Will my gf leave me if I am a minute man?

SweetSassyMalasy

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Basically I last about a minute during sex and I have tried everything to make it last longer nothing works. I've been with this girl for 2 months now and we started having sex about a month ago and I dunno if one minute sex is gonna be enough to keep this girl. Any suggestions?
 

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Ohh I feel your pain. I'm also short when it comes to the clock turning, and it's a down side, although it's not as bad as you think it is. There are other goodies that can be done in bed with your girlfriend apart from sex. There are also other ways of making her feeling great inside, giving her pleasure... play games. :cool: If you don't know how, ask a friend or get a book. Amazing what you can find on the subject.

And hopefully your girlfriend won't dump you JUST because of this. I don't suppose your GF is with you only because if sex is she? Be interesting and make her enjoy being with you...because if she does enjoy being with you, why would she wanna stay away from you? Don't worry about it. Oh and don't be the puppy when it comes in bed, and don't ever mention this situation, and don't ever call it a problem. You just don't care...that is a key.
 

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Foreplay Foreplay Foreplay. That's all I can tell you. Learn to be good at it and you shouldn't have any problems.

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Sexual therapy. See a professional.
 

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Viagra viagra viagra............... you'll still bust after a minute but you'll be able to get it right back up. I'm 30 years old and I use them. It don't matter how drunk you are or how many condoms you have on you'll still be ready to go. Don't be one of those "macho" guys who say "I don't need that shyt". Bro the shyt works EXTREMELY well................. its the best invention since porn.
 

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Originally posted by Monster
Eat her really really good, that might help
:crackup: :crackup: not bad advice
 

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Originally posted by Damian
Foreplay Foreplay Foreplay. That's all I can tell you. Learn to be good at it and you shouldn't have any problems.

-Damian
Spot on! I'm impressed you've got this sussed at just 16 years of age when many guys go a lifetime never knowing this.

Have a look at Bluelemond's thread on sex in the tips forum for some pointers.
 

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As long as you get satisfied, who cares?
This is a defeatist attitude youngbrother and shows what little importance you have in the DJ principles.

My #1 rule when in bed with a woman is get her off first!

Serves a couple of different purposes which will only make you look like a true stud.
 

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Originally posted by SweetSassyMalasy
Basically I last about a minute during sex and I have tried everything to make it last longer nothing works. I've been with this girl for 2 months now and we started having sex about a month ago and I dunno if one minute sex is gonna be enough to keep this girl. Any suggestions?
I understand what you are going through. Although, i wasnt a minute man... i would last 15min.. at most 20. alot of girls have told me im "big"... I should feel like the sh!t right? wrong... because whats a machine gun without bullets? so... i did a lil small research and i walked into the Pharmacy.. I came across these vitamins for sexual Fitness called ArginMax... I took them for a week..... Results........... Bangin the living crap outta my girlfriend for a solid 25 min. making her orgasm 4 times until im done. awesome bargain.. only about $17. GNC has them too, so thats my advice. These arent drug pills, their vitamins for the body but its mostly for sexual fitness. MOST IMPORTANTLY,..... dont forget foreplay and get her wet in other ways before going "in".
 

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My fukkin god.............. have any of you even tried viagra................. seriously........................ don't even speak about sex until u have tried it.................. it will change your whole perspective. Fukkin christ.................... one little pill will change your life forever and you are sooooo scared to even try it.

Understand the words that are coming out of my fukking mouth............your dikk will be hard for 3 hours no matter what............ it doesn't matter how many drinks you've had, how many condoms you have on, or how many nuts you bust..... your dikk will still be hard to please the girl of your dreams.

I'm 30 years old...... 6'4" and 245 pounds, I would twist most of you fukking nerds into a pretzel................. and yes I pop a viagra every time I have sex since I have discovered it. I'm sorry to sound like an arrogant fukk but I just got home from a club and I'm drunk :D

I just really want you guys to understand that this pill will change your lives................. don't hate.................. congratulate.......................... peace. :rockon:
 
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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
Viagra viagra viagra............... you'll still bust after a minute but you'll be able to get it right back up. I'm 30 years old and I use them. It don't matter how drunk you are or how many condoms you have on you'll still be ready to go. Don't be one of those "macho" guys who say "I don't need that shyt". Bro the shyt works EXTREMELY well................. its the best invention since porn.
Uh, at your age you shouldn't need viagra. Don't try to sound macho yourself. Viagra might have long term effects that you at your young age shouldn't deal with yet.
 

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Uh at your age you don't need a million dollars..................... but would you or would you not be a happy mutha fukka if you had a million dollars? Well viagra is that good...................


Have you tried it? Please don;t speak to me unless you have TRIED it................. it IS the HOLY GRAIL of sex.............. TRY IT DAMMIT............. you only live one life.................. man up and try it.
 

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Dudes, you minutemen had better solve your problem. Take your damn time when you're boning a woman, you don't have to pound away like a jack hammer.

Go real slow while you're boning her for the first 30 minutes. While you're doing that, keep working her C.l.i.t with your thumb or finger. Bone her slowly - she'll like it alot better. If you think you're going to bust a nut, pull out - but keep working that C.l.i.t. Settle yourself down and put your nob back in. Trust me, a woman will have no problem with you going slowly, you gotta work on that C.l.i.t.

You should only start pounding a little harder when you sense she's shaking like a leaf and about to c.u.m.

Keep going and everytime you are going to bust - pull out. Over time you'll be able to last longer and longer and give her really good orgasms. Also eat that puss for about 20 minutes or longer before hand.

As someone said, lots of foreplay, don't pound like a jackhammer, go slow, and work that button.
 

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SweetSassyMalasy said:
Basically I last about a minute during sex and I have tried everything to make it last longer nothing works. I've been with this girl for 2 months now and we started having sex about a month ago and I dunno if one minute sex is gonna be enough to keep this girl. Any suggestions?
She won't "leave you" but she would cheat on you if the sex isn't up to par....I'd suggest that you masturbate (sp?) and practice releasing the tension before you ejaculate.
 

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:cry: Ohh poor bastard!! Surely, a 2 min sex is nothing. U have to reinforce or she'll look for some freak with some real shyt "drive".

Try a really hot foreplay, practice - Just practice on her and see where she loves the touch. Try variety in Bed, change positions, sometimes just let her juggle instead of you and let her,RARELY, just take charge and see where she leads the act - She'll love you for this! JUST EAT DA STUFF, MAN!!:crackup:
 
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