Today I was sitting in my office working on the computer at my new job which I got about a month ago.
I hear a knock on the door and this woman who seems a few years older then me, overweight and not my type introduced herself as Mary and ask me how do I like this job. The conversation went for about a minute and she left to do other things and I went back to my work. I have never spoken to her up until today nor have I noticed her, so I thought nothing of it.
About 45 mins later another overweight woman who I did not find attractive at all, came by to the office and introduced hereself as Beth and she told me she is dropping in a note for me and walked away.
I pick up the note and it said from Mary. In the note it says that Mary think of me as being really cute and that she wants to know what is my situation and whether or not if I am single so we can go out sometimes.
Now this has bothered me because:
1) I do not want to get involved with someone from work, I already learned my lesson. Now I need to find away to let her off easy.
2) Why does an overweight woman who is not very attractive is being so aggressive towards me from the get go? I never had that approach before where it was so fast and on the spot. I am a bit wary of a chick who I am not intrested in and never met up until today is interested in me so fast. I like to be the one who does approaches and when a chick does it, it seems wierd.
3) Now if an unattractive woman thinks that she can have a shot with me does that mean that she can sense the AFC in me? Most women who are attracted to someone tend to be nervous so if an unattractive woman who probably has low self esteem from constant rejection by attractive males shows full confidence in trying to pick me up what does that say about me?
Any advice would be highly apperciated.
I hear a knock on the door and this woman who seems a few years older then me, overweight and not my type introduced herself as Mary and ask me how do I like this job. The conversation went for about a minute and she left to do other things and I went back to my work. I have never spoken to her up until today nor have I noticed her, so I thought nothing of it.
About 45 mins later another overweight woman who I did not find attractive at all, came by to the office and introduced hereself as Beth and she told me she is dropping in a note for me and walked away.
I pick up the note and it said from Mary. In the note it says that Mary think of me as being really cute and that she wants to know what is my situation and whether or not if I am single so we can go out sometimes.
Now this has bothered me because:
1) I do not want to get involved with someone from work, I already learned my lesson. Now I need to find away to let her off easy.
2) Why does an overweight woman who is not very attractive is being so aggressive towards me from the get go? I never had that approach before where it was so fast and on the spot. I am a bit wary of a chick who I am not intrested in and never met up until today is interested in me so fast. I like to be the one who does approaches and when a chick does it, it seems wierd.
3) Now if an unattractive woman thinks that she can have a shot with me does that mean that she can sense the AFC in me? Most women who are attracted to someone tend to be nervous so if an unattractive woman who probably has low self esteem from constant rejection by attractive males shows full confidence in trying to pick me up what does that say about me?
Any advice would be highly apperciated.
