It's been said a million times and must be again.
Dress better!
Do you realize how much time chicks spend getting dressed up? ALOT! Have you realized the incredible irony in this?
For the most part if a girl is attractive, guys don't care if she is in sweatpants or the greatest evening dress, they'll still go gaga for her. (Granted she does look the best all dolled up, but you know what I mean)
So the way you are dressed is so important to a girl. While a girl spends alot of time on her appearance, we don't care as much, but a girl does care more about how you dress.
The reason girls still date guys that are poor dressers is two fold 1) most guys dont' dress well so girls have to deal with the fact that the majority of guys are slobs (believe me I am a recovering slob)
2) Girls think they will eventually change a guy and get them to dress better (True in some cases but not normally the case)
To be honest, I used to think that dressing really nice was almost gay. I mean some guys would dress so flashy it looked gay to me.
But then when I started dressing flashier, I got a great response. In fact, sorry to say, I must dress nice to get this response most of the time otherwise I'm somewhat invisible to them.
Case in point, the other day I went to the gym straight from work, dressed very nicely. I got more hellos than ever before. On the way out, a girl that goes there who normally pretty much ignores me gave me a hello then she proceeded to look up and down my body. It was blatant! (And I LOVED IT).
Everybody on here looks for a quick fix. If you change one thing first, get better clothes.
I've worked out for years, that helped (when my shirt was off!), but nothing made a more dramatic impact than dressing better.
Enlist a girl with good taste now! Whether a friend or department store clerk. Trust your own taste too, just dress nicer and you will be going in the right direction!
Dress better!
Do you realize how much time chicks spend getting dressed up? ALOT! Have you realized the incredible irony in this?
For the most part if a girl is attractive, guys don't care if she is in sweatpants or the greatest evening dress, they'll still go gaga for her. (Granted she does look the best all dolled up, but you know what I mean)
So the way you are dressed is so important to a girl. While a girl spends alot of time on her appearance, we don't care as much, but a girl does care more about how you dress.
The reason girls still date guys that are poor dressers is two fold 1) most guys dont' dress well so girls have to deal with the fact that the majority of guys are slobs (believe me I am a recovering slob)
2) Girls think they will eventually change a guy and get them to dress better (True in some cases but not normally the case)
To be honest, I used to think that dressing really nice was almost gay. I mean some guys would dress so flashy it looked gay to me.
But then when I started dressing flashier, I got a great response. In fact, sorry to say, I must dress nice to get this response most of the time otherwise I'm somewhat invisible to them.
Case in point, the other day I went to the gym straight from work, dressed very nicely. I got more hellos than ever before. On the way out, a girl that goes there who normally pretty much ignores me gave me a hello then she proceeded to look up and down my body. It was blatant! (And I LOVED IT).
Everybody on here looks for a quick fix. If you change one thing first, get better clothes.
I've worked out for years, that helped (when my shirt was off!), but nothing made a more dramatic impact than dressing better.
Enlist a girl with good taste now! Whether a friend or department store clerk. Trust your own taste too, just dress nicer and you will be going in the right direction!
