Why Your 20s in an Important Time...

[KneghtRyder]

20s is an important time..why ?

I feel that you cna basically be as forward as alpha as you want...and as long as your a young looking it'll work out...you 'lll come across as a loser if you try to do that at 30-35 ..if you try to pick up girls with aggression or being forcefull.. I think that in your 20s is a valuable time.. because
if you mess up or something goes awry..they'll think its just a young guy no big deal . you always have that a back up.

but if your a 30+ y.o. -- they'll be like whats wrong with this dude he couldn't get a girl earlier..?
You will have access to the colleges and people won't think your too old in your 20s.. TRY scouting college campuses in your 30s ? ( That will definetly get campus security on your ass )

I dont know ..but youth and time are so valuable..that is why i m doing everythin in my power to get my act together and improve my skills now..

 

[Analytic]

Am gonna agree with you on this one, am 26 and already feel out of place. I know age is just a number but even if you take care of your body to looking young, it is hard to keep your mind young so we gotta make the best of the youth we got.

 

[Ricky]

Or you can be smart and focus on you in your 20's as well. Alot of guys squander away college partying and suffer the rest of their life in dead end jobs.

I for one am glad I worked my ass of in my early 20s instead of going to all the parties my buddies invited me to.

 

[Adone]

Or you can be smart and focus on you in your 20's as well. Alot of guys squander away college partying and suffer the rest of their life in dead end jobs.

I for one am glad I worked my ass of in my early 20s instead of going to all the parties my buddies invited me to.

You can always do both things: I never ever miss a party or even just say no to a friend asking me for a walk downtown, yet I focus on studying when I'm not busy having fun, and I can tell you this is more than enough if you have a good learning system.

The secret during youth is to always being busy doing something, whatever it might be. I don't even remember the last time I said or though "Ok, I have nothing to do, why don't I just lie on the couch doing nothing for a couple of hour?". Study instead, or work out, or ask a friend, or learn something on the net, or read a book, or watch a film. Whatever, but don't think that you have nothing to do, so you just do nothing, because that's what bring the majority of people not to do anything exceptional in life.

 

[STR8UP]

20s is an important time..why ?

I feel that you cna basically be as forward as alpha as you want...and as long as your a young looking it'll work out...you 'lll come across as a loser if you try to do that at 30-35 ..if you try to pick up girls with aggression or being forcefull.

Well I guess YOU don't have much to look forward to then, do you?

 

[KneghtRyder]

Well I guess YOU don't have much to look forward to then, do you?

not really... i am sure when ur 30-35 we'll find more civilized ways to pick up chicks.. just saying , when ur into 20s u can basically go wild and do whatever type of open you want ...

basically be more aggressive and forward... when ur 30 u have to think what society thinks of u , as ur getting married...u cant be a loseer..u got to get the job money more responsibilty

 

[STR8UP]

not really... i am sure when ur 30-35 we'll find more civilized ways to pick up chicks.. just saying , when ur into 20s u can basically go wild and do whatever type of open you want ...

I am 35, and although I don't "go wild" with chicks, I still manage to party with and even hook up with chicks in their early 20 and up. Your attitude is self defeating. You can get away with a lot more than you think when you are in your 30's and 40's.

when ur 30 u have to think what society thinks of u , as ur getting married...u cant be a loseer..u got to get the job money more responsibilty

I don't have to worry about what anyone thinks of me.

The generation gap between 20 somethings and 30 somethings has all but disappeared. Don't know how old you are, but it would be to your benefit to lose the preconceptions and misconceptions.