Why you no longer need to be a DJ

[gentleman193]

Once upon a time, getting laid was something. Now, it's piss. Now, it's free. You just gotta show up. DOn't believe me, read this:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A54736-2004Aug10.html

Fact is, game or not, you score. It's like playing DOOM with unlimited ammo and unlimited lives. There is no challenge.

Therefore, IMO, all of this "DJ" stuff is worthless. The prize is worthless.

~

The TRUE GAME is seduction. Pootang is nothing. But make her fall in love with you, dream about you, beg to be with you -- and then, if you feel like it, break her heart (or not) -- that is something. That, in fact, is MORE REAL TODAY, b/c the more cynical the woman the harder it is to grab her heart, to make her feel for you.

~

Interesting, it used to be women who had toplay this game with men. But now, women act like men. They are the sexual agressors, men are supposed to service them with a snap of the fingers when they shake it at us.

So I say from now on make them love you first. Then you can have whatever you want. And in the end you won't get hurt.

 

[MetalFortress]

Well that's 20-30 seconds of my life I'll never get back.

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Well that's 20-30 seconds of my life I'll never get back.

Damn... I could've used that time to watch some commercials! What the hell man?

~ivan

 

[ShortTimer]

could you repost the article here? I don't want to subscribe to the washington post

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I didn't read the article but I'm guess someone is confusing a DJ with a Player. Nothing wrong with being a player if that's the road you've chosen, but I do not believe that DJ skills will ever become worthless.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

being a DJ is not about getting laid, its a way of life not just about getting women that is only part of it, and there is also a diffrence between getting laid and being able to get in to a good relationship with a decent women

 

[Survivor]

Sorry, I don't see how this topic pertains specifically to older men.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.