Why's She Doing This?

foomee

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So my ex dumped me about a month ago and we were still talking a little the week after, but then we both just dropped everything. I tried to initiate small talk over myspace and facebook, but she wouldn't reply back... I knew that it was over forever, but I didn't think she'd go as far to ignore me like that... we both live in the dorms at the same college, and some of her only friends are 5 other guys that I live with. My friends tell me that she still talks to them sometimes, and she even writes on their facebook walls... seeing her doing this just tears me apart. I know I have to get over her and I'm trying... but the fact that she's ignoring me just tears me to shreds... what is your advice on this?
 

Obsidian

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why would you want anything other than to cease all contact with her? Talking to her and being around her is just tantalizing yourself.
 

touge

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obsidian, that name sounds familiar... did you post on antirice?

but yeah, just get over it man... it will take time but one day you'll forget that shes even alive.
 

semperfkemall

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the less contact you have with her, the faster you will get over her and stop hurting. be indifferent to everything else, myspace/facebook crap.
 

Lion

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Have you read the bible? Read it. THe best thing for YOU right now is to forget about her.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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