not in pickup mode)

So a few days later, I walk in and she grabs my hands and tells me she really really wants a smoke. I tell her awesome...when's your break. She tells me wait out back and in 5 minutes I'll be out. Wicked, I go out and take the time to wait. She appears and we have a smoke (so taboo, lol). Hugs and let her go again.
Note: Yes, I really can't be on the ball, I still didn't think of a phone number or something...
So a few days later, I walk in, completely out of spite and I just happened to luck in to her AND her friend getting off. Well, she hugs me, and her friend offers to pay for my hot chocolate in exchange for driving her home. She lives 2 blocks from where I live, and HBCoffee lives on the way. Nothing to this one, More chitchat with HBCoffee and her friend. STILL fail to remember about a number or something, but the dropping off of them gives me addresses.

Talk about off my game. I'm not even thinking of pick up. So the next time (today), I'm in for another afternoon coffee, and to pick up her friend (because I'm a sucker for coffee, lol). Found out HBCoffee's been in the back for a half hour, unknown to either of us. She asks me if I ever work, I tell her sometimes, she tells me oohh, well I'm a ethodimoist..(spelling). I ask her what that is, she tells me she does manicures, pedicures, that sorta thing. Bling! I say: "So, you can make me pretty?!" She blushes and laughs. She gives me a hug and tells me she's in pain. Poor girl. We split and drive friend home

Tonight, I pick HBCoffee up after my work (and when she's done, so I had two games of pool and a beer to pass the time :D), and I'm early ><. Order my hot chocolate and a donut and sat down and waited. She finally got done and came over, I tell her to sit and relax a little. She does, (and now I've realized my errors, and I start progressing Kino, just a touch). I take her hand from the side of the table and hold it (a hopeful sign of comfort). She's fine with that, but she takes her hand away to reposition herself and places it back. Hmm...

Drove her home, and I finally fed her a business card, and I still don't have a number or email. Man....what's with me. lol.

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Post Notes: - She lights up with happiness when I show up, and I can see it.
- She's giving me Kino, between hugs and taking my hands, giving me tastes of drinks, drinking my hot chocolate, etc.
- Lots of EC, I make her laugh, she's always happy around me.
- She trusts me enough to drive her and her friend home.
- She invited me to come out and drink Saturday (but I got other plans...oh do I ever)



I'm not looking for pointers, just by reading that, you can TELL I'm not running game. I don't even know why I haven't started running it to be honest, and the lack of a close, I don't know...

I plan to get her outside of work to do something, so I can see where this is going, So far, she's showing interest though my lack of gaming her. Odd, but hell, if it works, it works right?

Stay tuned.
 

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Docs said:
So far, she's showing interest though my lack of gaming her. Odd, but hell, if it works, it works right?
Can do... but watch the friends zone dude..... taking too long can be a one way trip
 

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It has come to my understanding that time is not the only factor that determines if you get into fz.It happened before,you game a girl for a LOONG time and she just goes cold on you,not ljbf you,she just gives up.
Anyway,i don't think Docs needs any advice,my guess is he worked it all out just by reading what he wrote :p
 

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Docs, don't listen to any idiots who say that if you haven't got "THE DIGITS" and you aren't rooting her within 6 minutes of meeting her that you have totally blown it and your automatically in the friendzone.

So it's taking a bit of time, big bloody deal!

Whatever you're doing, she's lapping it up... The fact that she gave you her hand back means she's feeling pretty good to be around you.

Just don't lose your momentum, that's all.
 

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Docs is one of those guys man, who figures **** out as he writes. Kind of crazy, watch saturday he going to bang this Bytch, and ****in let us know about it too :p

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Cremasta said:
Docs, don't listen to any idiots who say that if you haven't got "THE DIGITS" and you aren't rooting her within 6 minutes of meeting her that you have totally blown it and your automatically in the friendzone.

So it's taking a bit of time, big bloody deal!
Dunno if you misunderstood me,i was not saying he was fzed,just that time works against him because she gives alot of IOIs and no "response" from docs,and thus leads to her IL dropping.
 

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I need isolation, that's what I need. This bouncing between work deal is alright, but it's not giving me the signs I need. ><

Bah, not even work today, she's outta my way to visit. Durr..maybe she'll call, lol!
 

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GloriouslyInsane said:
Dunno if you misunderstood me,i was not saying he was fzed,just that time works against him because she gives alot of IOIs and no "response" from docs,and thus leads to her IL dropping.
No, I wasn't referring to your post here, I actually agree with what you said. There are a number of relatively new people here who get caught up in the whole "You are the prize, screw what she wants" and "If you haven't got her naked by the second date, you've totally failed" mentality.

Just getting in first, that's all.
 

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To update today, I picked her up because I got some work doing Delivery, and she was more then happy to warm up my cold hands. :D

And again, no plans, number, muhahaha. She said she'd add me to msn, meh.
 

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On this Cold day Sunday, also the last Sunday of winter I was still sleep deprived from my long nights but I still had a coffee
date I wanted to attend. I leave the house and go pick up HB Coffee. We get to Tim Horton's. I say I need a coffee, but I'm so tired
She WORKS at Coffee. I was going to pick her up after her shift.

Other then that, I think it's right. Blargg
Thanks buddy!
 

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And...this is interesting...

So I dropped in today, and another solid day of laughter and jokes. I'm getting so good at opening random people, that a group of three came in, and the guy orders a chocolate chip cookie, a chocolate chip muffin AND a hot chocolate. I immediately bust on him, saying that he's a chocolate fan. I see the girl next in the group, and I ask her if she's a vanilla person, and I name the last guy Butterscotch guy! The funny thing is, the chick ran with it, reassuring the guys that he can be chocolate, her vanilla, him butterscotch. Talk about a random subject!

Other highlights include her getting me to miss something completely (and nicely done as well). She told me her mind is in the gutter. Ok, instant thoughts. Sweet. She tells me she owns a store beside the motel, in the gutter. I'm not following, and I ask her if I can get reduced rates at the motel, and she tells me she doesn't know, she doesn't own it! Anyways, a little bit more of this, and I finally catch on that she isn't talking about the awesome gutter, and she has to go in the back room to control her laughter.

Now, the most interesting part comes when she tells me she's going away for two weeks. She tells me she's heading to one city for a dealeo, over to Toronto to pick up her friend and they are chilling for a few days, and then she's over to Ottawa to see her BOYFRIEND that she hasn't seen since New Years. She seemed enthusasic about it, so I didn't bat an eye and I cheered for her. She went to do an order and I ran that though my head for a second, thinking, what the shyt!

But genious never lacks with me, we get into a conversation with the other girls about something about prettiness, and I come back with this:
Me: I have a hat. Am I pretty?
Her: Nope
Me: *takes hat off* How about without a hat?
Her: Nope
Me: Aww, so I'm not pretty! :eek:
Her: Well, I can't really say...you know my boyfriend...he'd get jealous with me..and wouldn't like it if I said anything.
Me: *slight pause..* Wait a second, he's in Ottawa, you're here, he can't hear what you say. Am I pretty *puts hat back on*
Her: Yeah. But in that...guy..kinda...pretty way.
Fvcking nailed it solidly. That last part was her trying to justify saying that I'm pretty. What does that mean? You combine the fact she just tried to poorly cover her ass that she finds me attractive (pretty!), but the clear indication of her mood going sky-high when I enter (she's usually in pain when I walk in, mellow mood, I leave her on a high), along with the free food/coffee she throws at me every once in a while.

She's interested, and not this 10-50% deal. She's got some serious interest happening with me, and she's trying really hard to make it seem like she doesn't, because she 'has a boyfriend in an entirely different city'. I thought for a second about 'oh crap, boyfriend, abort abort' as normal, but instead, I decided to hell with that, my gut feeling says interested, I'm running with this.

So in two weeks, this is going to continue happening. She's showing interest, I'm not letting it drop because of a guy.

That's the night though :)
 

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It's not the chick at the Timmie's near the ferry, is it? If it's the one I'm thinking of (which it probably isn't)... damn, hit it already!
 

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Man, you're good! I didn't expect you to be trying to find out where she is, but yes!

Which one are you thinking of now? (oh, and hitting, she's gone for 2 weeks. meh)

I wasn't far off from asking her out somewhere, but last night happened, lol!
 

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I don't remember her name... Ashley or something? She's almost invariably there when I drop in, I'll try and get her name next time around. Though if it's the one that's gone for two weeks, I'll have to wait at least that long, eh?
 

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Nope, not Ashley, I don't which one that is yet!

I think...think, she said she'd be in Monday....but I'll probably forget.
 

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:O Signs of interest, **** the boyfriend she's more interested in you keep it rollin docs.
 

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I can tell she's got some serious interest, but now I got this two week lull of her being gone, so now I can only hope her boyfriend sucks! haha.
 

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So, she came back Monday, and she's not gone again. She blamed it on pain, but you would think that boyfriend...3 months...would be a reason to go???

She's still quite accepting of my hand when I drop in to pick up my after-work coffee (no other time in my life at the moment to try for a date -_-)
 

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To update. She came back. Meh.
Saw her a few times, first time, she was pretty happy to see bf. I don't think I'm going to try to steal her, she seems pretty rooted with him (seeing how she travelled to Ottawa to see him, and speaks well of him I guess).

I have to say, I probably could take her if she was single, because I wouldn't have the limits. Meh.

Colded.
 
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